It *is* high . . . I've figured part of it out. I took that number from Personal Capital, which doesn't always classify things correctly (for example, my dividends are automatically reinvested, but PC classifies that as an expense), or recognize expenses I get reimbursed for (about $10k in work travel this year, $780 for phone). Subtracting the things that shouldn't have been included, I'm down to about $60k. Which is still high.
(I initially included more detail, but I edited because I'm not comfortable having all of that information in public. I am comfortable sharing that my mortgage is $24k ($1,800/month + taxes), I went to the eye doctor too many times, spent a lot of money on groceries (despite not eating meat) and on utilities (despite keeping my house at 60 degrees & colder at night), gave more money than usual this year to charities/political campaigns/go-fund-mes, and spent a lot of money on my dog, who recently passed away. I haven't accounted for $10k in expenses, which I will track down somehow.)