Hello, there. Dipping my toes into the waters of this thread.
My DH and I have >$3.5M invested assets. I FIRE'd almost 4 months ago from a 26 year career in the power generation industry. Loved the technical challenges and the team, hated the 24-7 stress of being connected to work. DH works for the federal government and enjoys working. He also has is able to work from home 2 days per week, and has a lot of flexibility in when he earns and takes time off. I am enjoying spending more time with our very active sons and other family members as well as gardening and focusing on wellness.
To me, our story to make it to this thread has been fairly simple. It's a combination of hard work, smart decisions and luck. DH and I were married 18 years ago and from the beginning we have made good decisions with our money, putting away for retirement and investing in taxable accounts. Our hard work (and luck) got us good paying jobs. We have had some other luck in that I had a fantastic bonus structure while I was working.
Along the way, we probably wouldn't be mistaken for Mr. Money Mustache...I've never biked to work, we buy new (with cash) cars, and we purchase services we could do ourselves (ie house cleaning, oil changes and haircuts). But I feel like we do work to make sure when we spend our money, we feel like we get value from it. We love to use coupons, we over analyze before making large purchases, and we do not feel the need to keep up with the Joneses.
I want to echo what I have read a lot on this forum...the first million seems to take forever. Now with this net worth, the investment growth is at a rate where we haven't even felt it the affects of losing my income.
Loving life.