just popped in to say happy Monday, and welcome to December. Plows just went down my street.
I really like this thread, it feels like a more moderate thread than some of the others. Folks have their opinions but are open to other points of view or at least agreeing to disagree. Pay off the mortgage, don't pay it off, buy a new car, never buy a new car. It's a thread for people who can 'afford it', but are choosing where and how to spend their money.
Because I put a dollar value to DH defined benefit pension, I've been a member of this thread for a while, but with market gains the last week, we officially have more than $2 million of investable assets and I can finally call myself a millionaire (DH and I agreed years ago that we need 2 million of liquid assests as a couple for us to call ourselves millionaires). $2 million is our number, although, now that I'm here, OMY has kicked in. I like my job, he hates his, he's retiring at the beginning of next summer (2020), I think I'll hang in until spring of 2021, assuming the job stays fun. I like what I do, who I work for and with, if that changes, FU money kicks in. I may even try going down to 3 days a week, although I fear that would just mean working 5 days and getting paid for 3 (I have some boundary issues, and the nature of my job - there is almost always a crisis to work on, and I tend to getting really involved - I love a good puzzle, and I'm very very good at it)
Part of the reason for my OMY syndrome - we're in the process of building our 'dream' home in a vacation area, I know there will be lots of extra costs once the house is finished and we've moved in next summer.....dock, boat, replacement cars (mine is 16 years old, his 13), landscaping, some new furniture.
I've designed our retirement budget with three buckets -
1) bare bones, not fun, but we have food and heat
2) live like we live now - a pretty good life
3) Fat FIRE - take the trips we want, buy the things we want get a new car every 7-8 years etc
My plan is if the economy has an off year, we drop down to option 2 until things recover....if the apocalypse happens, we drop down to option 1, we get better at gardening, and huntin' and fishin'.