I'm kind of enjoying being FI-not-RE. Having an income is great, but knowing that I can walk away from it is liberating also. I'm happy that we have kept our spending in check over time, and we're at fat-FIRE levels these days, so working allows the stash to do its own work, and we add to it, and meanwhile we can do the things we like to do without any concerns. I still sometimes want RE, and who knows, maybe I'll choose that option sooner rather than later, but I think what I like best about FI is the ability to choose the obligations I take on, even through work. And meeting those obligations becomes more about integrity and good relationships than about the need for money, so I don't have to sell my soul for the dollar.
ETA: I do worry that I'm becoming increasingly out of touch with the economic reality for most people. Even people I work with who have had salaries larger than mine and for longer, do not seem to have the long term investment assets and short term cushion that we have. They could, but they chose differently. I'm finding I need to be careful before spilling to much.
I do have a couple friends who have 7-figure net worths and similar lifestyles (make a lot and spend a lot less than they make). It's nice to be able to compare notes on taxes or investments or other things without judgement. I can't do that with some other friends who are kind of just getting by, or with the couple of friends who make so much more and spend so much more that it's just sort of sensitive and difficult to talk about.