True confession time; hold the face punches, please. We use a money manager. After much research during my single days, I found someone whose philosophy is mustachian enough for me. When DH and I married seven years ago, we combined our resources under the same advisor. DH had begun to balk at their fees, usually around tax time. I knew we could DIY this, but having a widely diversified portfolio that I do not manage directly saved my ass in 2000 and 2008. Anyway, because I'd had an account with Vanguard through a previous employer in my maiden name (long since rolled over), we hit a glitch. The result of which is that it just didn't get done.
In down times, I can and do easily avoid checking balances, because I know they are being managed by someone far more competent than I. Personal history has shown that a widely diversified strategy really helps when the market tanks. This morning, over breakfast, DH and I were discussing how all the gains during the Trump Administration have now been erased. We then discussed how much worse off we'd likely be if we had completed the move to Vanguard (Nothing against Vanguard. We just would have DIY'd a much less diversified portfolio.) DH blurted out how much our portfolio has dropped. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that we are down far less than the stock market as a whole, and that we still qualify to be in this club. Cool!
In other news, our Donor Advised Fund is with Fidelity, and 100% in stocks. Damn, I wish I'd issued some checks in early February!. Ouch. Fortunately, it's not large, and not part of our NW calculations. Neither is the small inherited 401k I have, which is also all in stocks. It was my plan to roll the RMD's into the DAF. I guess I still can, but dang, I don't want to look at the balances! I think I'll ignore them both until Q4. Perhaps our outstanding charitable commitments will just be cash flowed this year. MPP, for sure.