Heated Seats: Opinion
So I'm not a "lover" of heated seats, but things are changing. For one, sometime after hitting 40, I started to actually "feel cold." Like, my ears get cold and then start to hurt. I feel chill. I wear sweatshirts and big coats. This didn't used to happen! Also there are very different "heated seats" depending on the car. My 2014 Silverado actually had the best. 3 levels of heat, separately, for your back and your butt! And the levels were good. Pretty darn warm, plenty warm, and just warm enough. Some cars have like "way too hot, OK that's still pretty hot, it's too warm but it's OK for a minute."
In our Mazda, the first setting is great when you're super cold, but after it gets up to full warmth I have to dial it way back down to the low setting.
My Polestar 2 pre-warms the seats and steering wheel, and then I leave it on the lowest settings.
Heated Steering Wheel: Opinion
I've worn "driving gloves" for the past like 8 years but... heated steering wheels create heat and pass it along to cold fingers. It's also "already there" so in some ways, it is a simpler solution compared to gloves ;) But in this weather, with my walk from the parking lot to the office (8-10 minutes), I'm wearing gloves anyway. Still enjoy the heated steering wheel when it's 15° F outside and I'm ready to be warmed up.