It's time I join this Cohort. June 6, 2022 is my Army retirement date and we will be FI then, a month and a half before my 38th birthday(two months before my wife's 39th, our kids will be 6 and 4).
I've waffled on whether it would be my FIRE date or not because the pension won't start until I'm 60(2044). I spent over a decade in the regular Army and when I resigned(FU Money) I figured I was pushing out my real retirement. However, the spreadsheets say we will be FI by then, so here I am.
I'll probably keep earning my grad student stipend for a few years afterwards, because it's lots of fun and feels like a retirement already.
I jumped into the Cohort in 2018, and just made a commitment that locks me in. When I joined I had left the Active Army for the Army Guard (civ: quit my full time job and started doing the same thing part time) and had started graduate school. Since then I finished a master's degree, started a PhD - and then was told I was deploying (civ: involuntarily full time for a total of about 15 months, with about 9 months overseas).
That full time military stint is ending next month. I committed to attend a 4 month military school in 2022, May to August. I'll keep the part time Army job for about three years so I can't 'vest' at my next highest paygrade, and as long as I don't volunteer for anything I will work 2-3 days a month and a few weeks in the summer for the next three years.
We are 'skinny fi' ('stache=25x avg annual spending for the last 4 years) since last year.
We will be 'fat fi' (buffer to pay kids college etc) when I finish that course in August.
I have a VA disability rating that I count in our 'stache and I'll start receiving a pension that covers 'skinny fi' in 2043; the 'stache only has to last 21 years. Because those two benefit die with me I will carry life insurance throughout, and have that factored in.
It has been really tough to be away from my wife and kids for the last 9 months, but it's nearly over, we added 100k (on top of market gains) to the 'stache, and I got to command an infantry company overseas for a year (which checks the MMM badassity block).
The tough part is leaving my academic program - it's a great gig, with great people, interesting and meaningful work. We have been growing our 'stache deliberately since about '12-aimlessly since '07-and now I have the amazing privilege at hand of spending mountains of time with my kids while they grow up. I'm sitting on the email to my advisor letting him know I'm not coming back, hesitating to send it. It is the right thing to do, and it's what we've been working for, but before this deployment I thought I would hit FI somewhere along the way to completing the PhD, complete it and RE. I've learned that I can't say yes to everything I want to do, kind of like with these fat 'staches we've got. Most of us could buy anything, but not everything, and I want to buy time with my wife and kids.
I just re-read the whole cohort thread, what I love is the variety in 'exits'. For the most part RE does not seem to be happening for folks in that "I hit 25x, walked out, and never looked back' way. We are all taking little detours and twists that fit the realities of our lives. It's always good to have a cohort, even when going though something good.