Forcing private citizens to do things that are against their deeply held personal or religious beliefs? Not so much.
I mostly agree with everything you said, but I'd like to discuss this statement for a moment. This is just a thought exercise and isn't directed at you personally. I have two hypothetical scenarios:
1) What if it was my deeply held person belief that I didn't want to pay taxes any more - would that be acceptable? I'm a surgeon and it's my deeply held personal belief that my patients never receive blood transfusions and several of my patients (who do not share that belief) have died because of it. Is that acceptable? How about this - it is my deeply held personal belief that everybody with blue eyes is really the devil and I decide to start shooting them in the street. Hopefully that's not acceptable.
Now my next scenario:
2) A group of people come into power in the government that decide that it is not acceptable to eat sushi any more. I happen to love sushi, but ok, I can live with that. Next the same group of people decide that it's not acceptable to buy any type of shoe except Converse (chosen at random). Probably not a big deal, but may be a little annoying. Finally, the same group of people decide that any one that's not of Scandinavian descent can no longer attend college. That's probably going to be a problem.
Both of these were taken to the extreme to illustrate a point. Now let's extrapolate this into the current topic.
1) I'm Christian and I believe that people that fall in love with someone of the same sex is not able to be seen as equal under the law and are therefor not allowed to get married.
2) I'm gay and the government says that I'm not allowed to visit the love of my life in the hospital or have a decision on whether to pull the plug.
Notice that in all of my #1 scenarios, the person holding the belief drastically affects people that don't hold that belief. All of my #2 scenarios the person being affected is powerless to change the circumstances that happen to be repressive. So my opinion is that you should NOT be able to act on any belief that you have. If it doesn't affect anybody other than yourself in your own house then YES do whatever you want. But when people's beliefs start becoming law that's a huge problem for me.