3: Many here have suggested one should be informed and ask questions of their doctors and do all the "right stuff" with regards to vaccines. These same people have then remonstrated anyone who does not simply accept the doctors advice at face value and get every vaccine they are told to get. This seems.....odd to me.
Have to respond to this.
Someone a bit later talked about using resources such as WebMD in addition to their doctor. I brought some papers with me to discuss with the doctor I saw. She took them and said I needn't worry about that and she knew what she was doing.
I tried the medicine she prescribed, didn't work (or rather, it kinda worked but not fully, and I didn't feel "right"). Fed up, I ordered the medication I wanted online (for those curious, I got propranolol for high blood pressure). I figured out the dosage myself by how I felt. Once I felt like the dose was correct, I went back and saw another doctor. He said my blood pressure was perfect. I've had it checked several times since then, same. Yeah, I tried the ACE inhibitor (got the cough), then the ARB. My issue was my heart was beating too fast and too hard, and beta blockers would take care of both. Anyways, I told the new doctor what I was taking, he couldn't find it in his database, I explained I got it overseas, and he said "don't show that to me" and gave me a prescription for the closest equivalent.
Another interesting example. Wife had gestational diabetes with first two kids. In the US, the standard treatment was to, of course, try a diet counting carbs. When that stopped working, the first medication used was glyburide. That's one of the main medications for gestational diabetes, the other is metformin (glyburide basically helps your body make more insulin itself; metformin blocks absorption of sugar, kinda like Alli does for fat). One can take insulin shots, but that's not the first thing they try. She took it with both pregnancies and was able to successfully manage her blood sugar levels.
In Australia, the only options were metformin or insulin shots. They stressed that she needed to be eating more carbs than she was (she was eating too few, and sugar levels were still too high), but wanted her to take medication that blocked absorption of sugar??!! Well, we got some glyburide for her, and they freaked the fuck out. It was dangerous, not proven, it could cause low blood sugar and possibly kill the baby. That doctor was pushing her to take insulin shots, which has THE SAME DAMNED SIDE EFFECTS! Heck, the possibility of side effects is arguably higher. Take glyburide and eat dinner at 8pm instead of 6pm because a kid fell out of a tree and you rushed him to the doctor? No problem. Take insulin for your 6 o'clock meal and don't get to eat until 8? You're gonna have problems.
There's plenty more examples. There's a drug here (Australia) that's prescribed to increase lactation if you're having issues, it's called Domperidone. Proven to be safe. Try getting that in the US. You can't (not if you're breast feeding). One person may have had an issue with it, one of those "already had other issues, not sure if the specific drug was at fault" kinda thing. Now no doctor will prescribe it due to liability concerns.
Another point:
Often, just one person saying something will cause a snowball effect, whereby that statement is taken as fact. Person A has an opinion. Person B respects Person A's opinion, so now Person A and Person B have the same opinion. Person C sees that Person A and Person B (both people that he/she respects) and joins in. Person D sees that three smart and reputable people agree with the statement, so he/she joins in. Eventually you get to Person ZACD who believes it because of the hundreds of thousands of people who agree.
I've seen this happen on a smaller scale (on a larger scale as well, but it's easier to study in miniature). Person A had an opinion, Person B said "sounds good", Person C respected Person B's opinion (and to a lesser degree, Person A) and Person D went along with all of them. They told me that several people were in agreement, when it all boiled down to one person.
So, maybe the science is there for vaccines. I believe the benefits outweigh the risks. But I'm not going to take a single doctor's word for it, or even a thousand. It's easy to manipulate study findings, misrepresent, and getting a few people on your side to start a snowball effect. I'm going to do my own research thank-you-very-much.
*As an aside, my wife did a report regarding vaccinations for her post-grad degree. I rely heavily on her expertise, but I still do some of my own research. Don't tell her that I have any doubts about her abilities :)