I've only posted on here once as I recall. But I wanted to tell someone this news since I have no one I can tell who appreciates what we're all planning here.
I plan to give my notice next week and work my final day on 12/29 with vacation time taking me to 1/19/2024 in order to get the HSA contribution. I spoke to HR about separation and whether I would have to pay it back if I left too early in the year. They said no. So, I'm set to get the pay out with the second pay period, which means I officially quit Friday, 1/19/2024.
Anyway, I've been on a roller coaster of emotions about finally resigning. I've hit all my goals and done the math a million ways and it still works out. I'll be fine. But it's hard picturing myself not answering to someone. I've been in school, working or both since I was 5 years old. 51 years of obligations and demands. How do you just wake up and have the whole day, week, month, year, the rest of your life to do what you want? It's surreal.
I've also found these last months the most stressful of my career because I'm fighting apathy as I look to the exit. And apathy in my line of work can get people hurt. This is why I'm giving the equivalent of 6 weeks notice. I'm hoping they start transferring my caseload to others over the coming weeks in order to provide continuity of service to our clients. In the unlikely event that they say, ok cool, you can leave now, I'm ready for that, too.
Best of luck to everyone as you all move into your last year.