The pandemic accelerated our FI plans. The rich, broke or dead calculators that showed me I was 4x more likely to be dead rather than broke* was the final straw. Besides, if the world really is going to hell in a handbasket, wouldn't I be better off building strong local connections and trying to effect change in my community than working more in the hopes that a slightly fatter stash is going to save me? I'm not a billionaire, I can't buy my own island, I need to commit to the people and place that I live with.
*where 'broke' means living on the state pension and where we will still be better off than a lot of people because we have a paid-off house.
I'm late saying so, but this post gives me hope for humanity.
Back on the topic, adding my anecdata - according to the math I could have pulled the plug before COVID, but both wanted to move & had a hunch local MCOL costs were about to rise sharply, so decided to trade part of savings for a reduction in future housing expenses first (taking on very cheap debt in the process - so far this bet seems to have worked out.) I've ended up OMYing twice since then during the pandemic. In part, the very social face-to-face things I wanted to do in the early days of RE were on hold anyway, & working remotely somewhat reduced the intense suck associated with my job, but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't about significant fear.
I'm glad that it gave me a chance to continue contributing into the present dip - I did not want to quit into the tail of a long bull run. The relief of almost a dozen fewer hours in the motor-throne-gauntlet car commute each week has also given me time to consider the prospect of other, less intense work rather than pushing to the finish line & quitting cold-turkey, which seemed so necessary before, & for all the reasons already addressed in this thread is a better cure to SORR fears:
...Time can be harnessed to dramatically amplify the value of your savings.
So say you have a soul/body destroying corporate job and you save about 1M by your mid 30s. You live on 40K/yr.
You "retire" and need that 'stache to support you forever including an increase in health costs later on.
You could work a few more years and pump that 'stache up to 1.25M and create a negligible difference in your long-term SORR risk.
Or, assuming your professional skills are useless to you (unlikely), you could retrain in an area you enjoy and work casually to generate 20-40K/yr while just keeping yourself busy and engaged in your life. ...
(Except for a smaller 'stache & much lower lifestyle spending this could have been written directly about/ to me. I do mostly lose access to my profession if I quit, but also part-time is inconceivable in our workaholic professional culture, so retraining is probably the way forward. That idea felt impossible a couple of years ago: I was running so far in the red I thought I'd be laid flat out for a few years if I stepped away from the constant cortisol rush propping me upright through sheer internal pressure. I'm still pushing through unresolved burnout now, but I think the active infliction of damage is mostly halted. Figuring out what I want to learn still feels like an impossible ask - but actually learning it does not. I just need a divinely revealed epiphany of profitable vocation... or some way to try new things on very limited spare time with very minimal spare energy. :/ )
OM-OMY still calls, though. I'm between MMM & ERE on the expense front; I can only expect my spending to increase from here. Despite inflation, my total outflows (about half to housing, now mostly locked-in) have hardly changed in years, but I've had mostly good health, which I can't rely on to last forever while aging. There are no family resources or pensions for me to expect later. Owning a roof brings new liabilities I have little experience with & our climate is already getting weird.
So I've stuck it out mostly because I don't have the confidence in my ability to earn out soon enough on the opportunity cost of quitting, & don't want to hate myself later - either over a bad outcome (even if it's mostly luck) or a badly-made decision (made while my thinking was still clouded by the heavy "fog of work," as Nords put it.) Nonetheless, I'm enthusiastic for anyone here who did manage to FIRE in the last two years. I rarely recall reading & thinking someone's declared 'stache was too small to bear market risk. Instead I remember thoughts that a poster's expenses sometimes seemed high (which is a layer of safety in disguise, assuming they're mustachian enough to cut down in response to need.)
You do not need this.
It took me two years of retirement to figure out what I wanted to do, and I tried out about a half dozen things along the way. Failed miserably and SPECTACULARLY at one of them.
I'm reading a great book right now called "range" all about how people undervalue the critical sampling phase of accomplishment.
Whatever path you took to your current career didn't work out well because it's burning you out. That means that for complex reasons, you learned to lean way too much into using resources that you don't really have. You learned to shape yourself to your job-box, not figure out how to find work that was shaped for you.
You have to sort of relearn how to figure out what you want to do.
Go back to the drawing board and start sampling again, but do it with a different intention. Instead of approaching it with "what do I need to do to be good at this work" try and figure out what skills you naturally thrive doing, what environments you naturally work well in, and what useful skills you can carry with you from each thing you try.
You don't have the resources right now to figure out what next. It doesn't work that way. It's going to take time, and investment in getting to know yourself and testing your capacities and abilities.
I can tell you this though. If you think part time work is hard to come by, you aren't seeing an entire world of possibilities. There might not be a lot of part time "jobs" but there are endless possibilities for part time paid work, in virtually every industry.
Every single company has gaps of talent that they could really benefit from, but can't afford to fully hire. You just have to learn who would value a bit of your skills the most and make yourself available to them.
Assuming you're cool with new skills, then the world of part time work is, IME, larger, more diverse, and more dynamic than the world of full time jobs. Full time jobs tend to be quite limited and constrained to a more predictable structure. Flexible jobs is really a better name for it than part time, because it's more like work that *can* be done part time, and they tend to be almost limitless in what they can entail and what structure they can take.
In the end, there's no rush to figure this shit out. You have plenty of money and can take your sweet time doing it.
All you need is a rough target of what you want to be able to generate. Then take whatever time you need to figure out the most optimal way to do so. Don't neglect the sampling period, it's what allows you to develop the skills and judgement you need to understand what your available assets are and how best to utilize them.
This isn't something to stress about (although you will), it's an opportunity to figure out what you are *actually* good at. And I don't mean what job you can force yourself to perform well at. But what work is genuinely challenging and a good use of your capacities.
It exist, but it's not easy to find. It takes a lot of sampling and understanding yourself.