So then why would you be willing to work far more hours for low pay in the future? I can run a quick calculation and OMY at my current job is worth at least 5, possibly 10 years income from a low-skill job... Plus I guess I get enough respect and autonomy (especially in the current flexible work environment) that I can run errands whenever I need to during the week. Sure I don't have 100% freedom yet, but having the possibility of needing to work in the future doesn't sound very free to me either.
As Malcat points out though, I know I'm fortunate to have found a great job that I'm not in a rush to flee from. If I were coming up on 40 instead of 50, I'd be more than happy to put in another 10 years...
Because those "more hours"...
1) might never even happen. So I'm trading a sure thing of working, for a possibility of working. That's already an upgrade.
and 2)
The will be on my own terms. If I'm in a walking group that meets on Tuesdays, I don't work Tuesdays. If I want to meet my parents in Mexico the second week of March, if doesn't matter that March 31 is year end for someone. I get to claim that week and go. And I can choose projects that I don't mind doing, like substitute teaching at a private school where I know the kids to be well-behaved, or walking dogs I know not to be asshole canines.
I don't know if there's another different way to explain that, so if it isn't making sense to you, I think we'll just have to acknowledge that we aren't going to get to an understanding. I can see why people would make a different choice, but that other choice makes no sense at all for me. Even though I didn't hate working. Because while I didn't hate my work, I love not-working a lot more than I loved working. I love strolling the trails behind my house during the weekdays when almost no one else is there (and I can feel fairly comfortable taking my reactive but not dangerous dogs). I like going to the hardware store when it isn't crowded and I can find someone to help me is I need assistance. I liked being able to travel with DH when he traveled for work. (harder since we got dogs) I like being able to visit my parents and spend more than 3 days with them, especially as they get older. I like all those things, a lot. And not working allows me to have them. There is a possibility I'll have to go back to some kind of work later one, but I have a lot of relief valves I can open before then. And if I do have to work for a while, it will be something where I can still walk and go to Lowes and visit my parents when I want to.
That sounds much better than definitely sitting at my desk for another year.
This earlier comment by EV2020 stuck with me, so I’m glad you came back to it Villanelle.
Of course I’ll start with the caveat that it’s a personal decision and several factors will come into play, and different people will find a different strategy is most optimal for them.
Both of my siblings, my wife and I have all reached similar conclusions. We all genuinely enjoy our careers, which we spent over a decade aspiring to. For us, our take-home pay and our lifestyle are such that we can sock away roughly 30-35% each year towards retirement. It works out that each year we work “full time” we add another half a year’s planned spending in retirement. I say “full time” because while a work-year is supposed to be 2080(ish) hours, salaried employees such as ourselves easily work 2,400 hours when you add up all the special project overtime, meeting clients and answering ‘urgent’ questions outside work and other things that bleed into our precarious work-life balance.
So why would we be willing to work more commutative hours vs simply staying in our career another year (or two)? Because those hours are not equivalent.
My wife and I realized quite by accident how fundamentally different things can be when we were impacted by furloughs. As much as we
absolutely love our jobs they take an enormous toll on every aspect of our lives, including our health, marriage, hobbies and project, cleanliness of our homes and quality time with family. When we dropped to 4 days per week it was mind blowing how much more time and energy we had for everything else. And at three days/week it was an entirely different universe. We no longer thought “when we have time…” because we had more waking free-time than work time. Oddly, work became something that we not only enjoyed, but we woke up on work days eager to do the thing we genuinely love to do
with an enthusiasm that was blunted when it was a 40+ hour requirement. We literally had a 4-day weekend just around the corner, every single week.
Most telling for us (and here’s where it becomes very different for each individual) the math worked out something like this. When we went to this very part time of 3 days/week we ‘lost’ quite a bit of income, both from hours worked (-40%) but also from not hitting work thresholds for contracts, which was considerable. In total our gross wages were cut by about 60%. We ‘gained’ about 1,200 hours of work time which became our time. We also saved several thousand $ annually with our reduced commute and time to do basic things we were forced to outsource. Also important, our taxable burden dropped to near zero as our AIG plummeted. Largely out of necessity we couldn’t contribute hardly anything to our retirement accounts, which sucked during our accumulation years but becomes very important in this discussion.
To summarize, we lost about 2/3rds of our income when our hours went down by 40%. Critically (and through a long list of ‘savings’) we found we could meet our expenses this way, backstopped by our already considerable savings to weather ‘really bad things’..
So in the end the decision looks something like this. Work ‘OMY’ (or two, or three…) at our current job (which we love!) or downshift and work
several more years at reduce pay and severely reduced hours. To us the decision’s always favored the part-time, lower paying job.
Sure, if we worked one more year we’d pile another six-months expenses into our retirement accounts plus market gains, but it comes with a pretty heavy cost - namely another year where the dominant focus is on our job. On the other end of the spectrum, working part time met our expenses, and also came with another year’s market increase (decrease). At this point in my financial journey the movement of the markets has a much large impact on my NW than any savings I can add even when working maximum hours.
For me personally,
I’d rather work 5 years of part-time, reduced pay over another intense 1 year fully time at my job which i love..
Put another way, those five years of working would total ~2.5x more hours than working OMY, but I’d wind up in a much
better financial situation, a much healthier life situation, and I’d enjoy those hours spent working much more. And so this is being ‘baked in’ to our ER plan right now.
And while this might be completely naive, I don’t want to trade an entire year at 40 for several partial years throughout my 40s.