I have never heard the Parable of the Poor Widow (a profound lesson in giving, compassion, and eternal rewards) related and then a response given of, "Jesus and the widow are dumbasses." That's the saddest thing I've heard all month (unless the Jordanian pilot was burned alive this month, then it's a close second to the saddest thing I've heard).
I see no profound lessons or eternal rewards here.
Please explain what is sad about it? I still see no good refutation of the facts that:
1) Someone poor giving away all of their money isn't a good idea - assuming they need to actually... I don't know... eat and live?
2) A few cents of giving is worth less than large amounts to those recieving the chairty
Jesus should have said "Hey poor widow, nice gesture but you can't help others (for long) if you can't even feed yourself." and "Hey rich guys, thanks for helping out! Try to help out more!"
Then I would have no problem with the parable.
Instead he is chastising the people giving away significant quantities because he apparently can't compute that lots of money > little money. The relative amount given compared to the wealth of the giver means nothing to those receiving the aid - the people receiving the charity is who Jesus should care about the most.
I tend to always look at results.
e.g. Let's say you're starving and some other starving person gives you 2 pennies - all that they had, you are still starving and they are still starving. Are you better off with that or better off with a rich dude dropping $1k in your lap even though it's 0.001% of his wealth? Now you can eat and you can get the 2 penny guy some food too - a much better result. That's how I look at it.
So yes, if someone poor (i.e. can't make ends meet) gives away all of their money, I consider them a dumbass.
If someone encourages poor people to give away all their money I consider them a dumbass as well.