@norabird and went through my belts again to get rid of another one. The belts are pretty redundant and unused; I must have changed up my wardrobe since the time when I felt the need of them. I hope to be able to let go of one or two more by the time I'm ready to send in my next thredup bag.
I find the same thing - my wardrobe preferences and style changes and then I no longer wear or use things I once coveted and lived-in in the past.
What I found, now that I am done clearing out my side of the closet is that I own a lot of washed out, tired tops really only suited for nightwear or gardening. Too many to keep, yet I am reluctant to let go.
But I am not giving in to the urge of keeping them all - this is a purge and a purge it will be.
I am reminding myself to keep only items that I really like, that fit well and are in good condition. Solution - keep maybe max five total. I bought a lot one year and now they are all wearing out at the same time. I know I will never wear those tops out of the house again - so I really need to let them go if I want to have air and space again.
Bonus or reward: I get to buy three new short sleeved tops and I already have a couple of gift cards to my favorite stores - so it will be free new clothing:)
I didn't want to run out and randomly purchase new clothing, especially since I indulged in three new maxi dresses for a change from my usual attire - that I am delirously happy with it turns out:). They are solid colors, t-shirt style which lends itself to endless opportunities to accessorize and they are beyond comfortable.
Good thing I put off any purchases - because the other discovery is, that I literally only own two nice short sleeved tops.
The rest of my tops are sleeveless with only one new addition last year and maybe six the year before, so I plan to add one new sleeveless top and perhaps a new short, because it's Florida and you can never have enough shorts and sleeveless tops for summer. All in all I am donating a lot more than I am keeping - so that is a good thing:)
Not done sorting the pants, steeled myself to get rid of all those capris that I never wear - they fit me like a saddle on a sow and were a complete waste of money - just not a good look on me. No new capris either, but I need one pair of black jeans. My last pants purchase was two years ago when I hit pay dirt and bought several pair at once. So one new pair is all I need and in my book, one new pant in two years is definitely frugal:)
Long sleeved tops - sorted out a few, keeping the rest - no need to buy new, our cold weather season is too short to justify buying much. Wearing out what I have for now.
Dresses - I really like dresses, but I have had a hard time unlocking myself from the "suitable for work at the office" mindset. I am retired in Florida for gods sakes - why do I need to wear or even own a corporate uniform?
In my delusional state, I bought party and work clothes, neither of which I have much occasion to wear any longer, but they are mostly timeless styles, so I'll keep the ones I can wear to dinner or a wedding or a party. Sorted out the last of the "office uniform".
I will look around for some fun sundresses and resort wear style clothing - probably will buy one of each to put a little pep in my wardrobe.
Shoes - still sorting out. Will look for a new pair of low heeled black sandals and pick up a pretty new pair of flip-flops for fun. That's all.
Whew - thanks for helping me sort out my thoughts and needs y'all.
Back to finishing with my side of the closet - hallelujah.