Since I initiated this thread, I have now applied to a few potential positions around my area. I was also sought out by a recruiter for a company in NC. We are in the middle of the interviewing process, I have had one phone interview a few weeks back and will have another one this week.
The company is in the same industry as I am currently employed but they will compensate me far more generously because of the size of the company.
I am looking to get around $85k - $90k, which is significantly more than I make now, and the COL is about 20% less than where I am in NH. it would essentially feel like they would be doubling my current salary.
Considering that most of my family is deceased, aside from my brother, I have nothing holding me down. My gf and I have been talking about the move and if they were to give me an offer, should I accept, she would go with me. However, she would greatly miss all of her family which she has a great bond with.
Personally, I'm little terrified moving that far from home as I've been in NH for my entire life. Her on the other hand has lived from NY, to CA, to VT, and now NH.