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« Reply #5650 on: October 18, 2018, 04:49:35 AM »
If they are small businesses, you may be able to talk to.them about how they are registered with card companies.

None of them are small enough for that, I'd guess. The only one I buy from regularly is a big international corporation that is publicly traded on the NYSE, so I assume they're very unlikely to listen to some rando emailing them about 35 cents in credit card rewards. :-)

Maybe if you sent it to them in the form of a silly picture?

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« Reply #5651 on: October 18, 2018, 08:33:58 AM »
If they are small businesses, you may be able to talk to.them about how they are registered with card companies.

None of them are small enough for that, I'd guess. The only one I buy from regularly is a big international corporation that is publicly traded on the NYSE, so I assume they're very unlikely to listen to some rando emailing them about 35 cents in credit card rewards. :-)

Maybe if you sent it to them in the form of a silly picture?

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« Reply #5652 on: October 25, 2018, 01:30:31 AM »
It's almost 11.11, also known as Singles Day (Nov. 11) in China, which is a huge shopping day -- I guess retail therapy makes people feel less sad that they're still single. My MPP is that I can't think of a single thing I want to buy to take advantage of all these deals. I need to spend around $100 on Taobao (online shopping platform similar to eBay but bigger and better) to get a $20 discount.

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« Reply #5653 on: October 25, 2018, 04:56:29 AM »
Company is spinning to a new company June of 2019 and they are starting an HSA where they give you $600 for the HSA each year.  I have had an HSA for years with no company funds added.

I plan to retire at or before May 2019, so I will never see that money. 

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« Reply #5654 on: October 25, 2018, 06:23:18 AM »
1 month after my first daughter started state college last year, they announced a new grant program, offering 4 years of paid tuition for incoming freshmen and transfer students, beginning the following year. Qualified applicants needed to meet family maximum income requirements, which we do as a FIRE family. The program apparently used no taxpayer dollars.

In order to qualify, my daughter would have had to transfer schools mid-semester and take a minimum amount of credits second semester to remain a freshman. Another problem: due to her taking AP classes all through high school, she was considered a sophomore after the first semester, so she would have had to withdraw out of just enough classes to remain a freshman, but not too many to qualify for a transfer to another school. All this would lead to a 1 year delay in her degree, probably costing more in lost income than the tuition savings.

On top of all that, we have been contributing $3,000 per year to her 529 plan that has grown to enough funds for 4 years of state tuition, room and board, so she doesn't need the free tuition anyway.


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« Reply #5655 on: October 25, 2018, 10:57:28 AM »
Just got a letter form CRA about a readjustment due to pension buyback. My total contribution room for 2018 RRSP is now $269.... That's not going to help a lot when I go do my taxes for 2018! lol The downside of working hard to max everything out I guess.

Also, good thing I hadn't contributed anything yet this year. I don't know how much of a hassle that would have been to sort out.

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« Reply #5656 on: October 26, 2018, 02:29:30 PM »
1 month after my first daughter started state college last year, they announced a new grant program, offering 4 years of paid tuition for incoming freshmen and transfer students, beginning the following year. Qualified applicants needed to meet family maximum income requirements, which we do as a FIRE family. The program apparently used no taxpayer dollars.

In order to qualify, my daughter would have had to transfer schools mid-semester and take a minimum amount of credits second semester to remain a freshman. Another problem: due to her taking AP classes all through high school, she was considered a sophomore after the first semester, so she would have had to withdraw out of just enough classes to remain a freshman, but not too many to qualify for a transfer to another school. All this would lead to a 1 year delay in her degree, probably costing more in lost income than the tuition savings.

On top of all that, we have been contributing $3,000 per year to her 529 plan that has grown to enough funds for 4 years of state tuition, room and board, so she doesn't need the free tuition anyway.

This is something I worry about. I plan to put $200/month into my son's 529 when he is born but would really hate to pay extra taxes (and maybe even penalties) on that money if college is free or he can get college paid for some other way. My state offers free tuition to community college as it is. I might just be better off putting that money into my retirement fund and cash-flowing his college in 18 years instead.

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« Reply #5657 on: October 26, 2018, 03:16:30 PM »
1 month after my first daughter started state college last year, they announced a new grant program, offering 4 years of paid tuition for incoming freshmen and transfer students, beginning the following year. Qualified applicants needed to meet family maximum income requirements, which we do as a FIRE family. The program apparently used no taxpayer dollars.

In order to qualify, my daughter would have had to transfer schools mid-semester and take a minimum amount of credits second semester to remain a freshman. Another problem: due to her taking AP classes all through high school, she was considered a sophomore after the first semester, so she would have had to withdraw out of just enough classes to remain a freshman, but not too many to qualify for a transfer to another school. All this would lead to a 1 year delay in her degree, probably costing more in lost income than the tuition savings.

On top of all that, we have been contributing $3,000 per year to her 529 plan that has grown to enough funds for 4 years of state tuition, room and board, so she doesn't need the free tuition anyway.

This is something I worry about. I plan to put $200/month into my son's 529 when he is born but would really hate to pay extra taxes (and maybe even penalties) on that money if college is free or he can get college paid for some other way. My state offers free tuition to community college as it is. I might just be better off putting that money into my retirement fund and cash-flowing his college in 18 years instead.

For a scholarship, You can get the money out without paying the penalty, but the withdrawal will be considered income for the year. Of course, an IRA has the same benefit.


From saving for college website:

2.   You can avoid the penalty if you get a college scholarship.
There are a few special exceptions to the 10% penalty rule, including when the beneficiary becomes incapacitated, attends a U.S. Military Academy or gets a scholarship. In the case of a scholarship, non-qualified withdrawals up to the amount of the tax-free scholarship can be taken out penalty-free, but you'll have to pay income tax on the earnings. As Savingforcollege.com founder Joe Hurley likes to say, "the scholarships have turned your tax-free 529 investment into a tax-deferred 529 investment".

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« Reply #5658 on: October 26, 2018, 06:30:04 PM »
Sign,

Getting a letter from your mortgage company saying they miscalculated the escrow payment and your mortgage payment will be $0.12 less each month and having to deposit a refund check of $1.38.  Thank goodness for mobile deposit at least I just had to open my bank app and take some pictures not actually go to a branch.

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« Reply #5659 on: October 26, 2018, 06:35:17 PM »
Sign,

Getting a letter from your mortgage company saying they miscalculated the escrow payment and your mortgage payment will be $0.12 less each month and having to deposit a refund check of $1.38.  Thank goodness for mobile deposit at least I just had to open my bank app and take some pictures not actually go to a branch.
Ha ha ha ha ha!!!  This one is my favorite now!

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« Reply #5660 on: October 27, 2018, 04:38:40 AM »
My favorite part of my current job is developing project ideas and applying for funding. The implementation phase is boring - so I'm completely happy to let other people do that part and take all the credit for the results. I do not need the fame and glory, since I have no career ambitions.

The MPP: One of my projects is nominated for a prize, and my coworkers and boss is trying to force me to attend the fancy dinner and be one of the people who receive the prize on the scene, and be on photos in newspapers. I would much rather spend that time at home, developing new project ideas or reading about new grant types. Luckily we are a organization run by politicians. I'm sure I can get one of them to go in my place. Boss might still need some convincing; maybe I could get a cold?

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« Reply #5661 on: October 28, 2018, 08:39:22 PM »
One of my good friends is from a family that is basically pure gold. The mom just adopts everyone who might need adopting. I am one of those she's adopted. Problem is, they insist on getting me gifts for birthday and Christmas. Except, that things I would actually want (gift cards to home improvement stores, donated labor, etc) are not considered to be acceptable gifts. So I have no idea what to tell my friend, who has been delegated to find out. (She knows what I actually want, and told me that her mom would nix it. She gets it.)

So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

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« Reply #5662 on: October 28, 2018, 09:00:44 PM »
One of my good friends is from a family that is basically pure gold. The mom just adopts everyone who might need adopting. I am one of those she's adopted. Problem is, they insist on getting me gifts for birthday and Christmas. Except, that things I would actually want (gift cards to home improvement stores, donated labor, etc) are not considered to be acceptable gifts. So I have no idea what to tell my friend, who has been delegated to find out. (She knows what I actually want, and told me that her mom would nix it. She gets it.)

So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

something that only comes from a store with a no hassle return policy??

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« Reply #5663 on: October 28, 2018, 09:21:43 PM »
So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

What I do with my family (who are big on We Need To Buy You A Thing for the holidays) is experiences. Depending on how close you are with them you could make it a thing you all do together (a day at a museum, dinner out at your favorite restaurant, a cooking class, etc.) or a thing you can do on your own (concert or theater tickets, etc.). That way it's definitely a fun thing and not overly practical (which is what people like that object to) but you don't end up with something you don't need in your home that you have to pretend to like forever.

My other tactic is consumables: fancy chocolates, liquor/wine, etc. Stuff you'll enjoy that is fun, but won't be a thing that you own forever.

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« Reply #5664 on: October 28, 2018, 10:58:49 PM »
I go for a fancypants version of something I would need anyway. Fancypants shower gel, fancypants food of some kind, fancypants socks. (Not fancypants pants, though!)

But awwww, that is a great MPP to have.

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« Reply #5665 on: October 29, 2018, 05:47:01 AM »
(Not fancypants pants, though!)

he he he. you is funny :)

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« Reply #5666 on: October 29, 2018, 07:22:03 AM »
Agree on asking for something edible or useful. I would go for chocolate or olive oil for editable and a nice shower gel for things I use.

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« Reply #5667 on: October 29, 2018, 07:58:45 AM »
I got a notification at work that there was a change in the 401k funds. Sweet! There are a bunch of terrible options and relatively few index funds, let's see what's going on!

A Vanguard fund changed from the Plus share class to the lower-cost Select share class.

I got all excited for NOTHING.

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« Reply #5668 on: October 29, 2018, 08:07:31 AM »
I got a notification at work that there was a change in the 401k funds. Sweet! There are a bunch of terrible options and relatively few index funds, let's see what's going on!

A Vanguard fund changed from the Plus share class to the lower-cost Select share class.

I got all excited for NOTHING.

We got a similar notice in the mail from my wife's retirement plan. Vanguard fund went from Admiral to Institutional. Wow, a 0.005% improvement! Maybe do something about your 0.5% administration fee first, because that 100x as bad!

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« Reply #5669 on: October 29, 2018, 08:11:43 AM »

So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

Have been working toward less consumerist gifting.  Here's some things I've found that work well:
-a book / game / movie they enjoyed in the past year.  Bonus points if it's second-hand
-a framed photo
-something they made.  I've gotten plenty of homemade foodstuffs, crocheted afghans, handmade thank you cards.  I've given homemade foodstuffs and paintings.
-Socks.  I can always use more socks.


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« Reply #5670 on: October 29, 2018, 09:03:21 AM »
Practical items don't qualify either. So socks (which I actually need) are out. I'll probably google the movies that came out this year, find one I want to see but haven't, and ask for that.

My family does practical items quite happily. So I can get socks from my mom.

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« Reply #5671 on: October 29, 2018, 09:55:18 AM »
I also have someone in my life who is averse to practical gift giving (but she's getting better!).  At some point, you may have resign yourself that the gift giving is at least as much about them as it is about you.  Whatever they give you, accept it graciously.  Use it if you can, or give it / donate it to someone who might appreciate it.

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« Reply #5672 on: October 29, 2018, 10:21:47 AM »
I also have someone in my life who is averse to practical gift giving (but she's getting better!).  At some point, you may have resign yourself that the gift giving is at least as much about them as it is about you.  Whatever they give you, accept it graciously.  Use it if you can, or give it / donate it to someone who might appreciate it.

Oh, I know. I actually return or donate most of what they give me without saying anything. The gifts aren't what I really value - it's the open door, the fact that I can ask if they can stop over to feed my cats when I'm going to be out late, etc.

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« Reply #5673 on: October 29, 2018, 10:37:04 AM »
I also have someone in my life who is averse to practical gift giving (but she's getting better!).  At some point, you may have resign yourself that the gift giving is at least as much about them as it is about you.  Whatever they give you, accept it graciously.  Use it if you can, or give it / donate it to someone who might appreciate it.

Oh, I know. I actually return or donate most of what they give me without saying anything. The gifts aren't what I really value - it's the open door, the fact that I can ask if they can stop over to feed my cats when I'm going to be out late, etc.

Aw, that's awesome!  Yay for good friends!

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« Reply #5674 on: October 31, 2018, 07:57:27 AM »
My 401k contribution is going into the market today. I was really hoping for one more day of downturn for an even better sale price, but the S&P 500 went up yesterday :( 

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« Reply #5675 on: October 31, 2018, 08:30:22 AM »
Today was sudden-death "pick your health care plan for next year" day at work.  I work for a medium sized well-intentioned company, trying to do the right thing by its employees, that's changing plan providers this year.  I did some simple math, like MMMs do, and had questions.  So many questions.  Turns out I was the only employee to ask to see the "booklet" referenced but not included in the single-page pick-now document.  No one could find said document.  HR rep (forgive her, she wears many, many hats) put me on the phone with the insurance agent.  Also turns out, I know more about HSAs than the insurance agent. Aaaaarrgh!

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« Reply #5676 on: October 31, 2018, 08:47:31 AM »
The "cash-poor" season is beginning for me. For the last couple of months of the year, I will be setting aside cash to deploy immediately in the new year toward IRA and spousal IRA.  And, in the new year, I will be front-loading my 401k, with 60% of my gross paycheck going toward that, until the IRS maximum is reached.  I won't have decent cash-flow to play with until almost spring-time....


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« Reply #5677 on: October 31, 2018, 09:01:23 AM »
meeting with work related retirement specialist who slowly , so slowly, explained compound interest to me.
I asked if she was acting as a fiduciary,
no...
but we do have these fidelity funds you can buy

I'm paying 0.12% now at vanguard, what is the cost?

a little over 2% but that's negligible

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« Reply #5678 on: October 31, 2018, 09:07:02 AM »
meeting with work related retirement specialist who slowly , so slowly, explained compound interest to me.
I asked if she was acting as a fiduciary,
no...
but we do have these fidelity funds you can buy

I'm paying 0.12% now at vanguard, what is the cost?

a little over 2% but that's negligible

---I'm mad I did not politely walk out b4 end of her shpiel

Oh, wow. What an obvious shyster!

I hear you on not politely walking out when you know something is over, but instead sticking around out of...politeness? Maybe out of some futile hope to find a way to make it work? It's tough to learn when to give up on something and head for the exits; something I'm certainly working on doing these days.

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« Reply #5679 on: October 31, 2018, 09:37:59 AM »
1 month after my first daughter started state college last year, they announced a new grant program, offering 4 years of paid tuition for incoming freshmen and transfer students, beginning the following year. Qualified applicants needed to meet family maximum income requirements, which we do as a FIRE family. The program apparently used no taxpayer dollars.

In order to qualify, my daughter would have had to transfer schools mid-semester and take a minimum amount of credits second semester to remain a freshman. Another problem: due to her taking AP classes all through high school, she was considered a sophomore after the first semester, so she would have had to withdraw out of just enough classes to remain a freshman, but not too many to qualify for a transfer to another school. All this would lead to a 1 year delay in her degree, probably costing more in lost income than the tuition savings.

On top of all that, we have been contributing $3,000 per year to her 529 plan that has grown to enough funds for 4 years of state tuition, room and board, so she doesn't need the free tuition anyway.

This is something I worry about. I plan to put $200/month into my son's 529 when he is born but would really hate to pay extra taxes (and maybe even penalties) on that money if college is free or he can get college paid for some other way. My state offers free tuition to community college as it is. I might just be better off putting that money into my retirement fund and cash-flowing his college in 18 years instead.
or start a trust in his name

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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #5680 on: October 31, 2018, 09:39:08 AM »
getting my scholarship slashed bc I had too many assets (they were investments I scrimped and saved for while making $7/hr)

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« Reply #5681 on: October 31, 2018, 10:50:04 AM »
My glasses broke 3 months before the purchase of new glasses was planned and now I probably won't reach my super ambitious savings goal for this year :( If the market goes down any more than this I will barely even make my mildly ambitious savings goal. (Of course I did meet the goal I set on Jan 1st, based on last year's savings, by the summer)

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« Reply #5682 on: October 31, 2018, 11:27:57 AM »
One of my good friends is from a family that is basically pure gold. The mom just adopts everyone who might need adopting. I am one of those she's adopted. Problem is, they insist on getting me gifts for birthday and Christmas. Except, that things I would actually want (gift cards to home improvement stores, donated labor, etc) are not considered to be acceptable gifts. So I have no idea what to tell my friend, who has been delegated to find out. (She knows what I actually want, and told me that her mom would nix it. She gets it.)

So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

I always suggest consumable treats in such circumstances. Depending on price range, a fancy bottle of rum, fancy cheese, wine, etc. Something I don't have to keep around too long and will enjoy savouring but that I probably wouldn't get for myself.

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« Reply #5683 on: October 31, 2018, 03:05:56 PM »
getting my scholarship slashed bc I had too many assets (they were investments I scrimped and saved for while making $7/hr)

Boo hisss.  I understand needs based, but hampering responsible is silly.

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« Reply #5684 on: October 31, 2018, 03:31:50 PM »
getting my scholarship slashed bc I had too many assets (they were investments I scrimped and saved for while making $7/hr)
Here, they would call that a bursary or a grant, not a scholarship.

 Scholarships here are solely based on merit (volunteer or academic) and not based on how much "need" you are assessed.

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« Reply #5685 on: October 31, 2018, 07:05:41 PM »
One of my good friends is from a family that is basically pure gold. The mom just adopts everyone who might need adopting. I am one of those she's adopted. Problem is, they insist on getting me gifts for birthday and Christmas. Except, that things I would actually want (gift cards to home improvement stores, donated labor, etc) are not considered to be acceptable gifts. So I have no idea what to tell my friend, who has been delegated to find out. (She knows what I actually want, and told me that her mom would nix it. She gets it.)

So, what do I want for Christmas? I have no idea.

I always suggest consumable treats in such circumstances. Depending on price range, a fancy bottle of rum, fancy cheese, wine, etc. Something I don't have to keep around too long and will enjoy savouring but that I probably wouldn't get for myself.

That would be lovely, except I eat to live, not live to eat. I'm more than happy with a tub of cool whip, baby carrots, and nilla wafers (literally).

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« Reply #5686 on: November 02, 2018, 02:04:22 PM »
My glasses broke 3 months before the purchase of new glasses was planned and now I probably won't reach my super ambitious savings goal for this year :( If the market goes down any more than this I will barely even make my mildly ambitious savings goal. (Of course I did meet the goal I set on Jan 1st, based on last year's savings, by the summer)

Do you not have access to something like Zenni Optical? My basic (reading glasses*) prescription was $19 for two pair, delivered.

Yes, I bought the cheapest frames and declined all the add-ons.

*Yes, I could use the $5 generic reading glasses from the store, but these give me better reading vision. Well worth it.

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« Reply #5687 on: November 02, 2018, 03:19:30 PM »
My glasses broke 3 months before the purchase of new glasses was planned and now I probably won't reach my super ambitious savings goal for this year :( If the market goes down any more than this I will barely even make my mildly ambitious savings goal. (Of course I did meet the goal I set on Jan 1st, based on last year's savings, by the summer)

Do you not have access to something like Zenni Optical? My basic (reading glasses*) prescription was $19 for two pair, delivered.

Yes, I bought the cheapest frames and declined all the add-ons.

*Yes, I could use the $5 generic reading glasses from the store, but these give me better reading vision. Well worth it.

Please no.

https://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/antimustachian-wall-of-shame-and-comedy/overheard-at-work/21100/

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« Reply #5688 on: November 03, 2018, 05:04:45 AM »
AND......to get things Back On Topic...

My MPP today is that part of my job involves schmoozong and chitchatting and discussing the latest bands and movies and TV shows, but because I donít watch TV or know the latest movies, my work life is now suffering. Recently, someone asked me what the most recent movie I watched was, and I said ďAvatarĒ. They looked at me very sadly.

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« Reply #5689 on: November 03, 2018, 05:36:05 AM »
My glasses broke 3 months before the purchase of new glasses was planned and now I probably won't reach my super ambitious savings goal for this year :( If the market goes down any more than this I will barely even make my mildly ambitious savings goal. (Of course I did meet the goal I set on Jan 1st, based on last year's savings, by the summer)

Do you not have access to something like Zenni Optical? My basic (reading glasses*) prescription was $19 for two pair, delivered.

Yes, I bought the cheapest frames and declined all the add-ons.

*Yes, I could use the $5 generic reading glasses from the store, but these give me better reading vision. Well worth it.

Please no.

https://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/antimustachian-wall-of-shame-and-comedy/overheard-at-work/21100/

Yes, that's what I thought as well ;-)

I picked up my new glasses yesterday and I'm really happy with them. The nicest frame in the store and extra thin lenses with all the add-ons set me back Ä425 and that's a small price to pay for good vision.

But what I'm most happy about is that the expensive store I went to recently invested in a fundus camera and now offers fundus photography as a free service to all their customers. When I picked up my glasses I was also handed a referral to the eye doctor because they picked up some irregularities on the photo. It seems I have inherited my mum's eye condition that could lead to blindness, left untreated. So I'm very happy they picked it up in a very early stage.

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« Reply #5690 on: November 04, 2018, 11:37:59 AM »
AND......to get things Back On Topic...

My MPP today is that part of my job involves schmoozong and chitchatting and discussing the latest bands and movies and TV shows, but because I donít watch TV or know the latest movies, my work life is now suffering. Recently, someone asked me what the most recent movie I watched was, and I said ďAvatarĒ. They looked at me very sadly.

Very familiar. I am the only person at work who doesn't watch Netflix and doesn't have a bunch of perscriptions on commercial TV channels. I also seldom watch movies.
I am also the only one who goes camping in the summer.

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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #5691 on: November 07, 2018, 10:13:33 AM »
Another MP:

Due to a cross-state move, home purchase, and expenses related to setting up a home office (I got a new work-from home job), I've had minimal cash flow to invest during this market pullback.  It's kind of sad watching the market rebound without having made my monthly investments.

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« Reply #5692 on: November 07, 2018, 10:27:33 AM »
Iím afraid I have a couple of Mustachian People Problems. I now walk to work where I used to drive. The walking is between 5-6 miles a day depending on which route I choose. I also get to walk through the country so there isnít much traffic and the air is clean. Itís hard to see an issue. Itís cheaper, great exercise and Iím in the great outdoors. However one of the benefits of driving to work was that youíd get to recognise the same people walking their dogs and waiting at bus stops. This would soon turn into a friendly interaction, maybe a nod or a cheery wave. I always think this is good for the soul.

However in walking to work I donít pass all these people, as I go the country route. The only potential interaction I have each morning is with these six horses that stand about in one of the fields. They are six of the most miserable horses I have ever had the misfortune to meet. I give a cheery wave and say ďmorningĒ every day and never once have I had a snort, wink, or shake of the tail in return. They look at me as if Iím a complete idiot. I miss my friendly interactions on the way to work even though I know itís far better to walk than drive.

My second Mustachian People Problem, a year into finding MMM, is that Iím finding Iím getting weirder and weirder compared to the majority of the population. For example this week I have had to start early at work. To save time in the morning I have taken my breakfast to work. Now this may seem strange but Iíve had the same breakfast bowl for 34 years. It cost me 8 tokens collected from packets of cereal and £1.50 for postage back in 1984. I was 7 at the time. The main issue is that the bowl has childrens cartoon characters on it along with the 1984 time stamp. I found at work that people were a bit judgemental on a now 41 year old eating their breakfast from a childrenís breakfast bowl.

I do completely understand that itís not normal to non-Mustachians, to celebrate your breakfast bowls 35th birthday, but next year I have plans!

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« Reply #5693 on: November 07, 2018, 11:03:10 AM »
wow! go breakfast bowl

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« Reply #5694 on: November 07, 2018, 11:10:42 AM »
May I suggest bringing six apples with you on tomorrow's journey.  Take one out as you pass the field and wave it about.  When they all come trotting over, feed each an apple.  They'll come over every day after that, so make sure to mix it up with a carrot now and again.

What might those plans be?  A cereal retrospective?  A night on the town where you go to a diner in the morning and ask them to use your bowl to serve a hangover cure?  After 35 hard working years will you finally let the bowl FIRE and put it in a place of honor in the cupboard?  Or perhaps a well deserved promotion to dinner bowl?  Inquiring minds need to know!

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« Reply #5695 on: November 07, 2018, 11:29:35 AM »
Nah, the bowl loves its work, it'll never be happy in retirement.

I think it'll be a 1980's cartoon-themed party.

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« Reply #5696 on: November 07, 2018, 11:30:47 AM »
Thanks for the suggestion but those miserable horses donít deserve such kindness. If they canít be civil out of the kindness of their hearts then Iím not going to bribe them to be nice to me. I would just feel empty.

Put the bowl in a cupboard? Would you do this to a small child or the family dog? No, no I could never do that. Iíve had friendships that havenít lasted as long as this. I was thinking of perhaps mixing up my cereals to give it a change and using only the freshest milk. Plus I could purchase itís very own washing up bowl that nothing else gets washed up in.

However youíve got me thinking bigger. Perhaps New York? A selfie at the top of the Empire State Building followed by a walk in the park. Itís never been used to hold a bagel before. There are all sorts of possibilities really. I think Iím going to have to put a lot more thought into ensuring I mark this occasion properly.

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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #5697 on: November 07, 2018, 11:31:57 AM »
May I suggest bringing six apples with you on tomorrow's journey.  Take one out as you pass the field and wave it about.  When they all come trotting over, feed each an apple.  They'll come over every day after that, so make sure to mix it up with a carrot now and again.

What might those plans be?  A cereal retrospective?  A night on the town where you go to a diner in the morning and ask them to use your bowl to serve a hangover cure?  After 35 hard working years will you finally let the bowl FIRE and put it in a place of honor in the cupboard?  Or perhaps a well deserved promotion to dinner bowl?  Inquiring minds need to know!

Perhaps a lavish catered party for 250 of your closest friends.  Make sure there are lots of cut flowers, custom decorations, an 80's pop band and of course clowns!  Can't have a party without clowns!

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« Reply #5698 on: November 07, 2018, 11:52:01 AM »
Thanks for the suggestion but those miserable horses donít deserve such kindness. If they canít be civil out of the kindness of their hearts then Iím not going to bribe them to be nice to me. I would just feel empty.

Put the bowl in a cupboard? Would you do this to a small child or the family dog? No, no I could never do that. Iíve had friendships that havenít lasted as long as this. I was thinking of perhaps mixing up my cereals to give it a change and using only the freshest milk. Plus I could purchase itís very own washing up bowl that nothing else gets washed up in.

However youíve got me thinking bigger. Perhaps New York? A selfie at the top of the Empire State Building followed by a walk in the park. Itís never been used to hold a bagel before. There are all sorts of possibilities really. I think Iím going to have to put a lot more thought into ensuring I mark this occasion properly.

It's because those horses haven't been shown kindness that they're miserable.  Be better than their owners, throw them an apple.  Nothing like the feeling of an animal with all that power eating out of your hand.

As for thinking bigger, now you're talking.  Let us know how you end up marking this momentous occasion.

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« Reply #5699 on: November 07, 2018, 11:55:11 AM »
Nah, the bowl loves its work, it'll never be happy in retirement.

I think it'll be a 1980's cartoon-themed party.

The bowl is more cautious than me and has a target 0.0095% withdrawal rate, so wonít be retiring soon. I like the thought of a 1980ís cartoon themed party.

Perhaps a lavish catered party for 250 of your closest friends.  Make sure there are lots of cut flowers, custom decorations, an 80's pop band and of course clowns!  Can't have a party without clowns!

This all sounds good although I fear in such chaos the bowl could be broken.