What about this fourplex in Reno instead?
https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/590-Denslowe-Dr_Reno_NV_89512_M22598-89404?from=srp-list-card
It looks like rents are $1,300 so if I live in one of the units it'd be $2,500/mo out of pocket. That's obviously a lot more than renting the equivalent but at least I'd be building equity.
If you're going to buy an investment property and become a landlord, then evaluate potential properties as rentals first. It's fine to live in one of the units, very nice way to keep an eye on the other units. Think of the unit you occupy as imputed rent. But make sure above all else it's a good rental.
That said, the fourplex you linked to (on the surface) isn't a good investment property. With all four units rented it's cash-flow negative on the mortgage alone, even worse with other expenses like insurance, maintenance, etc.
To be transparent with my biases, which come through in my comments on other threads, I prefer cities like Reno over resort towns like Incline Village. So I personally find the idea of living in Reno better, but that's me. Just know the trade-offs involved. Incline Village has a pretty alpine vibe, with easy access to the lake and skiing and so on. But you also get resort town prices, resort town crowds, less dining options, and limited healthcare. Reno is a high desert climate, so hotter summers and milder winters with much less snow. Way more to do, lots of diverse dining and entertainment options. Much better access to healthcare. For me, day-to-day living is way better in Reno.
If I were buying in Reno my plan would be to look for a small house/condo/townhouse near Midtown. Walkable and bikeable with good restaurants and away from the casinos. Tahoe is a short 30 minutes away, though the problem with Tahoe is that it's so ease to access from the Bay Area's ~8M people. So I would probably make more use of stuff that's slightly further from the BA (though closer to me) and less impacted. Such as getting a season pass at Mt Rose and mountain bike the trails up that way, north of Reno, and towards Carson City. Or going to the Eastern Sierras between Mono Lake and Tahoe... an easy 1.5 hr drive from Reno but much more difficult to access from California's population centers.
But again, this is all based on my preferences. You do you. Whatever you decide, I still believe you don't need to rush to buy something immediately. Instead, I would take some scouting trips in different seasons. Explore different neighborhoods, get a sense for the vibe. And start watching and learning the market.