I'm in a dilema. We have been spreading the Mustachien good word for a while now and have made some life changing financial decisions over the past couple of years. We are healthier than ever, blood pressure and cholesterol are perfect and we have no real stress anymore except for what else could we trim to get to FI even faster and what to do with all of our excess funds - which if you ask me is a great place to be in.
I have people around me that I see sinking even further into the consumerism black hole, even after bankruptcies but in the same breath will doubt our financial resurrection. We have become "Mustachien Snobs" to some extent, but I have no intentions of changing from our new found freedom.
My question is how do you keep from becoming "The annoying guy who never shuts up about financial freedom, who is always trying to make suggestions to save money." I'm starting to feel like the overweight spouse who now is on a diet so EVERYONE should be on a diet, only in our case its a financial diet.
I was at a company sponsored lunch the other day with my direct supervisor, who is in his late 50's as is his wife and both the nicest people you will ever meet. Both have many health issues, like to eat out 6 days a week, spend like there is no tomorrow and have no plans on getting to retirement. Now I am 39, wife is 37 and we have plans for FI in 3 years and depending on some factors, plan to "retire" 1-3 years after FI. He believes that I am day dreaming, since we are 20 years younger with three kids and this and that. It's very frustrating seeing such nice people struggle, but you can lead a horse to water but ......
In addition, we are friends with a couple whose wife has come down with some pretty serious cancer at a very young age (late 20's). In a good faith effort to help them out, we offered to pay their utilities for a year to give them some financial relief. Their response was "You have three kids and this and that, so thank you but we couldn't put that financial obligation on you." I truly believe that us becoming Mustachiens is to help our friends out, but people are so blind that they believe everyone else is in the same boat with money.
We have made suggestions to those around us on how to save money, mostly by example. We throw out suggestions such as the MMM $10 IPhone plan - then get the typical response - "Is it unlimited?" - Ummm, of course not for $10! - "Well, then its not for us. For $10 the service must suck." Can people really be that ignorant of their finances or have we become Mustachien snobs?
I believe we are seeing things in a different light now, wanting less, enjoying our lives more and it's obvious to those around us by their comments of "You seem happier now..." or "You didn't pick up the new IPhone 5, thats not like you!" but they still go about their lives as if their in the Matrix and we have been set free. It's very, very frustrating. We feel like aliens that just fell to earth and landed in the middle of New York City!