$115k is close enough to our income in NYC that I can describe the standard of living it'll get you: no car, a 2 bedroom apartment in Queens (rented for most people, we got lucky and were able to buy under a narrow set of circumstances), infrequent meals out, a non-working wife and infant, no vacationing, and enough savings to max a 401k, two IRAs, throw whatever we can into a self employed retirement account, and that's about it. That sounds really whiny, but it's not. We're doing well, I'm happy with our savings (when we had DINK money our SR was a lot higher, but that's a given) and the things I dislike about our lives here wouldn't be fixed with more money. Having a non-working spouse is a pretty awesome thing all on its own.