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Will you spend less as you age?
« on: February 07, 2025, 07:14:32 AM »



Someone in the withdraw strategy thread that typically your spending tends to decrease as you age.  Do you think you will?  If you are an older retiree, has that been your pattern, or do you see it among the older people in your life?  And for those who spend less, is it because they have the funds but no desire to spend them, or are they spending less because their income limits them, so they are making sacrifices they otherwise wouldn't.  (I think those are very different situations, with different lessons to teach us.)

I see people here say this a lot and I'm wondering how accurate the "you'll spend less as you age" concept really is, especially after you account for people who have to spend less, vs. those who just end up not wanting to spend. 

I look at my parents (early 80s, quite healthy for their ages) and I think they spend more than they did 10-15 years ago. Some of that is just that they've realized they have a ton of money and even though they want to leave a generous amount to their children, they realize they can spend more.  So they skip off to the beach in Mexico or the Dominican Republic for 7-10 days 2-3 times a year now. (Dad took us all on vacation when he was 70 to do his last scuba dive together with his daughters, and then he retired his scuba fins for good, but they still like laying on a beach and reading a book with a drink in their hand.)  These are fairly modest trips (and my parents are among the few people who get more than their moneys worth out of a timeshare, partly because theirs allows then a choice of multiple locations, and because they actually use it), but I'm sure they spend several thousand.  Occasionally they take their 2 daughters and 2 sons-in law, and then it's even more expensive. 

They also have a weekly housekeeper now, since mom prefers to save her energy and joints for playing tennis.  They outsource pool care and lawn care.  (They still spend a fair amount of time in the yard trimming bushes or tending tomatoes or picking lemons, but the weekly tasks are done by a service.)  Mom even likes the occasional massage for her aging body, though of course she found the most mustachian way--a massage therapy school with cheap student massages and a senior citizen discount.  I think she pays $40 for a 50 minute massage, and she goes every 2-3 months).

They pay $1000/yr for a "conceirge" medical practice, which just means they can actually be seen when they need it and they have a doc who spends more than 5 minutes in the room with them.  Their insurance and medicare cover the visits but the fee to get on the docs limited roster is OOP.

These are things they never would have done when I was a kid, or even at the start of their retirement.

There are more examples, but I'm pretty sure they are spending more now than they did once they stopped paying for college for kids (thanks so very much for no student loans, parents!), and certainly more than they did once they moved to a lower COL area. And that's without any major medical expenses or care, and with having great medical insurance (retired military) in addition to Medicare. 

Is this truly atypical?  Do most seniors really spend less, and is that just because so many are on limited incomes and they must spend less?  (MIL likely spends less now as she aging--almost 80--but that's because she has very limited funds so she has to. She's in the "can't turn on the a/c even though it's 80 in the house, because it's expensive" phase of her life.)

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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2025, 07:20:34 AM »
The spending on vehicles, sports, vacations, clothes and goods tends to slow down in the 80s and 90s, however these can be quickly offset  by healthcare costs (home care, nursing home, etc) which can run $10-20k/month.

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« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2025, 07:34:09 AM »
Its going to depend. Lack of mortgage, commuting costs, work clothing, etc will certainly decrease spending. Decreased appetite which can happen as you age will decrease food costs. If you're eating at home more rather than going out, that will save money.

Health issues or mobility problems can reduce costs (because less travel or only travelling to see family), but the medical costs will go up.

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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2025, 07:36:23 AM »
Maybe for a little while.  End of life care tends to be quite expensive though, and when I get as senile as Trump I want to have the means to support myself so I'm not a burden to my family (or country :P ).

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« Reply #4 on: February 07, 2025, 07:53:34 AM »
My family has a lot of people that made it into their 90s. Everyone of them has spent a lot less as the aged. Now these are all in countries with public single payer health care. The majority of my annual spending in retirement is sport related and travel related plus a mortgage that will get paid off by the time I am deep into senior life. So I expect to be spending a lot less then as well. Which is funny because that's when my Gov't benefits will kick in and I'll be getting probably $20K more per year to spend on top of all those lovely senior's discounts.
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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #5 on: February 07, 2025, 07:56:54 AM »
On a small digression, I’m glad they got a cleaner if it’s apparently otherwise entirely your mom’s responsibility rather than a shared one…

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« Reply #6 on: February 07, 2025, 07:57:37 AM »
I guess it all depends on how one reacts to aging. Last year my wife and I did a 20 hour flight to Africa in economy class, as we get older, I can't see us doing that again, but does it mean not ever going on long flights (cheaper) or going in business class (more expensive).  For now, I still do most of the maintenance on my over-sized home myself. As I get older, I will probably either hire someone to do it (more expensive) or downsize to a more modest home that is easier to maintain (cheaper). I really haven't decided how I will tackle these problems yet but it's nice to have the option to go either way.

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« Reply #7 on: February 07, 2025, 08:00:09 AM »
I am planning on my spending to vary considerably. I inject this into my models with planned increases and decreases at various points. I then walk through every year of retirement starting at various years to think about what I would do. There's a lot of value in that I think, if only to not tighten the belt or go back too early. For all the comfort we get in 4% or 3% or whatever, most of us will have years where our regular withdrawals shoot up to 7-11%. That's with retirement years that are successful, even ending with multiples of our starting value. I think the value in having a more realistic view of lifetime expenses is in this exercise and in realizing your best life may in fact cost a little more on average than your life at 29. From my modeling I don't think the sequence of expense matters too much to portfolio survivability as long as you're close to a retirement smile. I.e. a simple model taking the average you expect to spend doesn't spit out too different of results.

One conservative (high $) model for me having two kids and buying an expensive house, starting from my current 33k annual spend. Is it right? No idea. You can see the (inverse) smile as traditional retirement age approaches though this was made bottom up.
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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #8 on: February 07, 2025, 08:06:34 AM »
OP I am like your parents and I now spend a ton of money because I have it. Hell, I buy red raspberries in the dead of winter. How do ya like THAT!

I am sitting here looking at something I spent $250 on without careful research and I hate it. I’m going to give it away ASAP to get it out of my house. Only objects I like are allowed in my space.

Lots of indulgence goin’ on here in senior Boomer land.
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« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2025, 08:10:21 AM »
I'm spending a bit more. Charitable contributions have increased substantially. I'm also paying for things that I might have done myself in the past when I was less creaky - plumbing repairs are out now that I can't wedge myself into tiny spaces without something going into spasms.

I didn't travel much before and still don't. I had one bad year healthwise where I actually hit my (high) deductible. Medical costs and in-home assistance are going to be bigger expenses going forward, but if I've planned properly I should be OK.

I think my parents spent less as they aged. They had some type of health insurance that supplemented Medicare so they never had high medical costs (same as what's available now? Not sure). They had long-term care insurance too, which has gone the way of the Dodo.

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« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2025, 08:28:11 AM »
I envision a U-type curve.  I am hopeful that in our early years, we will travel quite a lot.  We're already doing that with the freedom of being FI and having kids out of the house, but they're still mostly shorter trips.  I am looking forward to traveling for a month or more at a time.  I am also at the peak of the hedonic adaptation curve, because knowing we're FI + still working makes it pretty easy for me to loosen the reins.  Of course, that's going to be offset by having college completely paid for and the mortgage paid off, so the overall money outflow might not change.

But I imagine after a while, the fun of that will likely wear off, either because the novelty is gone, or because aging will make it less pleasant/enjoyable.  At that point, I can see us doing what my dad does now:  mostly staying at home doing hobbies, coupled with paying for big family trips and helping grandkids with college.  Again, how much will the drop in travel be offset by higher-cost less-frequent trips and grandkid stuff?  Who knows?

And then when we're really old, I imagine travel and lifestyle stuff will drop dramatically, but medical costs will go up, along with help-to-stay-in-my-home costs.  Our plan has us hitting 100 with $500K left to address my unreasonable bag lady fears.

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« Reply #11 on: February 07, 2025, 08:58:13 AM »
OP I am like your parents and I now spend a ton of money because I have it. Hell, I buy red raspberries in the dead of winter. How do ya like THAT!

I am sitting here looking at something I spent $250 on without careful research and I hate it. I’m going to give it away ASAP to get it out of my house. Only objects I like are allowed in my space.

Lots of indulgence goin’ on here in senior Boomer land.
I love that one recent example of "going wild" spending on this board was someone buying the apples they actually like vs. the reduced ones. Now we have iris lily throwing all caution to the wind buying fresh raspberries in the winter ;)

OP, I have certainly seen my parents' spending decline as they get older, mostly due to poor health. They are 5-10 years younger than your parents, but have reduced mobility and lower energy. They do eat less given their decreased activity levels. Spending on doctors and meds is WAAAAY up, but still nothing like paying a mortgage, car payments and frequent dining out.

Obviously, this is not an ideal outcome. Your parents' lifestyle sounds way more fun! But it is a reality for lots of people as they age.

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« Reply #12 on: February 07, 2025, 09:33:52 AM »
When people say that you'll spend less as you age, it's under the assumption that in early retirement you're spending a significant on travel, hobbies, restaurants, etc. and that those things will decrease as you age. If you aren't currently spending much on those things, expect spending to only go up with medical costs and eventually end of life care.

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« Reply #13 on: February 07, 2025, 09:45:41 AM »
I suspect the trope that people spend less in retirement is a baseless story that people use to justify their leanFIRE plans. Sure, a frail 90 year old in a nursing home is likely to spend less partying than an energetic 65 year old splitting their time between houses, but there's a huge difference between retiring at 70 and retiring at 35.

All the senior generations in both sides of my family spend a lot more than they used to when they were young. They're tremendously generous with others, which is a nice thing to aspire to.

The last thing I want is to give up a successful career that I've largely enjoyed and then have to reduce my standard of living as I age. I plan for inflation in my standard of living as well as CPI.

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« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2025, 10:00:49 AM »
There is data on this.
https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/ssb/v67n1/v67n1p45.html
I can't speak to the question of if this is less spending because they can't or because they don't want to, but there are surveys and other amounts of data out there to review. Neither is this telling us what a mustachian will do nor variance, but it's something if you want to do a top down approach. It is old but I didn't spend any time looking for anything newer either.
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« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2025, 10:31:27 AM »
On a small digression, I’m glad they got a cleaner if it’s apparently otherwise entirely your mom’s responsibility rather than a shared one…

To be fair, my dad is their handyman (though they seem to be occasionally outsourcing more complex projects now, in line with the theme) and he does some of the housework, too.  Their tile floors are his, and he cleans them at least weekly, and he also does the vacuuming, as well as other things.  But he's more of the "specific projects" guy.  From my perspective, it seems like since he retired, their division of labor is relatively equal. 

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« Reply #16 on: February 07, 2025, 10:36:31 AM »
There is data on this.
https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/ssb/v67n1/v67n1p45.html
I can't speak to the question of if this is less spending because they can't or because they don't want to, but there are surveys and other amounts of data out there to review. Neither is this telling us what a mustachian will do nor variance, but it's something if you want to do a top down approach. It is old but I didn't spend any time looking for anything newer either.
I saw this, but feel like this could easily be explained by people having less money, as opposed to actively choosing to spend less.  Many of my parents friends (in their senior community) are like this.  "Judy is on a fixed income so she does alterations to bring in extra money and she prefers to have me over for lunch instead of taking me out for my birthday, because it's much cheaper."  "Sally dropped out of our group that buys tickets to see inexpensive shows at the performing arts high school because money is tight."  That sort of thing.  So sure, those people are spending less, but it's because they have to.

I did fail to account for a paid-off mortgage, which makes a huge difference though. 

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« Reply #17 on: February 07, 2025, 10:50:40 AM »
I never spent very much, but it’s certainly cheaper to have grown up children!

I never had any commuting expenses, and I never had expensive office clothes.

All in all, it seems pretty steady.

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« Reply #18 on: February 07, 2025, 11:13:23 AM »
Thinking about my own previous generations I think there is an element of not wanting or needing to buy the latest thing - if you got to the age of 70 or 80 without a mobile phone or a home computer you might buy a basic mobile but probably aren't interested in keeping up with the latest iphone.  And you might prefer a basic TV that switches on to your long-time favourite channels for the news rather than having to navigate a long computerised menu.  So I think there is probably an element of living standards changing and getting more expensive over the years that the elderly don't take part in and which means that their spending in that respect decreases relative to the general population.

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« Reply #19 on: February 07, 2025, 11:44:14 AM »
Thinking about my own previous generations I think there is an element of not wanting or needing to buy the latest thing - if you got to the age of 70 or 80 without a mobile phone or a home computer you might buy a basic mobile but probably aren't interested in keeping up with the latest iphone.  And you might prefer a basic TV that switches on to your long-time favourite channels for the news rather than having to navigate a long computerised menu.  So I think there is probably an element of living standards changing and getting more expensive over the years that the elderly don't take part in and which means that their spending in that respect decreases relative to the general population.

I suspect this is right, too.  There were years that we spend thousands on stuff for DH's woodworking, because his hobby was also building furniture pieces we needed.  Now we have as much furniture as we need, so his woodworking is basically an hour or two turning pens when he feels like it.  We also have all the "stuff" we need, and we no longer have kids that e.g. need new clothes every year, so I can't even remember the last time I was at a clothes store or mall -- and I tend to be impulsive in that kind of stuff, so not going means both that I don't spend money on the stuff I no longer need and don't have an opportunity to spend money I don't need to on stuff that sounds good at the time. 

I'm also thinking about my parents, and all of their big costs strike me as versions of/alternatives to estate planning.  Like, my mom voluntarily lives on something like $30K/yr, but she gave my sister several hundred thousand after sis split with her husband, because sis could no longer afford a house in their neighborhood.  My dad is paying full college tuition for one granddaughter because her dad is my I'm-surprised-he-remembers-to-breathe persistently-underemployed brother.  My dad's also always been of the "you can't take it with you" school, so he is spending big chunks on paying for the whole family to come on big trips while they can still travel.  So even though you can say their expenses went up, it's not on stuff they they would even be considering if they didn't already have more money than they need. 

Except maybe my dad, who is more, uhh, aggressive with his spending than I'd be comfortable with.  Fingers crossed.

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« Reply #20 on: February 08, 2025, 09:50:16 AM »
I think I'll likely spend the same amount but on different things. Retiring young, single and childless meant that I have been able to do many things at a younger age, in a more frugal less comfortable way, and for a much longer time then a traditional age retiree of 65ish who, 20 years in at age 85, may need much more expensive support to do everything they want. Be that travel or just daily chores. So by the time I'm 80-something I'll probably be pretty satisfied with the things I've done over those 50 years in RE that I'll just want to stay home and nap. So will likely spend less on fun stuff like travel and more on things to make my daily life easier. So a wash.

ETA: I don't think I'll "need" to spend less but I can't see the need to spend more since most think I enjoy are free or inexpensive and I don't see that changing as I age. Technically, 20 years into FIRE now, I spend less overall then I did years ago. I'm more focused on physically challenging activities now (as I was when I first FIREd) and making a home life somewhere I can do those things daily rather than expensive hobbies or travel. Of course once I'm 85 I Kay give up biking life but doubtful. My old granny was still biking and walking everywhere into her late 80s and never owned a car. So that's the plan!
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« Reply #21 on: February 08, 2025, 10:38:32 AM »
On a small digression, I’m glad they got a cleaner if it’s apparently otherwise entirely your mom’s responsibility rather than a shared one…

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« Reply #22 on: February 08, 2025, 02:28:28 PM »
There is data on this.
https://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/ssb/v67n1/v67n1p45.html
I can't speak to the question of if this is less spending because they can't or because they don't want to, but there are surveys and other amounts of data out there to review. Neither is this telling us what a mustachian will do nor variance, but it's something if you want to do a top down approach. It is old but I didn't spend any time looking for anything newer either.
I saw this, but feel like this could easily be explained by people having less money, as opposed to actively choosing to spend less.  Many of my parents friends (in their senior community) are like this.  "Judy is on a fixed income so she does alterations to bring in extra money and she prefers to have me over for lunch instead of taking me out for my birthday, because it's much cheaper."  "Sally dropped out of our group that buys tickets to see inexpensive shows at the performing arts high school because money is tight."  That sort of thing.  So sure, those people are spending less, but it's because they have to.

I did fail to account for a paid-off mortgage, which makes a huge difference though. 
There are several sets of data that governments collect. Like the data above, ours (Australian) indicate that people do spend less as they age. They also indicate that people are accumulating money as they age in retirement (this is considered to be a problem, and gets reported on regularly). My mother is 94, and my parents definitely reduced their expenditure as they aged. Several of my older friends have a very small retirement income, yet still don’t spend it all.

However, this cannot be relied upon. Only a very small percentage of the elderly end up needing institutional aged care - the vast majority die without it, and the average amount of time people spend in institutional aged care is something under a year, so even though it’s very expensive, it doesn’t cost much at all for most people. However, my grandmother was in a memory care facility for 18 years, and that can become very expensive, and far exceeded her expenses in her other years of retirement (she died just short of 100).

The majority of people are quite able to do most things they want to do until about five to eight years before they die. At this point their medical related expenses go up (I’m including care). I read something within the last month where they were saying that this period of poor health is increasing, and governments around the world are worried about it, as this will affect the amount of geriatric health care that needs to be available.

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« Reply #23 on: February 08, 2025, 03:45:22 PM »
I'm sure this depends a lot on the individual. My parents are in their 70s and spending money hand over fist it looks like- they have many grandchildren and they pay for travel expenses for my entire family of 5 every time we visit (twice a year, by airplane) as well as renting a large beach house every summer for all the kids and grandkids. OTOH my MIL is their same age. She is a widow of limited income. She does not travel, and when we go to her, we pay for ourselves. She probably spends much less than when she was raising her family and feeding another whole adult person.

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« Reply #24 on: February 08, 2025, 06:08:15 PM »
On a small digression, I’m glad they got a cleaner if it’s apparently otherwise entirely your mom’s responsibility rather than a shared one…

word!

I'm not sure why I feel the need to defend my parents, other than that they are pretty awesome people, but theirs is definitely not a house where mom does all the work.  Dad does plenty.  (And the follow-on sentence where I said they outsource pool and lawn care is indicative of both of them outsourcing things that were once part of each's responsibility.  Dad too saves his energy for tennis, in part by getting help with pool and yard, and the housekeeper also does some of the tasks that used to be his. And even with a cleaner, dad still does some of the cleaning, just as mom does. Dad also sometimes cooks ad grocery shops and does some of the usually-pink tasks.)

I can see how the way I worded it didn't paint an entirely accurate picture though. IDK that their split is exactly equal, or how each of them perceives it, but it's certainly not a home where the woman does nearly all the work and the man enjoys his clean laundry and home-cooked meals as though they magically appear.   

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« Reply #25 on: February 08, 2025, 10:14:44 PM »
When I first retired we spent a lot of money traveling. I’ve been to Europe 6 times, took 6 cruises and traveled all over in a motorhome. Now at 70 my travel is just to visit family or friends. I’ve been everywhere I wanted to go. I definitely eat less as my appetite has decreased. I downsized to a small condo so can easily take care of the inside myself. I did buy myself a new car as my old car was 17 years old. So I’m spending less money.

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« Reply #26 on: February 09, 2025, 07:12:11 AM »
There's no way I'll spend less as I age.

I'll need more medical support and have more need to outsource labour.

I'm also getting *more* interested in travel the more disabled I get, not less, because it's harder and harder to stay stimulated enough in one place as I steadily lose capacity to do things that are enjoyable.

Since I lost my ability to eat any food that's actually enjoyable, I'm finding I'm seriously craving a lot more new, cultural experiences. I had the same thing when I lost my ability to walk, I bought a whole ass second house to be able to experience a lot more.

If/when I get to nursing home stage, I'll want one of those ridiculously luxury homes where they have university level lectures in-house, tons of cultural activities, etc, so that even if I'm limited to one place, that shit is brought to me.

So yeah, I expect that my costs will steadily increase over time.

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« Reply #27 on: February 09, 2025, 10:15:17 AM »
It seems most of the financial planners up here is Canada, who specialize in retirement draw down planning recommend you think of life as GoGo, SloGo and NoGo phases and step down your income plan accordingly.  I think this is something I will consider doing.

For long term care needs, my home equity is earmarked for that.

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« Reply #28 on: February 09, 2025, 10:32:35 AM »
Individuals are unique but ‘people’ as a group are very predictable.  As a group, people tend to spend less as they age until they start needing to spend more on health related stuff.  The “retirement spending smile” it’s called.  You may also encounter the terms “go-go years, slow-go years, and no-go years” which are also meant to describe the tendency to spend more early in retirement, then less.  It may not be dramatically different, but mathematically significant nonetheless for people as a group.

https://www.financialplanningassociation.org/sites/default/files/2020-09/MAY14%20JFP%20Blanchett_0.pdf

Of course, at an individual level, this depends on your starting point among other things.  If you are entering retirement with just enough to cover your expenses and aren’t planning to spend much on luxuries like travel and hobbies, then the delta might be very small or non-existent.  Your general health and vitality when you reach the middle years of your retirement, say your mid to late 70s, might enable you to continue doing things like extensive travel or golfing every day, etc.  But in general, people slow down physically.  Maybe they’ve done all the traveling or played enough golf.  Maybe they don’t want to go out to eat 3x a week at a fancy restaurant.

YMMV, as with all things.  For planning purposes, we all have to make certain assumptions, some of which can have dramatic implications on the viability of the plan. Perhaps the most obvious of these is how long you think you’ll live.  I’d wager very few of us make our plan with the assumption that we'll be dead before we reach 80. I think that’s prudent. Personally while I am accounting for the (unlikely) possibility that I live into my 90’s, I do not feel the need to assume that I’ll be spending money on global travel and ski trips when I’m 85.  I do assume (again, statistically unlikely) that I will need long term care for a few years at the end of my life.   If it turns out that my health spending has increased enough to offset the ‘fun stuff’ spending by my 70s, then it’s also quite likely that I’m not going to reach the assumed end date in my plan, so those offset. 

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« Reply #29 on: February 09, 2025, 10:59:39 AM »
Individuals are unique but ‘people’ as a group are very predictable.  As a group, people tend to spend less as they age until they start needing to spend more on health related stuff.  The “retirement spending smile” it’s called.  You may also encounter the terms “go-go years, slow-go years, and no-go years” which are also meant to describe the tendency to spend more early in retirement, then less.  It may not be dramatically different, but mathematically significant nonetheless for people as a group.

https://www.financialplanningassociation.org/sites/default/files/2020-09/MAY14%20JFP%20Blanchett_0.pdf

Of course, at an individual level, this depends on your starting point among other things.  If you are entering retirement with just enough to cover your expenses and aren’t planning to spend much on luxuries like travel and hobbies, then the delta might be very small or non-existent.  Your general health and vitality when you reach the middle years of your retirement, say your mid to late 70s, might enable you to continue doing things like extensive travel or golfing every day, etc.  But in general, people slow down physically.  Maybe they’ve done all the traveling or played enough golf.  Maybe they don’t want to go out to eat 3x a week at a fancy restaurant.

YMMV, as with all things.  For planning purposes, we all have to make certain assumptions, some of which can have dramatic implications on the viability of the plan. Perhaps the most obvious of these is how long you think you’ll live.  I’d wager very few of us make our plan with the assumption that we'll be dead before we reach 80. I think that’s prudent. Personally while I am accounting for the (unlikely) possibility that I live into my 90’s, I do not feel the need to assume that I’ll be spending money on global travel and ski trips when I’m 85.  I do assume (again, statistically unlikely) that I will need long term care for a few years at the end of my life.   If it turns out that my health spending has increased enough to offset the ‘fun stuff’ spending by my 70s, then it’s also quite likely that I’m not going to reach the assumed end date in my plan, so those offset.

People as a group are very predictable, but as mustachians, we are almost always outliers when it comes to financial behaviours.

For many folks here, a lot of savings come from being able bodied. Folks can camp, take red eye flights or handle long layovers, travel to locations that have fewer amenities, DIY, bike or walk places, cook things from scratch, eat inexpensive foods, etc, etc.

For a lot of folks here, slowing down will actually mean having to spend a heck of a lot more to maintain their quality of life.

I've worked with seniors for many years. The really wealthy ones don't tend to slow down as much, they just up what they're willing to spend to keep doing stuff. The ones who slow down most are the ones who feel like their options just keep getting more and more limited.

Obviously certain health issues are going to seriously impede your ability to be active outside the home, but that's why I mentioned the ultra expensive retirement/nursing homes.

My dear friends in their late 80s finally gave up their home and stopped traveling, but their expenses went waaaaay up because of the facility they moved into. I think they were paying 8k/mo each when they moved there nearly 10 years ago.

A lot of people conceptualize that life is worth living more when you are able bodied and just kind of accept a decline into a less interesting, lower quality of life. I've seen this many, many times in my work over the years.

But having seen the geriatric lifestyles of the wealthier 80+ adults I've known who refused to settle?? Yeah, I'm not planning to live smaller just because my body can do less. If I lived that way, I would be living a very, very small life right now, since I'm actually less able-bodied than many many 80+ folks I know.

And remember, aging is not a linear, predictable process, and interestingly, over 80 is where seniors start being a lot more vital on average because the less vital folks die off. My average 90+ patient was far more vital and active than my average patient 75-85.

The survival bias shows just how vital and active very aged people can be. I would say that my typical patient over 90 was in overall better shape than I am now.

So yeah, while the aggregate data shows a reliable trend, that means very, very little for a group of spending outliers, or any given individual.

My spending is already higher than when I first retired, and I can fairly confidently project it to just steadily rise, and that's coming from someone who has already "slowed down."

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« Reply #30 on: February 09, 2025, 11:40:41 AM »
Individuals are unique but ‘people’ as a group are very predictable.  As a group, people tend to spend less as they age until they start needing to spend more on health related stuff.  The “retirement spending smile” it’s called.  You may also encounter the terms “go-go years, slow-go years, and no-go years” which are also meant to describe the tendency to spend more early in retirement, then less.  It may not be dramatically different, but mathematically significant nonetheless for people as a group.

https://www.financialplanningassociation.org/sites/default/files/2020-09/MAY14%20JFP%20Blanchett_0.pdf

Of course, at an individual level, this depends on your starting point among other things.  If you are entering retirement with just enough to cover your expenses and aren’t planning to spend much on luxuries like travel and hobbies, then the delta might be very small or non-existent.  Your general health and vitality when you reach the middle years of your retirement, say your mid to late 70s, might enable you to continue doing things like extensive travel or golfing every day, etc.  But in general, people slow down physically.  Maybe they’ve done all the traveling or played enough golf.  Maybe they don’t want to go out to eat 3x a week at a fancy restaurant.

YMMV, as with all things.  For planning purposes, we all have to make certain assumptions, some of which can have dramatic implications on the viability of the plan. Perhaps the most obvious of these is how long you think you’ll live.  I’d wager very few of us make our plan with the assumption that we'll be dead before we reach 80. I think that’s prudent. Personally while I am accounting for the (unlikely) possibility that I live into my 90’s, I do not feel the need to assume that I’ll be spending money on global travel and ski trips when I’m 85.  I do assume (again, statistically unlikely) that I will need long term care for a few years at the end of my life.   If it turns out that my health spending has increased enough to offset the ‘fun stuff’ spending by my 70s, then it’s also quite likely that I’m not going to reach the assumed end date in my plan, so those offset.

People as a group are very predictable, but as mustachians, we are almost always outliers when it comes to financial behaviours.

For many folks here, a lot of savings come from being able bodied. Folks can camp, take red eye flights or handle long layovers, travel to locations that have fewer amenities, DIY, bike or walk places, cook things from scratch, eat inexpensive foods, etc, etc.

This shouldn't be understated. There is wisdom in assuming that 75 year old you might have more in common with other 75 year olds than with 29 year old you. Even if 75 year old you has just as much in common with other 75 year olds as current 29 year old you does with other 29 year olds. So, look at what the data says for 75 year olds today. At the very least, consider the possibility as you envision your future. Many people slow down mentally not just physically, which can have direct impacts. Or, you just stop adapting with the times enough to exist at 8th percentile expenditures or whatever because you refuse to learn modern tips from whatever the 2055 version of TikTok is. Or, just less energy. It's hard to imagine, on average, that taking this into account would make a worse model of future expenditures than a flat average spend projected out. If you're reasonable and young this shouldn't change your time to retirement all that much anyway.

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« Reply #31 on: February 09, 2025, 11:50:41 AM »
I'm spending a bit more. Charitable contributions have increased substantially.


This year I want to increase our charitable giving to $30,000.the last 2 years we gave $20,000 each year. We are not at the age where we have to make distributions but will be there in a few years. I suppose those will go to charities.

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I'm also paying for things I would have  done myself…

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« Reply #32 on: February 09, 2025, 12:44:52 PM »
The "groups are predictable and the group of old people spends less, as a significant majority" issues is kind of why I asked.  I mentioned my parents, but I see this singificant spending pattern in 70s and 80s in many of their friends.  And outside their social circle, my sister's ILs spend a lot, too.  They go on probably 6 (+/-) cruises per year, and normally not the cheap "week in Mexico" versions.  They are in Hong Kong and Barcelona and other places where cruises are more expensive (and where you pay more to fly to and from).  Very different spending than my parents, but also not "sitting at home clipping coupons, knitting, and playing Canasta", either. 

The elderly people I know that do seem to have low spending seem to be that way because they don't have more money to spend.  Which brings me back to my question of whether the data that show that elderly people spend less have somehow accounted for income/"stache", and still come up with the fact that even older people who have more money spend less.  (And not primarily motivated by a fear of runnning out of money.)

Even those who aren't especially healthy seem to have robust lives in ways that cost money.  The neighbor couple--the husband of which has Alzheimer's--continued traveling until his condition got much worse.  Now, there's seems to be a lot spent on Ubers because wife is a nervous driver with horrible vision and while friends chip in, sometimes she needs outside help. Mom recently reported that this neighbor now has a weekly housekeeper. 

And when my parents travel, if the kids aren't coming along, they usually invite 2 other couples and have no trouble finding people--all of whom seem to be 70+--to join them.

A famly friend couple (80s) bought a huge house so their grandkids would have a place to play.  He likes to tinker, and bought an old Corvette (which turned into a money pit as he was too trusting and didn't get an inspection, and it turns out there was major body damage and other costly issues.)

And that brings me to another point--scams.  One of mom's friends has gotten scammed several times, and nearly so at least once more.  She happened to mention to my dad, who worked in computers and is pretty savvy, that someone called to report an issue with her computer and was calling back later to walk her through fixing it.  He couldn't talk her out of this, but her granddaughter ended up doing so.  IDK if being scammed counts as "spending", the possibility is another reason it would be nice to have more cushion in the later decades.

To be clear, I understand that these are anecdotes and may be not at all representative.  But once I remove how much money they have available from the picture, it seems like the older people I know haven't slowed down their spending all that much (other than likely mortgage spending, which I can only guess is $0 for many of them). 

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« Reply #33 on: February 09, 2025, 01:08:29 PM »
Like almost everything else, you have to decide which trade offs you can accept. 

If you want to plan consistently high spending throughout your retirement then the trade off may be that you need to work a few more years to save more money.  It’s a completely legitimate choice. 

I’m fairly confident that I will be healthy enough to do the more expensive trips and activities in the next few years. I’m much less confident that I’ll be healthy enough to do those things, or to want to do those things, when I’m in my late 70s.  If I am, that will be great!  I’m not going to be angry that I’m healthy! 

But if I wanted to adjust my plan to keep my ‘go-go’ spending through those later years, I would need to spend a couple more years working. That’s a couple of years that I’m NOT enjoying my retirement that I am exchanging for a few years that I might or might not be able to do those things.  In other words, I’m trading time that is very probably more valuable to me in exchange for time later that is much less certain to be. 

Or TLDR:  There’s No free lunch.   

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« Reply #34 on: February 09, 2025, 01:12:43 PM »
I find that some years I travel a lot, and some I don’t travel much at all. I’ve travelled enough that I’ve lost that urge to see everything, as epitomised by a bucket list.

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« Reply #35 on: February 09, 2025, 01:28:03 PM »
The "groups are predictable and the group of old people spends less, as a significant majority" issues is kind of why I asked.  I mentioned my parents, but I see this singificant spending pattern in 70s and 80s in many of their friends.  And outside their social circle, my sister's ILs spend a lot, too.  They go on probably 6 (+/-) cruises per year, and normally not the cheap "week in Mexico" versions.  They are in Hong Kong and Barcelona and other places where cruises are more expensive (and where you pay more to fly to and from).  Very different spending than my parents, but also not "sitting at home clipping coupons, knitting, and playing Canasta", either. 

The elderly people I know that do seem to have low spending seem to be that way because they don't have more money to spend.  Which brings me back to my question of whether the data that show that elderly people spend less have somehow accounted for income/"stache", and still come up with the fact that even older people who have more money spend less.  (And not primarily motivated by a fear of runnning out of money.)

Even those who aren't especially healthy seem to have robust lives in ways that cost money.  The neighbor couple--the husband of which has Alzheimer's--continued traveling until his condition got much worse.  Now, there's seems to be a lot spent on Ubers because wife is a nervous driver with horrible vision and while friends chip in, sometimes she needs outside help. Mom recently reported that this neighbor now has a weekly housekeeper. 

And when my parents travel, if the kids aren't coming along, they usually invite 2 other couples and have no trouble finding people--all of whom seem to be 70+--to join them.

A famly friend couple (80s) bought a huge house so their grandkids would have a place to play.  He likes to tinker, and bought an old Corvette (which turned into a money pit as he was too trusting and didn't get an inspection, and it turns out there was major body damage and other costly issues.)

And that brings me to another point--scams.  One of mom's friends has gotten scammed several times, and nearly so at least once more.  She happened to mention to my dad, who worked in computers and is pretty savvy, that someone called to report an issue with her computer and was calling back later to walk her through fixing it.  He couldn't talk her out of this, but her granddaughter ended up doing so.  IDK if being scammed counts as "spending", the possibility is another reason it would be nice to have more cushion in the later decades.

To be clear, I understand that these are anecdotes and may be not at all representative.  But once I remove how much money they have available from the picture, it seems like the older people I know haven't slowed down their spending all that much (other than likely mortgage spending, which I can only guess is $0 for many of them).

This is precisely what I've observed as a trend of the thousands of seniors I've worked with.

The ones who have enough money to inflate their spending enough to sustain their quality of life tend to readily do so, while the rest just don't have that kind of money, so they retreat and live simpler lives because what they used to be able to afford isn't enjoyable anymore, so they just do less.

I've also seen many, many cases of women suddenly spending a lot more in their late senior years when their husbands die. I can't tell you how many very senior women I knew who started traveling in their late 70s/early 80s once they finally had control over the purse strings.

I'll never forget one woman in her 70s who came in with gold braces, which were the most expensive braces you could get at the time, and she was so excited to finally be able to spend on herself. She had a trip to Italy planned with her daughters, bought a new car, started going out to restaurants by herself. They had plenty of money, he was just a cheapskate and wouldn't spend on anything expensive except for his own car and golf.

If there's plenty of money, there's often plenty of will to spend it. But if there's only modest wealth, there's often a massive reduction in lifestyle because maintaining a certain level of activity gets really, really expensive as you lose physical function. 

And we live in such an atheist/ableist society that most people don't anticipate even wanting to be active and live a luxurious lifestyle in their "slower" years.

And yes, these are all anecdotes, but I'm literally living it as I type. Infirmity is only increasing my desire to spend, not reducing it, and I'm thrilled that I will have access to ample capital as I age to sustain a rich and interesting quality of life.

I caution anyone to think long and hard before subscribing to the conventional wisdom that you will spend less as you "slow down," because in this community, a huge driver of the mustachian ability to live optimally while spending less than average is being able-bodied.

If you work your ass off to build an optimal quality of life for yourself, are you really going to be okay with settling for less just because your legs and circulatory system don't work as well as they used to?

A lot of free/inexpensive lifestyle choices are superior to consumerist ones, but that calculus starts changing FAST when your physical capacity starts disappearing. Frugality is still incredibly important to me, in fact moreso than ever because of the increased expenses, but the things that are worth spending on are definitely steadily increasing.




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« Reply #36 on: February 09, 2025, 02:40:05 PM »
The people I know who have retired earlier, with good finances have all spent less as they got elderly. I am amazed at my mother’s low expenditure. My parents loved travelling, and did go on world cruises when they stopped being able to do other forms of travel. However, by their mid eighties, they really couldn’t travel much anymore and their expenditure went down. However, it had been going down for years, as they reduced the number of trips per year and slowed down. Mum is currently 94, and probably has lower expenses than just about anyone here. And most of her friends are the same.

I suspect that we’re talking about different age groups when we’re talking about elderly people and their expenditure. The goslo years that I’m seeing are probably later than what others are talking about.

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« Reply #37 on: February 09, 2025, 03:24:10 PM »
The people I know who have retired earlier, with good finances have all spent less as they got elderly. I am amazed at my mother’s low expenditure. My parents loved travelling, and did go on world cruises when they stopped being able to do other forms of travel. However, by their mid eighties, they really couldn’t travel much anymore and their expenditure went down. However, it had been going down for years, as they reduced the number of trips per year and slowed down. Mum is currently 94, and probably has lower expenses than just about anyone here. And most of her friends are the same.

I suspect that we’re talking about different age groups when we’re talking about elderly people and their expenditure. The goslo years that I’m seeing are probably later than what others are talking about.

I'm talking about late 70s-mid 90s

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« Reply #38 on: February 09, 2025, 03:29:03 PM »
Here is some data
https://www.bls.gov/cex/



They also have data organized by quintile of income. You'd need to do more than read the tables to gather further subgroups e.g. expenditures for those over [age] in [high] quintile of income. I can do that later if you want, they make the data available at https://www.bls.gov/cex/pumd.htm. Without looking, my guess is this data is not longitudinal and won't be rich enough to answer a question like:
What do expenditures look like in advanced age for a person who makes relatively modest income but has low expenses and retires early, provided they still make a lot from dividends and interest? Maybe though.

Here's this too anyway just for fun


They have significant subgroup of income and expenses breakdowns. For the above I excluded some minor things which is why the numbers don't add up.

note: I haven't read the definitions so some of the above calculations may be misleading.
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« Reply #39 on: February 09, 2025, 08:38:40 PM »
My grandparents were a great illustration of spending less as you age. Grandma lived to 85, Grandpa to 94. No one was playing tennis in their 80s though. That's pretty exceptional, health-wise. The big thing was that as aches and pains increased and the consistency of good days decreased, their desire to travel greatly decreased. They had a Medicare plan and Medigap so their medical expenses never changed. Neither needed nursing care, so perhaps that was lucky. It got to a point though where they weren't buying material items unless it was replacing something old that broke. Less food being consumed as their metabolism slowed. When they passed they left both of their children seven figures so money was never an issue. Short of needing exceptional medical care or being exceptionally healthy and active, spending less is an expected outcome to me.
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« Reply #40 on: February 10, 2025, 06:44:14 AM »
I have had a few people in my family who were healthy and active late in life, and died shortly. My ex spouses grandparent however spent a million on in home care in the 10 years before they died. It just seems to vary so widely I don't know how one can predict. I would actually prefer to spend more money when Im retired than I do now; or at the least the same amount but on more fun things.

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« Reply #41 on: February 10, 2025, 07:00:18 AM »
It just seems to vary so widely I don't know how one can predict.

I don't think there is anyway to predict the future accurately. My dad lived at home into his 90's and died in a hospital bed after a few weeks of care that was free here in Canada. My mom is 97 and living alone with minimal care. She pays her long-time cleaner to come in extra as a helper/companion to the tune of $3KCAD/$2.1KUSD a month and she has a PSW visit twice a week to bath her which is free from the Provincial Gov't. She has very few other expenses and doesn't do a lot aside from reading books on her Kindle and surfing the web. Her diet and meal portions mean food is not a huge expense. She's always trying to give me money when I visit as she has no use for it and she's living on some fairly limited pensions/gov't benefits.

Aside from my investments I'll have a $1M house as an asset that is available for myself or my GF or both as we get towards the end of life. I expect my investments will keep snowballing so I don't see any need for extra insurance, but the house makes a nice emergency back up plan as once we no longer need to live in it the equity provides a large chunk of money that can be directed to whatever needs we have in the unlikely event our investments/pensions/gov't benefits are not sufficient.
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« Reply #42 on: February 10, 2025, 08:15:20 AM »
I sometimes try to look at the bright side of these things.

Pandemics are expected to increase in frequency and severity due to global warming.  Ditto with catastrophic weather events.  Detrimental environmental pollution from things like out of control wildfires will increase.  And of course, we're busy poisoning ourselves with as much plastic as possible all the time.

The future we're building for ourselves means it's likely that you won't live as long as you were expecting (particularly if you have disabilities and medical problems), which will radically reduce the amount you need to spend.

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« Reply #43 on: February 10, 2025, 08:27:38 AM »
For a lot of folks here, slowing down will actually mean having to spend a heck of a lot more to maintain their quality of life.

I've worked with seniors for many years. The really wealthy ones don't tend to slow down as much, they just up what they're willing to spend to keep doing stuff. The ones who slow down most are the ones who feel like their options just keep getting more and more limited.

This is very much my parents' case.  They live in an expensive independent living community but one now has physical limitations that require a lot of physical assistance that the other can't provide.  Rather than move one into nursing care and live separately, they have directly hired their own live-in carers.   It is extremely expensive, but they can afford it and, honestly, I can't think of a better way for them to spend their money at this stage of their lives. 

Having financial resources means having options. 
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« Reply #44 on: February 10, 2025, 09:02:56 AM »
My grandparents were a great illustration of spending less as you age. Grandma lived to 85, Grandpa to 94. No one was playing tennis in their 80s though. That's pretty exceptional, health-wise. The big thing was that as aches and pains increased and the consistency of good days decreased, their desire to travel greatly decreased. They had a Medicare plan and Medigap so their medical expenses never changed. Neither needed nursing care, so perhaps that was lucky. It got to a point though where they weren't buying material items unless it was replacing something old that broke. Less food being consumed as their metabolism slowed. When they passed they left both of their children seven figures so money was never an issue. Short of needing exceptional medical care or being exceptionally healthy and active, spending less is an expected outcome to me.

Is it though?  My parents certainly aren't the only ones, nor are the the oldest ones.  Dad took off a number of months when he had his knee replacement a couple years ago, but is back at it.  Mom has trimmed down from 3 games a week to one, plus on occasional extra outing with dad, due to some foot issues she's having.

The tennis courts in their senior community are full.  And there's an ongoing war between the tennis clubs and the pickleball clubs over space and who gets the courts when, which suggests there are a darn lot of court-users. 
Also, mustachians are exceptional, in general (with exceptions ;) ).  Most of us take decent care of our bodies and are active.  So there's decent reason to think that---even if playing tennis in your 80s is exception--we are likely to be in that excepted group.  So sure, maybe if you just look at all people who make it to 80 plus, and even if you whittle that down to those who continued to play tennis frequently well into middle age, you aren't left with a lot of 80+yos on the court.

But if you narrow that further to those who take care of their bodies and who prioritize fitness-related activities, if doesn't seem like swining a racket for an hour or so 1-3 times a week is all that exceptional.  (Yes, things happen, bodies fail, etc.  But tennis--and even physical activities-- are far from the only expensive pursuits in retirement.  In fact, tennis is fairly cheap and I used it only to illustrate no desire to sit at home and watch TV and do puzzles obtained for free in Buy Nothing groups.)  So, among active people who by and large don't consider watchign TV to be their biggest hobby, is doin some sort of physical activity at 80 really that exceptional?

And maybe that's at the heart of the conculsions I'm drawing that have me realizing I don't want to plan for cheap decades past 65. Afterall, it's also exceptional to retire before 62.  And to save $1m+ by age 50 (or 40, or 30).  And not to have credit card debt.   But this group is about saying, "just because it's what most people do doesn't mean it's best, or what I'm going to do."

If my body isn't up for tennis at 80 (I don't actually play tennis, despite the lessons my parents put me through), then maybe I'll go on scenic river cruises.  Or maybe I'll suddenly get into cooking since I can't get out much and don't want to deal with the hassle of finding places that are truly wheelchair-frieindly,  and I'll want gourmet ingredients.  Or maybe when if I can't get out much, I'll take up painting and spend a fortune on canvases and paint and lessons. 

Put another way, I *hope* to have an exceptional Golden Season of life.  Shouldn't we all hope for that, just as most of us here are living at least somewhat exceptional middle-years?  And I certainly don't want money, or my plans--made when I was 30 or 40 or 50--to spend less at 70 and 80 and 90--to be the thing that prevents me from living an exceptional life.

Because I'm still not convinced that a lot of the "no go" years' low-spend aren't motivated by either a lack of money, or anxiety about running out fo money rather than no actual desire to spend.  Whether its tennis (though again, that's pretty cheap in most cases if you have access to free courts and the weather to use then) or travel or paint and canvases or rare purple truffle flown in from Romania or fostering 27 dogs at a time or whatever I'm interested in at 85, or just hiring out the housekeeping and having a handyman on speed dial--I don't want to make choices now that take away choices then, at a time when doing less and limiting choices may feel even more constraining.

If we hated out jobs and were miserable, the equation might be different.  But even then, I think a more austere year now might make more sense if it buys me less austerity later. 

I guess I just feel like a lot of people say, "I'll spend less later" and assume that they will be wrinkled husks by the time they hit 75 and won't have a desire to spend, because that seems to be the conventional wisdom.  And I look around me and think that the conventional wisdom may be wrong, and so many of us may be creating rough lives for our future selves, just like the people are doing who spend all their money now and assume their future selves will figure out retirement.   

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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #45 on: February 10, 2025, 12:03:29 PM »
I wonder if this hasn’t gone off the rails a little from the original context.  Some of it is probably just a matter of interpretation. 

Since I believe it was my original statement (in a different thread about withdrawal strategies) to the effect that I am anticipating that my retirement spending will decrease for some period of years, which seems to have prompted this discussion, allow me to elaborate on my thinking. 

I would absolutely counsel caution to anyone who is planning anything like a lean FIRE spending model and is also incorporating some reduced spend model in their plan.  There isn’t much give in the budget in that scenario to absorb reductions.  If your spending is mostly on things you really need to live, then of course you are going to be stuck at that level.

In my specific case, my plan does include anticipated spending reductions before an increase in spending associated with needing more assistance or having a more expensive living arrangement.   My reduced spend time is the few years before those. I will have paid off my mortage for one thing. That ‘reduced’ spending is still as much as I spend today, and have spent for years in what is certainly not an ascetic level budget!    It’s just reduced somewhat from the expected higher spending that I am planning for in the first 20 years of my retirement.  If I were planning to simply maintain my current lifestyle into retirement, I would not be making any spending reduction assumptions. 

Would it be nice to have so much money that I can budget now for spending that same go-go lifestyle throughout my retirement years until I pass away from the smoke of all my birthday candles?  Sure it would.  But now we’re in Bogleheads mode of retirement planning, where we work more years to be extra super rich before we confidently enter retirement.  It has always been one of the tenets of Mustachianism that you don’t need $5MM to retire and have a great life, that you don’t have to work more years of your youth because you’re scared of running out of money. 

It’s for all of us to find a balance that works for us, at least as much as we can predict our own future needs and desires. 

As to the general proposition that ‘people’ generally do follow this spending model, there have been several analyses that show the effect across wealth levels.  There’s also evidence that on average a high percentage of retirees have as much or more money 15-18 years into their retirements as they began with. And those folks still tend to have these years of reduced spending. So I don’t think we can say that this behavior is caused (primarily) by lack of funds.  I think it’s pretty reasonable to deduce that it’s a combination of reduced mobility and reduced motivation more than just reduced financial wherewithal. 

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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #46 on: February 10, 2025, 12:19:51 PM »
I wonder if this hasn’t gone off the rails a little from the original context.  Some of it is probably just a matter of interpretation. 

Since I believe it was my original statement (in a different thread about withdrawal strategies) to the effect that I am anticipating that my retirement spending will decrease for some period of years, which seems to have prompted this discussion, allow me to elaborate on my thinking. 

I would absolutely counsel caution to anyone who is planning anything like a lean FIRE spending model and is also incorporating some reduced spend model in their plan.  There isn’t much give in the budget in that scenario to absorb reductions.  If your spending is mostly on things you really need to live, then of course you are going to be stuck at that level.

In my specific case, my plan does include anticipated spending reductions before an increase in spending associated with needing more assistance or having a more expensive living arrangement.   My reduced spend time is the few years before those. I will have paid off my mortage for one thing. That ‘reduced’ spending is still as much as I spend today, and have spent for years in what is certainly not an ascetic level budget!    It’s just reduced somewhat from the expected higher spending that I am planning for in the first 20 years of my retirement.  If I were planning to simply maintain my current lifestyle into retirement, I would not be making any spending reduction assumptions. 

Would it be nice to have so much money that I can budget now for spending that same go-go lifestyle throughout my retirement years until I pass away from the smoke of all my birthday candles?  Sure it would.  But now we’re in Bogleheads mode of retirement planning, where we work more years to be extra super rich before we confidently enter retirement.  It has always been one of the tenets of Mustachianism that you don’t need $5MM to retire and have a great life, that you don’t have to work more years of your youth because you’re scared of running out of money. 

It’s for all of us to find a balance that works for us, at least as much as we can predict our own future needs and desires. 

As to the general proposition that ‘people’ generally do follow this spending model, there have been several analyses that show the effect across wealth levels.  There’s also evidence that on average a high percentage of retirees have as much or more money 15-18 years into their retirements as they began with. And those folks still tend to have these years of reduced spending. So I don’t think we can say that this behavior is caused (primarily) by lack of funds.  I think it’s pretty reasonable to deduce that it’s a combination of reduced mobility and reduced motivation more than just reduced financial wherewithal.

I'm not necessarily thinking everyone (or I) should just double my number so I don't need to have "nogo" years later on.  To me, the question is more whether I should be more lean by just a little early on, so I am not penning myself into sitting and watching TV and doing used puzzles when I'm 80.  Because it seems to me there's a very, very good chance that's not the life I want. And by the time I'm 80, it will be tough to do anything to change the decisions that 50yo me made about my 80yo lifestyle. 

I'll believe the evidence that even when accounting for available funds, people spend less on average, excluding major medical care.  But I don't necessarily believe that I--or many of us here are average.  And they ways we aren't average*** seem very relevant to the question of what our spending patterns might look like in our 70s+.

**Most of use live reasonably healthy lifestyles, so there's decent reason to believe we might--on average--feel better and have more energy than average.
**Most of us spend less on consumer stuff than average, and I'm guessing that's a lot of what gets cut.
**Most of us will already have leaner budgets than average, so there's less fat to trim.  For someone who leased a new car every 2 years, that pattern may change as they car less about cars and technology, and drive less.  For someone who bought a used car every 7-12 years, there's not much change that's likely to account for significant budgets changes.
**Most of us are creative, independent thinkers and problem solvers.  So the things that might hold other people back may be surmountable challenges for us.  To use @Metalcat as an example--if our mobility diminishes, instead of throwing up our hands and saying we can't travel (and having the resulting decrease in expenses), maybe we buy a second home or go on cruises so we don't have to deal with airplanes or buy an RV or slow travel so the toll on our body is less.  Or maybe we turn to season tickets for the theater instead of travel, to fill our culture budget and have aesthetic experiences we used to get from travel.  But I think most here will be able to find creative solutions to aging-related problems relating to what we enjoy doing. 

I do think paying off the mortgage makes a huge difference and already mentioned that I wasn't clocking that when I thought about this or asked the question.   But so much of what I read about "you'll spend less when you are older until your medical needs increase" seems to have the underlying assumption that once people it 70 or 75, they become hollow husks who don't live vital, interesting lives and crave enriching, stimulating experiences, just like 30 year olds and 50 year olds do.

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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #47 on: February 10, 2025, 12:26:09 PM »
And that brings me to another point--scams.  One of mom's friends has gotten scammed several times, and nearly so at least once more.  She happened to mention to my dad, who worked in computers and is pretty savvy, that someone called to report an issue with her computer and was calling back later to walk her through fixing it.  He couldn't talk her out of this, but her granddaughter ended up doing so.  IDK if being scammed counts as "spending", the possibility is another reason it would be nice to have more cushion in the later decades.

I take care of computers for several elderly friends and family. I instruct them all to call me first in case they get a phone call/email/message/snail mail claiming their computer has a problem.

This is a huge problem and several of them came very close to giving away money to scammers.

A few of them try to pay me. If I accept any payment I prefer it be something hot or cold that I can drink while I work and we visit.
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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #48 on: February 10, 2025, 12:33:56 PM »
I wonder if this hasn’t gone off the rails a little from the original context.  Some of it is probably just a matter of interpretation. 

Since I believe it was my original statement (in a different thread about withdrawal strategies) to the effect that I am anticipating that my retirement spending will decrease for some period of years, which seems to have prompted this discussion, allow me to elaborate on my thinking. 

I would absolutely counsel caution to anyone who is planning anything like a lean FIRE spending model and is also incorporating some reduced spend model in their plan.  There isn’t much give in the budget in that scenario to absorb reductions.  If your spending is mostly on things you really need to live, then of course you are going to be stuck at that level.

In my specific case, my plan does include anticipated spending reductions before an increase in spending associated with needing more assistance or having a more expensive living arrangement.   My reduced spend time is the few years before those. I will have paid off my mortage for one thing. That ‘reduced’ spending is still as much as I spend today, and have spent for years in what is certainly not an ascetic level budget!    It’s just reduced somewhat from the expected higher spending that I am planning for in the first 20 years of my retirement.  If I were planning to simply maintain my current lifestyle into retirement, I would not be making any spending reduction assumptions. 

Would it be nice to have so much money that I can budget now for spending that same go-go lifestyle throughout my retirement years until I pass away from the smoke of all my birthday candles?  Sure it would.  But now we’re in Bogleheads mode of retirement planning, where we work more years to be extra super rich before we confidently enter retirement.  It has always been one of the tenets of Mustachianism that you don’t need $5MM to retire and have a great life, that you don’t have to work more years of your youth because you’re scared of running out of money. 

It’s for all of us to find a balance that works for us, at least as much as we can predict our own future needs and desires. 

As to the general proposition that ‘people’ generally do follow this spending model, there have been several analyses that show the effect across wealth levels.  There’s also evidence that on average a high percentage of retirees have as much or more money 15-18 years into their retirements as they began with. And those folks still tend to have these years of reduced spending. So I don’t think we can say that this behavior is caused (primarily) by lack of funds.  I think it’s pretty reasonable to deduce that it’s a combination of reduced mobility and reduced motivation more than just reduced financial wherewithal.

Yet again though, this is applying aggregate data to an outlier population.

I'm not at all surprised that older wealthy folks spend less as they age, even given what I've said. But wealthy folks also tend to spend a lot more when they're able bodied as well.

These generally aren't folks who have piles of cash, but at DIYing things around the house, camping instead of staying in hotels, biking or driving used econocars instead of luxury SUVs.

My entire point that I've tried to make over and over again is that the spending patterns of outlier populations aren't going to follow the spending patterns of the general population.

People here are frugal lifestyle optimizers. We're all about purchasing the highest quality of life for the lowest price. And being able-bodied contributes to a lot of that optimization.

Most wealthy people spend way more than Mustachians do and most not wealthy people can't afford the premiums that health limitations demand for maintaining the same quality of life.

I'm not saying every Mustachian will spend more, but the ones who love doing a ton of activities, who don't enjoy really simple lives, are probably mostly able to do very cheaply because of physical capital.

As they lose that physical capital, they'll either need to increasingly abandon activities, or spend more to be able to continue doing a lot of things.

I'm a "do a lot of things" kind of person. I always have been, and I likely always will be. I'm seeing a clear and easily identifiable pattern that as my physical capital depletes, I'm more and more willing to spend on things to be able to keep doing things.

My point is for anyone who is living a highly optimized lifestyle that involves a lot of activities that require being able bodied to do them, which is A LOT of Mustachians, that they should be extremely cautious expecting to follow the expectation that it's a given that they'll spend less in their later years.

Many people could paint themselves into a financial corner if they base their plans on that expectation and then have the rude awakening that that can't afford the increased costs of a lot of their favourite things as disability sets in.

Again, maybe this won't be an issue for you but as someone who is literally living this experience right now of physically slowing down but spending not slowing along with it, I strongly caution people here to contemplate what an optimized lifestyle would look like with a less functional body.

And remember again my previous point that the people who live the longest are always the healthiest ones. My 90-something patients have always consistently been healthier than my mid 70s patients on average. There are some extremely active and vital 90-somethings out there.

My friend's 94 year old mom was just DIY repairing her own windows last year.

And it's not just my opinion, please see this article about how the oldest people in our society are actually "astonishingly healthy." Yet again, because those people are outliers who survive that long.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-oldest-old-are-astonishingly-healthy/

Also, as @Villanelle said, we're not saying everyone should save massive amounts more. We're just saying it may be kind of foolish and shortsighted to plan on spending less just because the populational/aggravate data suggests this pattern.

I would never just assume that my spending will go down, that seems incredibly risky to me. Also, even a modest fund that's left alone to grow will be massive by the time you're 90 if you live that long. So no one needs to save enormous extra amounts, but it certainly doesn't hurt to not plan for a spending reduction when there's plenty of reason not to depend on it.
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Re: Will you spend less as you age?
« Reply #49 on: February 10, 2025, 02:44:53 PM »
And that brings me to another point--scams.  One of mom's friends has gotten scammed several times, and nearly so at least once more.  She happened to mention to my dad, who worked in computers and is pretty savvy, that someone called to report an issue with her computer and was calling back later to walk her through fixing it.  He couldn't talk her out of this, but her granddaughter ended up doing so.  IDK if being scammed counts as "spending", the possibility is another reason it would be nice to have more cushion in the later decades.

I take care of computers for several elderly friends and family. I instruct them all to call me first in case they get a phone call/email/message/snail mail claiming their computer has a problem.

This is a huge problem and several of them came very close to giving away money to scammers.

A few of them try to pay me. If I accept any payment I prefer it be something hot or cold that I can drink while I work and we visit.

This is amazing, thank you for doing this!

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!