We each have our own value system and life goals, our own pathologies to work through.
Mortgages are one of them. On paper, historically, compared to other options, yes it's better to have low interest debt and use the difference, and it's hard to find any period of time for 20-30 years where that didn't end up outperforming having paid off the mortgage. Great for the math, but that ignores human factors, which, last I checked, we all are. I can distance myself from the thought of having a paid off mortgage for now quite easily. Honestly don't think I'm really going to care when I'm in FIRE territory one way or the other. You know what else? If I'm in FIRE territory.... it doesn't matter.
You know what also is terrible on paper? Having a boat, usually. Better, and cheaper ways of getting most of those thrills abound. I'm not attacking anyone's joy of having a boat, but there are other options for 90% of the use cases, including renting(then you don't have to store it), camping and bringing beer, etc.
Having lived in Hawaii for years, lemme tell you that I got 90% or more of the enjoyment of scuba diving from just snorkeling, didn't stop me from going scuba diving as well.
You know what else is terrible on paper? Having a new car. Guilty(2016, $23.5k), you know what though? I tried having a used(2003, 130k miles) vehicle, and I couldn't get past the mental issues I had with it. Just because I bought new, doesn't mean I can't run it into the ground, and the quality of my life and freedom I feel has improved because of it.(I looked at used and the discount was marginal)
I know how to blow $500 in a single day and enjoy every second of it, and not regret it, and I actually plan on doing that probably once every 6 months, or at least doing it again within the next 6 months. Worth it.
I also have individual stocks as well, we all know what the research on that shows.
Some of us desire FIRE above and beyond anything else in this life, some of us don't. For some the math is important, and trying to eke out that last 1% of savings rate gets our juices pumped, for others... not at all.
IMO the thing that unites us is our understanding that money can operate as an exponential function, and our desire for conscious spending and for efficiency. People with mortgages that are choosing to defy your will are consciously prioritizing their values, and understand the mathematical loss they are taking. It's not about that.