I also think that I am in a position to make the hard changes and deal with the negative consequences even without the legislation that makes it easier for me. Maybe not as effectively as I could if the machinery of society and governance were on my side, but some amount. I may not be able to stop the construction of multi lane super highway debacles or end the subsidization of petroleum fueled extractive agriculture. But I can reduce my driving and stop using products that require transportation by trucks and I can buy my food locally. I may not be able to build nuclear reactors or implement a carbon tax, but I can at least understand the climate cost of the energy I choose and the externalities I don't pay for.
Funny you mentioned Chouinard, he showed up at a rally that I helped to organize recently in my local park in CA! I felt honored. I totally appreciate the thoughtful effort to do better where you can. I would push back a little and argue that you
can change these things that you feel powerless about. Oil companies have spent unthinkable amounts of money to make you
feel that you can't. No idea where you are located but if you choose to speak up at a city council meeting, speaking out against that newly planned superhighway, advocating for LED streetlights and solar programs, advocating for more bike lanes, the city council may not hear it, but somebody else might, and then there will be two, and then three, to speak out, and so on. Hopefully, at least, your children will hear it.
This is honestly one of the main reasons I want to FIRE—among other activities like farming and art making and family, I'd like to spend as much time/energy as I can in this fight for the future.
I am really mostly concerned with how to respond to people who disregard any statements I make about the climate benefits of eating hyper locally because I chose to have three kids. The having kids choice being perceived as ignorance of what really matters when it comes to food policy.
No disrespect but it sounds like these people are snobs! A huge part of life is about family for most people. I think most of what I'm trying to say is that doing all of this math about exactly how our personal lives and families are responsible for the impending climate apocalypse is sort of irrelevant and self-defeating. Like, by that logic you should just go and commit a bunch of homicide and then they'll give you a pat on the back for your great carbon footprint math. People need to
organize. Find out when your town/city's general plan is up for renewal and invite these people (the people you're trying to respond to) to join you in flooding the planning committee with your requests/demands for complete building electrification, solar microgrids, and an active transportation plan. You can help change of the infrastructure of your entire town! And then neighboring towns will be wanting to keep up with the Joneses..