It's not just kids' schooling that was lost during the pandemic. A good friend's mom is 93 and in an assisted living facility. In 2019, she was totally lucid, knew who everyone was, understood what was going on around her. For 2 entire years, my friend was unable to meet with his mother in person, at all. No visits. During that time, while everyone around her was socially distancing themselves from each other and wearing masks, my friend's mom sunk deeper and deeper into depression and, basically, senility. After about a year and a half of social distancing and no visits from anyone, Mom caught covid anyway, at age 92, and within a week was totally fine, back to normal. Maybe mom would've developed dementia anyway, but either way, my friend lost two good years with his mother that they'll never get back.
My family and I totally followed all of the CDC's recommendations, all throughout the pandemic. My wife sewed cloth masks for us, back in March or April, 2020, and we wore them everywhere. We didn't ever meet with friends or relatives in person for all of 2020 and most of 2021. Our daughter did online schooling for 6th and 7th grade. Academically, she was fine, but socially she definitely regressed.
In hindsight, was it worth it? I don't think so. Would more people have died had my family and I not sacrificed and socially distanced ourselves from friends and family for two years? Maybe, but who knows? I just know, if it happens again in our lifetimes, it's going to be a pretty hard sell to get Americans to be willing to give up years of their lives. For what? So we can flatten the curve? Protect vulnerable people? There are thousands of poor Blacks and Latinos within a couple of miles of my house. They all worked at in-person jobs, all throughout the pandemic. Having their kids not in school was REALLY hard for many of them. Back in 2020 and 2021, while we and all of our white friends and neighbors were still wearing masks and socially distancing ourselves, I watched black people in my neighborhood shake hands, hug, and even get to enjoy smoking joints together. So, were my family and I supposed to be wiping down our groceries with bleach and wearing masks inside stores to protect those people? I guess, but why?