What do you say to those parents? You thank them for their sacrifice because statistically, society is better off if all kids get vaccinated? You had a healthy teenager before the vaccine (by all accounts, I didn't see anything that mentioned pre-existing conditions). That's a tough pill. It's one thing if an adult makes the decision for themselves but when you're doing it on behalf of someone else who is healthy and the risks to a bad case of covid are already low, I think that's the fear - even if the odds are low from vaccine complications.
-pro vax adult who is glad he doesn't have kids to have to make these types of choices
I don't have the time or energy to go into the issues with lay interpretation of Vaers reporting. In many ways it is doing more harm than good. Random medical events happen all the time- so when we prescribe a new medical procedure en mass, it's going to correlate with some convincing cases of cause & effect when in fact it is just coincidence. Articles like that are not proof of anything other than that
we have vaccinated 200,000,000+ people in the US. If we were to offer foot massages to 200,000,000 people, there would be a certain number of people who would randomly develop a foot condition a month later and naturally want to correrlate it to the massages. The only real data to look at is to see if the cases of vaccine events are statistically higher than background cases pre-covid. None of these types of outrage/fear articles do that.
So here's the thing with medical interventions and decisions epidemiologists have to undertake. EVERY DECISION has consequences. Every medical intervention has some chance at a bad outcome. Every. Single. One. That chance varies greatly, but with most of them we have a pretty good idea of the chances of those consequences. So if a medical professional were to prescribe certain painkillers for an operation, there is a chance that you will react badly to it. And yet they prescribe them and you take them, because the net calculus shows that in general people are better taking them than not. There is no way to know beforehand if random individuals will respond poorly other than that we know that some do. For those unlucky few it is truly a disheartening event, and I would be hard pressed to offer solice as I would to
any parent who lost a child. It's not a decision to take lightly, and if there were evidence if it being dangerous for teens I would absolutely be for allowing it to be a personal decision (I'm actually for it being one now- I don't think mandates help anything). But what I don't like is for that personal decision being made on poor understanding of statistics and epidemiology, which the media seems hell bent on washing over us.
As far as the vaccine goes, it still appears that the outcome is better for high school aged students to take it, although with Omicron (>99% of cases in the US), it doesn't do as much to prevent transmission as with previous variants. Interestingly, being vaccinated also appears to be less robust than having Covid itself against Omicron, so if a student already had Covid, I wouldn't even have them take the vaccine.