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clara_s

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What to advise my recently widowed mother
« on: July 29, 2016, 11:38:53 AM »
All, I've lurked for years and love everyone's advice and commitment.  I feel like I have a decent handle on my own investments but now I'm trying to advise my mom who became unexpectedly widowed earlier this year, and I'd like a double check if I'm steering her down the right path.  She's 60 and still works and is contributing to a 401(K) through her work.  My dad had a pension under which she will be drawing the survivor's benefit -- it can be taken as an annuity or a lump sum.  He also had a 401(K) with a balance of around $45,000.  Her 401(K) is through Fidelity but I have advised her to use Vanguard funds for her inheritance from my dad.  My plan was to have her take the lump sum pension and put it into a target retirement date fund to at least get a little growth before she retires.  Should we do the same for the 401(K) rollover or stagger target date funds -- or do something entirely different?  There also is about $25,000 in life insurance money she has currently sitting in the bank.  She owes on the mortgage but it is scheduled to be paid off in 2 years so the payment mostly is going to principal at this point.  I also need to find out how she has allocated her own 401(K) and make sure that fits into the plan as well.  Thanks for everyone's thoughts!  It's a little unnerving to be trying to help someone else manage their money. 

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Re: What to advise my recently widowed mother
« Reply #1 on: July 29, 2016, 01:26:52 PM »
My condolences on your recent loss.

I hope that your mother has asked for your input. If she has not, you should be treading very carefully.

clara_s

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Re: What to advise my recently widowed mother
« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2016, 01:40:38 PM »
Thank you.  Good point but she has asked for my advice.