I essentially like the FIRE concept—I LOVE FI as a personal goal—and see values in ER for many people.
I do not like 3 things I read frequently, that I don’t think need to be part of the equation at all:
1. The need for some to claim FIRE is an intrinsically better lifestyle than other approaches. It’s a big world with lotsa choices. FIREds are not the chosen ones.
2. Similar to 1 in some ways, aligning FIRE with things like environmentalism, and claiming FIRE is saving the planet. It’s not.
3. Finally, I don’t love the hurry-up-and-FIRE need for speed…and related comments about how working longer is wasting precious time during which you could be retired. Living a very frugal lifestyle to amass a frugal number, and immediately retiring, forcing yourself to continue living a very frugal lifestyle for the rest of your days? Not feeling it.
Re: number 3 that's because you are not inherently frugal. There's no reason to pursue frugality if is not your jam unless you have something short term like knocking out debt.
I would describe myself as highly focused on value—bang for buck; a DIYer; and intent on living below by means…nowhere near 4%. But i am no monk.
But more to my point, i don’t see the value for a young person in determining at, say 35, whether they'll want to be semi locked-in to a frugal lifestyle when they turn 55 or 60. Perspectives can really change and the net effect of deciding early to live frugally could very well place him in the same position as an undersaver later in life.
Which is why extremely few people actually ever ever retire at 35 with very low savings numbers.
Retiring in your 30s on an extremely low budget is in no way any kind of "orthodoxy" here. Most folks are more like you Ron, high earners, high savers, who typically work well into their 40s and 50s, retire with 7 figures (usually multiple), and have sub 4% withdrawal rates.
If anything, exactly how you retired is the orthodoxy around here, and very young, very frugal retirees are the exception.
I struggle to even think of a half dozen members who retired in their 30s with very frugal budgets. And those I can think of retired a long time ago and report back pretty regularly that they're in great financial shape.
Because even the extremely frugal folks tend to be very conservative with their retirement plans, so a bunch of them have 'stache's that have continued to grow over the years, lowering their long term risk even if they do need to spend more later in life.
Because folks here typically aren't stupid.