I feel lame with my 700k poverty stash compared to the average in this thread. I'm probably younger though. Why do you all need so much?
Sounding like an old grandfatherly guy(47 no grandkids). I see a trend where the younger Mustachian's who are not married or have kids take into account the costs of having a family.
I think other perks that people receive are not valued at their true costs. Professionals tend to get gym memberships, cell phones, food at work, healthcare subsidized or paid for, etc. I keep seeing retirement budgets where the amounts do not reflect the true costs. As an owner in my business, medical for my family is approximately $25k per year. My employees pay nothing for themselves and 20% for adding their family to the plan. So when they are budgeting $400 for healthcare they are off by a factor of 5 for what it will cost when their employer is not paying for their medical. When you are young and healthy; who needs healthcare? Or healthcare is cheap at 30. Check the table for when you are 55. If you are having kids or if you plan to age, then you need to budget more realistically for healthcare. Obamacare appears to be on a path for the benefits to be reduced or eliminated.
A good Mustachian can do it all forever!!! Well as I age, my body is not as up for things that I was doing when I was 30. Moving a house(who needs movers), replacing a roof, siding, or other physically demanding tasks/chores I can see will be very different when you are 70(or 47) vs when you are a young person with a perfect body. I have also seen very sharp family members deteriorate to the point where they should not be making financial decisions on their own. They probably should have a reputable financial analyst make their decisions regarding their Asset Allocation and buy/sell even if it costs them 1% of the Assets Under Management.
A one time event always pops up that throws your bare bones budget out of wack. Did you properly budget for a new $10k roof, water heater, replacement car, etc.?
I would like to give my 4 kids a college education. Let them graduate with no debt. Start them off on the right footing. Sure I paid for my own public college(that was when the state paid 80% of the cost to educate now they pay 30%), but covering tuition and room/board at a four year school is approximately $100k per kid for a BA and potentially $200k for graduate school. Maybe not Mustachian, but if I have the ability to work two more years and fund my 4 kids through graduate school, then I see value in that.
On the kid front. If you don't have kids or they are young, you should know that the costs go up from when they are young. Camps, sporting teams, drama camp, car insurance, wedding costs, cell phones, clothing, make up, hair cuts, etc. Yeah you can minimize some of these areas by going full Mustachian, but you will spend more than you think.
Again not Mustachian, but I also like some frivolous things in my life and my career is pretty rewarding. I go back to SOL post on "Is your Stache Evil" or something like that. Are you being greedy by retiring early vs. working a few more years and having the dollars for your favorite charity, or to help your kids with a down payment on a house, etc.?
The other big difference I see is that some people are talking about their Stache and their retirement vs. their current or future spouse's retirement. Maybe I am chanelling the retirement police, but if your spouse is still working you are a stay at home spouse, you are not retired. Why not work a few more years and get your spouse or future spouse retired as well? We are all in this together vs. I am retired and he/she is still working.
Lastly, if I retired for 10 years and then had to go back to work, I would realistically make 1/10th of what I make today if I am lucky. If your income is on the lower end of the spectrum then going back to work if that is possible/feasible may not be so challenging to fund your deficit. For me working an extra few years will provide me with so much cushion that I may be funding charitable organizations with 7 figure checks in my later years.
The future is going to be pretty cool. I want to have the options that many people may not have for myself as well as my extended family.