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What do you do with all of your spare time?
« on: September 16, 2017, 05:46:31 AM »
Not spending money somewhat limits things to do on the weekends. We used to be wrapped up in kid activities but with one off to college and another in high school/working, things have slowed down for us. How do you keep yourself occupied/entertained?

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #1 on: September 16, 2017, 05:55:33 AM »
Not spending money somewhat limits things to do on the weekends. We used to be wrapped up in kid activities but with one off to college and another in high school/working, things have slowed down for us. How do you keep yourself occupied/entertained?

Walking, talking, playing with the granddaughters, playing board games, watching Masterpiece, volunteering, working on the rental houses, driving in the country, painting the kitchen/bathroom/living room, brushing the dog, cooking, riding bikes (stationary and regular), going to the library, reading, reading, reading, occasional reading of MMM forums

So, not too much. :)

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #2 on: September 16, 2017, 06:10:11 AM »
My list for this weekend:
(1) Pick up *ITEM* from Craigslist (spending $250 for $900 retail item I can use or sell for 2x)
(2) Fix bike tire (I am slow so this could take a while)
(3) MMM meetup (look for thread Golden CO if anyone is interested)
(4) Volunteer painting work
(5) Find the leak in my pond's plumbing (hate racoons)
(6) Estate sale arbitrage - there are an unprecedented 10 estate sales on my path to picking up the *ITEM* mentioned in #1 above. 

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #3 on: September 16, 2017, 06:22:17 AM »
I run a small farmstead and homeschool so except in the depths of winter I don't have tons of free time. Usually I read, sometimes watch TV or YouTube, also play board games.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #4 on: September 16, 2017, 06:52:36 AM »
I have very little free time (FT job + side hustle that's pretty busy these days + 5-yr-old), but my favorite ways to enjoy kid-free free time include:

- reading a good book
- browsing at Barnes & Noble (I can spend hours there without buying anything, though I do sometimes splurge on a cup of coffee)
- biking on the Greenway or a nearby trail
- hiking
- volunteering
- taking online courses

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #5 on: September 16, 2017, 08:06:46 AM »
Pick up an instrument - I recommend guitar - plenty in the $100 to $150 range that are decent sound, construction, playability and stay in tune - will provide a lifetime of challenges, irritations, and fairly quick payoffs if you like playing songs - 3 chords can represent 1000's of tunes!
or, pianos can also be had for virtually nothing, but you'll likely have to have someone tune it
You'll never master either of these, or any other instrument, but instead will enjoy a lifelong journey of improvement

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #6 on: September 16, 2017, 09:01:19 AM »
Have kids.  Problem solved.  No spare time.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #7 on: September 16, 2017, 09:41:59 AM »
Volunteer work (I work with a therapeutic horseback riding group, husband works at the local library, we both work at a wildlife rehab group).

Work on art projects (currently building stuff for Halloween - we do a huge display every year, and I build props in specific themes, mostly using existing materials or stuff I pick up for free off of craigslist).

Catch up on movies/television/music.

Practice music (I sing with a parody group, husband plays an instrument).

Finding new recipes and cooking/baking. Planning the week's meals and then the shopping trips so I get the maximum amount of savings based off of sales and what I actually need and will use. (I love to cook, so I'm having lots of fun figuring out the best stuff for cheapest and then planning healthy and tasty food based off of what I can find).

Exploring local parks. There are a huge variety of county/state parks in my area. Even "pocket parks" that are under 2 acres. Most have at least a walking trail, but many have things like lakes, disc golf courses, mini golf (free usage of putters, balls and provide scorecards even!), nature trails, etc...

Learning to play tennis. We already had rackets and some balls and our neighborhood has courts. We're getting exercise, fresh air and getting pretty decent about getting the ball back and forth now, so it's getting quite fun.

Ride my bike.

Go to the gym and swim or work out on weights (we have a low cost gym membership).

Play games (board/video/computer). We just discovered we had a pack of Uno cards during a decluttering run.

Read. Love the local library!

House upkeep. Just cleaned and fixed the gutters, cleared some flower beds and dug out/created a few new ones, trimmed some shrubbery, treated the lawn for webworms (#@$!) and need to clean and refinish the deck either now or early spring. Also need to repaint a room and rearrange furniture, hang pictures, etc... never ending amount of stuff that isn't vital to do, so I get to it as I feel like it.

Go through things to reduce the clutter. Already gone through a large amount of clothing and donated TONS. Also took a hard run at our book library which took quite a bit of time but reduced it down significantly and made some $ in the process. Garage definitely needs a total empty and then going through. In the last week, just spent a few hours clearing some old bricks and building supplies that I will never use and took stuff over to the Habitat for Humanity's ReStore.

We also are planning on volunteering with Habitat for Humanity as soon as they have their next project neighborhood up and running - learning how to do house building stuff seems like a cool thing to do while helping others.




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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #8 on: September 16, 2017, 11:42:52 AM »
Volunteer work (USCG Aux, Power Squadron and youth mentor)
Read books from the library
Hike
Kayak (we own one)
Yoga videos
Hula hoop (homemade)
Free dance/yoga/whatever is available
Cook more intricate meals
Have friends over for game night
Call Mom
Fix the boat
Cross stitch (used to, anyway)
Ukulele
Learn new skills via internet

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #9 on: September 16, 2017, 12:11:41 PM »
--Read books
--Walk (usually to the lake by our house)
--Take our toddler to the library and the park
--Yoga
--Side gig
--Write
--Nap
--Drink coffee
--Call family members
--Meditate

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #10 on: September 16, 2017, 01:34:57 PM »
I feel I don't do enough.
Lot of internet surfing.
I did just finish replacing three smd resistors
to complete an electronic repair and modification.
 That was enjoyable.
 Picked up all the sticks and debris from the hurricane
several days ago.
 I'll probably go out and pickup all the pecans that have fell
from the tree.
 

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #11 on: September 16, 2017, 04:12:43 PM »
I like to spend time working on the plants and flowers in the garden , although i have a rather scatter gun approach then encourage whatever enjoys where it's living .
I like to tinker with my car , it's a rolling restoration and although i doubt i'll make huge money on it i doubt i'll loose anything , the major things being required are time and care .

I like to cook long slow meals like soups and stews.

checking the finances and reading up on interesting new businesses ,

A bit of time with my partner and the cat and thats about all i seem to manage at the moment . I hope retirement will give me more time and i hope my parents are still alive so i can spend more time with them .

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #12 on: September 16, 2017, 04:36:58 PM »
Everyone has listed most of mine (hiking, catching up on house things, entertaining the dog, volunteering & community projects, reading, building things, etc.). So, to try to add a few other things...

-- look for free (or nearly free) events in your community. For instance, my local Audubon society leads regular bird walks in local parks for people new to birding. My local library has art shows and lectures, sometimes readings from local authors, and even loans out boardgames and gadgets like fitbits and novelty baking tins for people who want to play with something new. College campuses can be a great resource, if you happen to live near one. So are community classes, if you have any available. Many museums and similar places have free days sometimes, and performing arts/community theater groups sometimes do pay-as-you-can on dress rehearsal night (or other kinds of deals/discounts).

-- look for meet-up groups that are doing interesting things, join a book group, sign up for a community sports league or bike/running club, or other social club type thing. Or start your own. Or just reach out to any of your friends who are in a similar position (kids growing up, at loose ends) and start more activities with them.

-- Geocaching. Writing. Biking. Art. Gardening. Fishing. Frisbee golf. Train for a 5K (or a marathon, whatever). Learn to sew/knit/cook/speak Spanish. Plan your next vacation. Bake cookies for your local fire department. Picnics. BBC miniseries from the library. Jigsaw puzzles & crosswords.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #13 on: September 17, 2017, 12:34:39 AM »
I have so many hobbies, and not enough free time! Not many of them are particularly spendy, love reading books & articles, hiking and walking, gardening, cooking new things. Also I'm a runner, and training for a marathon, which is low cost but very time intensive. Also enjoy some free yoga, and doing bodyweight exercises at home. I'm also learning Chinese, which takes a lot of time but is very easy to do for a low cost.

So I'd ask what sort of things you did pre-kids? And what have you always wanted to do but never had the time to?

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #14 on: September 17, 2017, 05:59:35 AM »
I work a four day week, so I have three days plus four evenings of free time.

I read a LOT, so reading and visits to the The Most Magical Place on Earth - our local library, suck up a lot of my leisure time.

I make quilts, and belong to a quilt guild and two quilting "bees," which are small groups of quilters what meet once or twice a month to visit/do show and tells/talk about projects/etc.

I volunteer once a week with a local literacy project, working one-on-one with a kid on their reading skills.

I like to putter around in the yard and garden. I am a lazy gardener, but strolling through the yard, pulling a weed here and there, filling the bird feeders, picking up sticks to burn in the fire pit and generally enjoying being outdoors is fun.

I walk my dogs every day, even when I don't really feel like it... (joke!)

We have a group of good friends that we see frequently. We have dinner with them, or get together  for drinks and gossip often.

Everything above is the fun stuff. I also grocery shop, cook, do the basic level of housekeeping so we do not live in filth, and take care of the minutiae of daily life in a modern world. I also spend too much time dinking around on the www.

I have many crabby complaints about life, the universe, and everything, but lack of things to do is not one of them.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #15 on: September 17, 2017, 06:02:24 AM »
There is no spare time!  I've cut out all the expensive going out and doing things and more than filled the time with all the DIY stuff I used to outsource.  I'm busier now than I ever was pre-mustache!

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #16 on: September 17, 2017, 06:47:04 AM »
Its all seasonal for me. In the spring and fall I'll spend a lot of time at state parks. Lately I've been putting a lot of time into canning, pickling and drying everything I can from the garden. Summers I like to take some time off of work to BBQ and smoke meat (friends and family have chickens, pigs, and beef cows). Winter is usually reserved for some serious video game time when it gets dark so early that I'm driving home at sunset.

Like others have said, I've come to enjoy DIY projects more than anything else. For me its a constant battle between wanting everything to look perfect, and making it look perfectly acceptable for my price range.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #17 on: September 17, 2017, 10:06:43 AM »
I have very little spare time between work, kids, chores, the dog, repairs, etc...

But one of my favorite things to do in my precious spare time is NOTHING. and I mean literally nothing, not watching TV, surfing the internet, but nothing. Pulling up a nice chair outside and staring into the sky, looking out at the world, closing my eyes and reflecting, etc... I can go on in this matter for quite some time and find it extremely fulfilling.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #18 on: September 17, 2017, 10:13:20 AM »
Workout
Play chess
Read books
Write for my blog

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #19 on: September 17, 2017, 10:52:02 AM »
Have kids.  Problem solved.  No spare time.

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BC (before children) I used to think I was busy.  Now I can't figure out what I used to do with all that free time. 

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #20 on: September 17, 2017, 02:56:14 PM »
My wife and I have just found ourselves in the same boat after raising 4 kids.
We have finally found time to walk/run/exercise in the evenings as well as on weekends at the park. We were so busy running kids we didn't take time for health/exercise so we feel we are playing catch-up now.

Also, we have started attending cheap/free events within a 30 mile radius without having to watch out for our kids all the time.

No grandkids yet and really not ready for them.
It's like we are finding out who we are together once again after 25 years.

It is a wonderful time!

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #21 on: September 17, 2017, 04:06:12 PM »
1. Hang out with friends (at my place or theirs) = pretty cheap fun!

2. Plan a party! I host game nights, BBQs, dinner parties, movie watching parties, etc. I usually send out an email in advance, take a couple days to plan a frugal menu, ask them to bring dessert and drinks, etc. I do as much food prep the day before as possible. I love entertaining at home because it's fun and the planning and production process takes some time, which I like!

3. Walk in the park, alone, with DH, or with a friend.

4. Go to the library/Read in my yard.

5. Check out free and cheap local events, like street fairs, food events, cultural events, etc.

6. Work out.

7. Cook/Clean/Take care of house stuff

8. Take a cheap fitness class.

9. Go to an inexpensive lecture (super fun)!

10. Go to a live recording of a podcast or show.

11. Stargaze.

12. Cheap museums!

13. Hiking

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #22 on: September 18, 2017, 07:24:03 AM »
Research, try side gigs.  I did mystery shopping and PostMates P2P food delivery.   Neither were good $/time.  PostMates started pretty good, but then UberEats came to the area and it went down hard and fast.  My car isn't new enough to drive for UberEats...
I am renting CC authorized user slots - commonly called 'selling CC tradelines', but I hate that misnomer.
I'm close to launching an Elder Orphans forum, but I have to learn everything about creating and running a forum.  And then have to learn how to market it.  Then will be learning how to monetize it...

I am using the internet to learn how to do more things around the house.  Current project is roof ventilation.  Next will be blown in insulation.

I have a DVR that uses an antenna.  There are LOTS of OTA (Over The Air, aka 'broadcast') stations.  Some have a wide variety of old movies.  I use titanTV.com to find the movies and rottentomatoes.com to decide which to record/watch.

Podcasts   I started this when doing P2P food delivery.  LOTs of entrepaneur and finance ones.

Reading   I need to switch to Ebooks for the savings, but... it's to... novel to me.

I plan on doing volunteering, but I don't think I'll be doing a scheduled amount per week or month.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #23 on: September 18, 2017, 08:48:38 AM »
Woodworking. I've gotten to the point where I can make just about anything I set my mind to. Although I have accumulated a garage stuffed to the gills with all sorts of tools (I'm now about 53 yrs old), you don't really need much to get started. A few hand tools off of Craigslist and you can start creating stuff. And there are so many benefits:
*A sense of accomplishment
*A never ending list of skills to develop and improve on (I'm now teaching myself to turn things on a lathe)
*A gratifying way to spend time
*A skill set with the potential to earn money/barter for stuff
*Skills to use to repair your home
*The envy of others who only know how to write a check for such skills

If you know where to look, the materials for all kinds of projects is free. I'm using old cedar fencing to build some compost bins I plan to sell. And stock for turning on the lathe can be found for free wherever you hear chainsaws in your neighborhood.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #24 on: September 18, 2017, 09:29:38 AM »
Well with a newborn, I have no free time.  When I do, I either vacuum or sleep.

But in the past my free time was almost entirely consumed by knitting, sewing, quilting, and ice skating. All  can be very expensive if you aren't careful.  I also really like to read, hike, kayak, row, and do nail art.

Can I also recommend filming some of the things you do and putting it on youtube.  I wish I monetized my channel a decade ago. I've only had it monetized for a month, but I'm slowly getting the ad revenue in...just a few cents a day right now, but it is a few cents I didn't have before, and I enjoy the process of making the videos.

My husband really enjoys cycling, cross country skiing, kayaking, woodworking, gardening, baking, cooking, photography, and reading.

Together we love to play board games.



You could also take a course on a new skill.

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Re: What do you do with all of your spare time?
« Reply #25 on: September 18, 2017, 09:36:19 AM »
Well, since I have two young kids (in addition to a teenager), I don't have much free time at all. In what little free time I have, I like to do the following:

read (love ebooks from the library)
cross stitch (have enough supplies to last forever from my pre-MMM days)
play piano
hike
yoga
play Lord of the Rings Online
check out redfin/realtor and try to figure out where we will go when we eventually leave So Cal
plan future trips/learn about various places around the world/read travel blogs
clean out clutter from my house for when we ultimately downsize

I expect as the kids get older I'll get to do the things above more often. Now that the youngest is approaching 6, I DO actually get some free time when they're awake. It's marvelous to finally be out of "survival mode", but I would not describe my free time as remotely abundant.

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« Reply #26 on: September 18, 2017, 10:17:57 AM »
I see 100% of my time as free (spare) time.  If you don't think you control all of your time, you don't have control of your life. Therefore I'm responsible for every minute of my day.

This is how I structure my day

1. personal hygiene
2. shop / cook / eat healthy food
3. gym / exercise
4. meditate
5. activities with family / friends
6. research / read up on useful knowledge online, including MMM

There's no concept of "spare" time. Every minute is spare time that has a purpose to help myself, family, or friends.