It's fairly well established in the MMM community that giving (or worse, lending) money to family members is generally a bad idea, as they'll come to depend on it. Helping people is not always a good thing and does create dependence. How is that hard to grasp?
Difference being that not giving a few thousand or whatever to family won't cause them to die because they can't afford cancer treatments but cutting Medicaid or backdoor evisceration of protections for pre-exisiting conditions does. Many studies show that it's X # of deaths per Y # of uninsured. Or is that fake news?
Just admit that many of you right wingers just don't give a shit about people, you don't care if people die. Fucking sociopaths.
They care a lot about fetuses though!
But really, I do have a LOT of conservative family members. A LOT. And ... they sort of don't care if people die. I don't mean that in a "cold-hearted" way, but more of a practical way.
You know we've touched on this in several threads, but not sure if we've really delved deeply into it.
Aside from the cost of care being high and the need to cut it, there's the practical aspect and the caring aspect
- babies born early that spend a lot of time in the NICU cost a lot of money
- many of them have life-long problems that cost a lot of money, both health-wise and education wise
- babies born with fetal alcohol syndrome, or with other birth defects like down syndrome, or genetic disorders - they cost money. To care for medically, and to educate.
- people get cancer. Cancer treatment is expensive.
- people get diabetes, sometimes kids get Type 1, treatment is expensive
- people get old and sick. And end of life care is expensive, and sometimes you need it for a very long time
- people will spend an inordinate amount of money, time, effort, to keep someone alive
- we don't allow euthanasia. What if someone would rather die peacefully than live on machines for years, or die by refusing to eat?
- young people die because they get sick and don't have insurance and aren't able to get care
So, where do you draw the line? I've got friends in Canada and Europe and the UK where they get care. Yes, their taxes are high. But they don't generally go broke due to medical issues.
In the US, we are such "individuals"... honestly, a lot of my conservative family members are practical. People die. They get that. My cousin died of a leg infection. Sometimes your baby is born too early and they die. Sometimes you get cancer, and your church has a spaghetti dinner and a pancake breakfast (or 3) because your insurance sucks, or you don't have it at all. But then you can't afford to finish chemo, so you die. Sometimes you get old, and you cannot afford a home. You don't want to go in one anyway. So a few friends and family members may help you out, come by, bring dinner. But in the end, you are living alone, you have an aneurysm burst and you die (my dad).
It's complicated, especially when you are talking millions of dollars. I saw a quote yesterday "by having a lifetime cap on insurance, you are telling someone that they aren't worth any more money to keep alive". Which sounds harsh. And it is. A preemie can hit that in months, and that preemie can go on to grow up and get a job and pay taxes. On the other hand, that preemie might require a lifetime of specialized care in a special home, and that can run even higher.