Where does everyone else live? You could have your wedding near the majority of people, then honeymoon in Hawaii.
This! If you've got people scattered throughout a region, then pick a single spot that will work decently for the majority. If you want great grandma to come though, you better get married in her town because she probably can't travel.
Yeah, no.
If you want to get married, get married where YOU want to get married. Don't pick a location for someone else entirely - make sure it's where you want to be, if you actually care.
When I got married (back in the dark ages), literally everyone in my family had the same wedding. It was in one of 3 Catholic churches, and the reception was in one of 3 places (2 church halls and one fire hall), and there was only one caterer.
But you know? I didn't live there anymore. I lived a 6 hour drive away. I did not have any intention of getting married in my home town, because that would have left me, the bride, planning a wedding from afar - simply to make my mom happy. In fact, she gave me the guilt trip "I know you want to get married where your friends live." No mom, I want to get married where *I* live.
Not to mention that dh was paying for the thing, and his family was in a different state from where I lived and where I was from, and he himself was living on the opposite coast, and half of his family lived in Europe. Plus I have more siblings than he has cousins.
YES, this means that not everyone is going to come. You need to consider that and decide how important that is to you. There were many benefits to my having a wedding where I lived, not the least of which I could plan it, but ALSO it was near 3 major international airports (IAD, DCA, BWI). DH's sister got engaged after us and planned her wedding to be 2 weeks before ours, which allowed for the Europeans to attend both ceremonies.
I have traveled to weddings (never to Hawaii). I have traveled from DC to Taos, NM (our bridesmaid/groomsman married each other). California to Denver (one of my bridesmaids). California to PA (my brother). California to NC (my nephew). California to Philadelphia (our best man). California to NY (one of my best Navy buddies).