Jack, of course not everyone can do everything perfectly, we'd all be robots in a utopian society if that were the case. The entire point of this though is that it IS possible and it's possible for more then just the onesy twosies you seem to think it is, that's what everyone here is saying. They are sharing their personal experiences so that you know it's not as rare as you think it is. You just don't want to believe it.
Stop with the strawman arguments and hasty generalizations/false dichotomies already!
Fallacy 1 (strawman): I did not claim that pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is only possible by "the onesy twosies," either "seemingly" or actually. You are
consistently exaggerating the magnitude of my claims in order to falsely pretend they aren't correct. Learn the difference between "none," "few," "some," "many," "most," and "all" -- none of which are equivalent terms -- please!
Fallacy 2 (hasty generalization): "Everyone here" is not making the same point. Luck12 and I are making different points, just to name two counterexamples.
Fallacy 3: Personal experiences (i.e. anecdotes) are not data. They can be useful as examples (including as counterexamples to disprove contrary claims), but are not evidence of trends by themselves. For example, you can use your anecdote to disprove the claim that "nobody can pull themselves up by their bootstraps," but
not to prove the claim that "everybody can pull themselves up by their bootstraps."
Fallacies 4, 5, and 6: "You just don't want to believe it" is an ad-hominem attack, attempt at proof by assertion, and another strawman (since we disagree on what "it" -- the claim you are accusing me of not wanting to believe -- is), all rolled into one sentence.
Being successful early, provided you are of able body and mind, is an extreme case ONLY because more people don't seek out the knowledge that is needed to do better for themselves
That's an extremely specific and unequivocal claim. What evidence do you have of it? None so far, that I've seen! It seems to me to be nothing more than an ideologically-based proof by assertion (again!). It is not only useless as a point of discussion, but actively distracts from attempts to discover the real problem.
Besides,
something is still apparently different between previous generations and now (assuming Cathy isn't correct that the whole thing can be explained by margin of error). So what is it? Even if the idea that "people don't seek out the knowledge" were on the right track, does that mean you are claiming that it has
become harder to seek out that knowledge than it was before?