Maisy, I dont see how this is against mustachian behavior. For me mustacian behavior is about stop wasting money on crap you dont need. So stop the leakages on shit that brings misery rather than happiness. Sure people on my career trajectory typically are spendy pants. But hey that is a choice. You can make tons of money AND drive a 10 y.o car, live as a family in 1500 sqft or less, never go out to eat, etc. We do.
Malkynn. Ok. Did not realize aggressive career and salary pursuit was normal in MMM people. Usually I see a lot of complaints and evasions about jobs and working, treating it like an evil. My question, how happy are those folks? My point: make the freaking best of it and optimize that game while you are in it. Then flip it the finger if that makes your day
I think maximizing career and income is normal among most people, Mustachian or not.
It's actually extremely rare to voluntarily give up income and career advancement, and even the people here who do it tend to contemplate it an analyze it for a long time before pulling the rip cord.
So the only people who are doing it are generally people who have thought through it very carefully and concluded that it is in fact the best option for them. They are the counter cultural ones, not the people aiming to be as successful as possible.
If you think people here are against working, then I suggest you read more threads. There are A LOT of very hard working high earners here.
Some people here hate their jobs, some love them.
And in fact, I've seen very little correlation between hating work and wanting to downshift. If anything, I see the people who are most miserable in their jobs are the ones who go as hard as possible to be able to leave forever as quickly as possible.
It's actually the people like me who enjoy our work and have no interest in walking away from it permanently who tend to downshift. I'm very happy to work another 10-30 years on a part time basis, it's delightful and sustainable.
In the end, you do whatever works for you.
ETA: I'm not actually disagreeing with you, I personally think it's a huge waste of time and energy to spend many working years unhappy, I just don't assume that working harder and getting even more entrenched in a career is by default the right answer for anyone who is unhappy.
If you enjoy your work, then awesome, but then you really can't generalize your decisions to those that don't enjoy theirs.