"He that gives should never remember, he that receives should never forget." - says the Talmud.
"Whoever gives tzedakah [charity] to the poor with a sour expression and in a surly manner, even if he gives a thousand gold pieces, loses his merit. One should instead give cheerfully and joyfully, and emphasize with him in his sorrow." - Maimonedes
"From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded; and from the one who has been entrusted with much, much more will be asked” says the Christian bible.
"Philanthropy is commendable," said Martin Luther King, "but it must not cause the philanthropist to overlook the circumstances of economic injustice, which make philanthropy necessary."
"How selfish soever man may be supposed, there are evidently some principles in his nature, which interest him in the fortune of others, and render their happiness necessary to him, though he derives nothing from it, except the pleasure of seeing it." - Adam Smith, who is in many senses the father of modern capitalism.
There are some who understand these things. There are some who do not.