I admit, I have always been secretly happy that my kids are not good enough for travel sports. I have friends with kids on travel teams, and the amount of money and time involved is ridiculous.
I rarely have people ask me directly to give to their fund raiser. There are lots of Facebook posts asking people to buy a raffle ticket, or pledge to their lift-a-thon or whatever, and I just scroll right by those. At work, people will bring in the form and leave it in the break room, and I just ignore those. And in reverse, I don't ask other people to give to my kids' fund raisers. Sure, Grandma might buy a thing of cookie dough, but I don't even ask anyone else. I take the kids to the spring carnival PTO fund raiser, and I give to various things throughout the year. But on principle, I don't buy the overpriced wrapping paper, or the $20 for a tiny box of chocolate. They get the kids to sell these things by giving them a crappy toy for hitting a certain level. And then the top seller in the school gets a free bike, or a tablet, etc. I hate that. I have told my kids flat out - you will never be the top seller in the school. You will never get that prize. You get lots of other things at other times, so just know that this one thing you will not get.