I got word that a memorial service is going to be held for a friend of mine who died last week, and having some mixed emotions about it. He was one of my friends from middle school in CO, who eventually wound up in Phx when DH and I lived there, and that's where the service will be.
I feel like I should go, because this was a group of friends that stretches back >20 years and I still keep in close touch with several of them. So yeah, it would be a good sort of closure/bonding experience. But I dread going back to Phoenix, which is associated with little but bad memories from living there. I'm not sure what I'm asking for here....maybe a facepunch that I should put on my big girl panties and deal, maybe assurance that I'll regret missing it more than not, maybe a lecture on how Mustachianism isn't about using money as an excuse to be a coward or selfish? Anyway, thoughts appreciated, face punches included.
Actually, even just writing this out kinda helps. Thanks for listening.