We've been over $200k AGI for the past four years, though we'll likely dip below that threshold this year depending on how investment income works out.
Here's our trailing monthly average spending by category for the past 12 months:
Income/payroll taxes: $2,599
Mortgage interest: $2,073
Child care: $1,315
Home maintenance/improvement: $1,270
Charity: $948
Property tax: $650
Grocery store (including booze and toilet paper/soap/etc.): $531
Dining out: $78
Medical/dental expenses/insurance: $353
Local transportation (car registration/insurance/gas/repair, bus fare): $270
Utilities (electric/gas/water/sewer/trash/phone/internet): $211
Travel: $155
Entertainment: $107
Homeowners/umbrella insurance: $64
Everything else (clothing, gifts, other): $115
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Total: $10,675
That's a lot! On the other hand, I think a lot of us might tend to handwave away some of the bigger items on here. Income taxes aren't optional and will also drop precipitously during FIRE. Mortgage interest is purely optional since I have taxable investments offsetting it that could be used to eliminate the mortgage if I thought that was a prudent move. Child care is temporary. Most of the home maintenance cost was catching up on stuff the previous owners deferred.
As to charity, I tend to agree with
@Paul der Krake that there will still be plenty of people needing help in a couple decades once my investments have appreciated a bunch, but while I'm working I do make sure to max out the amount my employer will match.