One of the main themes of this blog is to live 'a frugal life, but a good life". Certain people find somethings worth spending money on more than others. Cable, a really nice house, organic food, travel, whatever. I believe MMM had a $400,000 house until recently. Personal choices are what makes this blog great. We can all learn from others experiences.
Cars seem to be a topic that people great very aggressive with on this blog. I respect anyone that does not want a SUV. It just is not important to them, and they save money and impact on the environment. Seriously, good for you! The thing that surprises me is the harsh judgement many of these people have on SUV drivers.
Have you ever considered that some SUV drivers make up the difference elsewhere, do somethings more frugal than you, offset the environmental and financial drain in other areas? Perhaps they have different needs/ wants and/ or goals than you?
I just purchased my first SUV, a 2011 toyota Highlander SE, certified used. I spent $26,000 and have no regrets whatsoever! I saved, and prioritized, and I can afford it. Also, I reused almost everything I come into contact with, recycle (I bring things from work, so they can be recycled at home), used cloth diapers, keep my heat extremely low, never put the air on, walk or bike many places, almost never buy new, have a side gig, always give back to State and National parks, we backpack and always care for the space we stay in, don't travel much, rent a tiny inexpensive home... the list goes on and on.
My car is important to me. I need to use it for my professional job. I am starting my family, and will have several kids. We drive cars until their death, so I plan on having this car for a long time.
As far as safety, I don't know the research out there, but if you were given a choice of sitting in a large SUV or a small inexpensive sedan (and have a loved family member with you, i.e. infant), and then have the cars driven into each other at 60 miles per hour, I bet you would pick the SUV.
Not every SUV driver is a jerk, aggressive and stupid driver, tying to kill the earth. Everyone makes personal choices, and we personally try to make up for this choice in other areas. Perhaps I am not so different than you after all? Maybe you have a splurge area that I don't have? Travel is one example that impacts the Earth greatly.
I write this to respectfully challenge the viewpoint of some of you.