Allow me to be the first on this thread to mention THE TRAIN!!!!* I have an Amtrak credit card as of a few months ago and have built up 25k points through manufactured spend. Loved my roomette experience going to the Moab MMM meetup. Have ridden the train to one national park with my bike and along one entire coast and across several states. Nothing makes it clearer how freaking big the USA is.
I plan to buy a $499 USA rail pass (or less if I manage to buy it when it goes on sale). Like anything, train travel involves learning your preferences and what routes you like and which distances work best for you. I also like taking a bike on the train where possible. You meet a lot of train lovers and bikers on the train. Also, you can drink on the train, or write your novel, or play games all day. Oh and the dining car food is good (but always bring a bag of snacks just in case)! I’m starting to check out more Amtrak enthusiast channels on YouTube for new routes and ideas.
I recommend this website for awesome train travel ideas:
https://www.seat61.com/ I have followed his instructions for some epic rides!
The over emphasis of travel as leisure activity is also a favorite topic of mine. As an iconoclast I find the automatic posturing about going to Europe or ever more far flung places annoying. I traveled to Europe for the first time a few years ago on my job’s dime and it was cool and I took some awesome trains but was not amazed. It was fine. My life was not empty before hand nor revolutionized afterwards. The main sensations I get from travel are routine-breaking, physical exertion, exploration and problem-solving. I can do all those things without the airplane.
From observing some inveterate travelers in my family who simply love international flights, to me it seems similar to plastic surgery addiction. There’s a lot of discomfort and expense and novelty all sold to them as a life changing package deal and after awhile they have to go through the whole process all over again to get that feeling again.
I think you can get all that novelty much closer to home, through things like bike packing, back packing, group events/meetups, summer camps, meetups, conferences centered around hobbies, specialty camps (like space camp or rockstar camp), orienteering, sports activities, volunteering, etc.
Having said all that I am a good traveler, but I prefer to do it for work when it’s over long distances, but also have a lot of trouble justifying the carbon cost. Also, as a FIREd person I am mostly allergic to crowds and lines and rush hours.
*Looks like someone mentioned the train a few posts above, but more as a future possibility than a viable venture currently transporting 10s of millions of Americans around the country.