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Dances With Fire

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Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« on: December 21, 2018, 04:38:01 AM »
Hope this doesn't sound like "Humblebrag" but instead encourages others on their journey...So here goes...

Some 28 years ago I was an over-achiever young gun in the business world climbing the corporate ladder. Then a major shake-up in management put me in the unemployment line and I (almost) became homeless, "camping" in my truck in the back country of Colorado...

Fast forward today...Married some years ago, paid off the house this year! No more payments! Net worth hit 1.1M

An incredible journey with great family and friends along the way. Very thankful for everyone and the experiences over the years.

Thanks to all those on this forum. Happy holidays to all and a happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year... Cheers!

Anyone care to share your story?

Dances With Fire

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Re: Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« Reply #1 on: December 21, 2018, 05:21:13 AM »
Small story: our clothes washer died last Sunday, spectacularly. Internet research determined it would cost as much to fix as to buy new (13 years old so no warranty left). We were able to research highly-rated models and buy a new one (delivered and installed yesterday) and just... absorb the cost. No worries about how we're going to make the payments, no juggling credit cards to find one with enough left on the credit line, nothing.

Big story: DH and I are among the "always been frugal*" crowd, so we didn't have an awakening. What we have had has been:
- brains that are talented in the STEM space, so careers are highly-paid
- for me, parents that paid for my college education
- lucky in terms of where, when, and to whom we were born
- each other
- good health (enough that we can work in our chosen fields)
- low family drama on my side (e.g. my brother is awesome, not a ne'er-do-well)

Our hard work has had a fantastic base to build on, and we're always thankful for that.


*Relatively speaking - we're only partial Mustachians at this time, but have both lived with far less in the past.

OrangeSnapDragon

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Re: Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« Reply #2 on: December 21, 2018, 05:34:31 AM »
We started the journey living pay check to pay check and were miserable.

I found MMM and absorbed for several months before gently bringing it into my partners purview.  Luckily he latched on the rest is history.

Every day I feel rich even though we live a pretty frugal life.  For example this morning richness is filled with...

- Sipping my morning latte made with an inexpensive machine

- Gazing at our $10 Christmas tree (we get a live tree each year as part of a family outing but opt for the 'Charlie Brown' tree)

- Looking forward to a weekend of woodworking which will lead to a charred wood accent wall in our living room that is currently a mix of studded wall, old paneling, and exposed plaster. Total cost will be about 320 but if we had it done would be closer to 1,000




 

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Re: Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« Reply #3 on: December 21, 2018, 10:38:36 AM »
Like Maenad, I am forever grateful for my life's foundation that was laid by my parents. I was born in a politically and economically stable country, to a levelheaded, loving mother and father who stayed married to each other. They were both teachers, but even more than supporting our school knowledge they taught us, by their lived example, that stuff is not what makes a person happy and that you can figure out how to solve most problems with some effort and guts (including the guts to ask for help).

Then I married a man with the same outlook on life. No drama, but rather mutual support for our shared goals, on a base of respect and permanent commitment.

I am rich forever regardless of my income.

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Re: Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« Reply #4 on: December 23, 2018, 11:33:50 AM »
Thankful for this forum.

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Re: Thankful Mustachian: Share your story
« Reply #5 on: December 23, 2018, 05:36:35 PM »
Thankful for the mentors that have taught DW and I the things we have made use of to become financially and career stable, comfortable and worry free.  We got a later start than some but we found success.