I just took the plunge and took a 30% pay cut. Until recently my ego would have made me horrified to give up a $135k job for a $95k job, but then this forum made me realize that 95k is affluence. There is a huge tax drop, and I no longer have a 3-4 hour a day commute that entails paying $1000/mo for a pet sitter, tons of car maintenance, etc. I chose my family, my health, and my happiness over money & misery. I expected that I might regret it, but not at all! I have a better 403b match, $600 less per month in health insurance premiums, and a faster vesting schedule. And I work less than 10 miles from home. It's true I could have retired faster at the other job, but it also made 5 years seem like an eternity of anxiety, depression, anger, and no time with my family. All my dreams and hobbies were an impossibility, and now they are a source of potential income. I'd gladly extend the retirement time frame to 8 years to do something I love and get to take a lunch break, be home in the evening, etc. Your reasons seem sound.