I was a bit younger than most people when the big recession hit in 2008. I graduated from high school in spring 2008, aged 18, and for several reasons I decided not to go into fulltime education but to find a job and take a parttime degree. I worked for a temp agency and did all kinds of jobs for years. In my country we had a triple-dip recession, it was really bad. It's only for the past 2 years that the economy has been noticeably recovering. I did years of temp work and shortterm contracts for a lot of different companies. Most of it was AP-type work in finance, but I have washed dishes and sold burgers at events to make ends meet.
Because the relationship with my (divorced) parents is complicated, I had to leave home too. They weren't able to support me at all in my education either. I grew up in a village and moved to the nearest bigger town because it was one of the (relatively) least affected areas in the country, but the cost of living, especially rent, was very high back then. I found an apartment that cost €800 all-in for two bedrooms and found a roommate, but it still cost me about €500/month when I was sometimes not even making €1000. Looking back I might have been able to live a little bit more cheaply, but I'm glad I didn't. Because I didn't have any fall-back option, I felt I needed a lease in my own name. I had nice neighbours in that apartment too, they were poor as well, but got food from both the food bank and their own parents and they always shared it with me. They lacked practical skills so I helped them out in return.
Basically, I worked for years for very little money and always felt poor, but always managed to get by because of frugality and always managed to keep an emergency fund and some savings. I was never in debt during that time. Things got better when I met my partner and we moved in together in 2014, initially in that expensive apartment. We lived extremely frugally and managed to save up a deposit for a very cheap house that we bought in the spring of 2015, right before the start of a housing boom in here.
I didn't find a long-term, steady job until a year ago, but I'm making a pretty decent amount of money for someone my age/circumstances so I can't say the difficult years have damaged my career prospects. My partner worked a retail job for a company that went bankrupt, but he was made redundant right before that and received a severance package. He then found a steady customer service job that he's still in today. Both of us were never truly unemployed. As we now have an average income and a very cheap home, we feel very rich. We can save, do up our home and invest and still have enough money left over to not feel poor. We have definitely increased our spending in some areas. We lived off rice and beans for years and we're happy we can now afford to eat something else for a change, but we are still very frugal.
7 years of financial uncertainty as young adults has definitely shaped us and we both feel it's very important to keep in touch with people in our network, to not get too settled into a place of employment but keep a plan - B and a plan - C in mind, to keep learning new skills and to have a few side hustles if possible. We also keep our costs down by having a low mortgage, a large emergency fund and investments for passive income. Our savings rate is about 30-40%. We didn't start investing until 2 years ago so we're not at the point where we could live off them, but we would be doing just fine if one of us would lose their job.