I try to be a minimalist, one, steak knife, fork, large spoon, regular spoon, plate, coffee cup and drinking cup and then an alcohol drinking cup and I'm happy, maybe that's because my wife has 20 pans with lids, 10 stainless steel cups and another 10 miscellaneous cups, that are rarely if ever used, two cylinder bowl full of plastic ladles, spoons, spatulas, etc, but if one cup is missing, she knows ;-/