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Please recommend a journal
« on: March 20, 2015, 10:34:09 AM »
I love reading the journals, even the ones I have nothing in common with, but would like to find a few that are similar to myself in the following categories (or at least some of them) without starting at the beginning and reading each one. Do you have any recommendations?

-In a steady relationship of some kind
-Age 25-35 ish
-No kids
-Living in a high COLA
-Enjoys travel
-Strong desire for FI but not necessarily RE



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Re: Please recommend a journal
« Reply #1 on: March 20, 2015, 10:43:07 AM »
My wife and I live in NYC.  We meet most of the criteria you're talking about, I think?  We write our 2-person journal hereI'm in green text, wife (lentils5eva) is in purple.

KatieSSS lives in Washington DC and her journal is here.

SF Semi-Mustache lives in San Francisco, and his journal is here.

Drakmon and his wife live in NYC.  Journal was originally all written by Drakmon, now his wife joins him for some posts.  Their journal is newer but their progress is awesome.  You can view it here.

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« Reply #2 on: March 20, 2015, 10:53:59 AM »
Thanks, those are great! I do already follow you and lentils (such a great journal and resource btw, you guys are so inspiring to me!), and Katie also (but haven't been there for a little while).

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Re: Please recommend a journal
« Reply #3 on: March 20, 2015, 10:55:49 AM »
I love reading the journals, even the ones I have nothing in common with, but would like to find a few that are similar to myself in the following categories (or at least some of them) without starting at the beginning and reading each one. Do you have any recommendations?

-In a steady relationship of some kind
-Age 25-35 ish
-No kids
-Living in a high COLA
-Enjoys travel
-Strong desire for FI but not necessarily RE

I'm your twin lol

28, living with SO for 4 years. Long Island NY, LOVE to travel, hope to FI ASAP but love staying active and making $$ off projects/consulting.

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« Reply #4 on: March 20, 2015, 11:09:21 AM »
Hi Twin! I am putting your journal on my list.

Speaking of which, I have a side question. When you (anyone) come to the journals page, do you go to 'show new replies to your posts', 'show unread posts since last visit,' or just go to the main page and start reading? I always see people writing "commenting to follow," so I guess they have some sort of strategy, but I don't know what it is. I don't want email notifications because I hate a full inbox, but I would like to have an easy way to not miss follow ups to things I enjoy reading.

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« Reply #5 on: March 20, 2015, 11:14:13 AM »
Sounds like us! 28 and 26, no kids, travel a lot, live in Vancouver. Though we totally intend to retire as early as we can. I don't have a journal here, but we do keep a blog (in my signature) where we talk about our finances, travel, lives, etc.

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Re: Please recommend a journal
« Reply #6 on: March 20, 2015, 11:15:26 AM »
Thanks, those are great! I do already follow you and lentils (such a great journal and resource btw, you guys are so inspiring to me!), and Katie also (but haven't been there for a little while).

Glad you like it!  We try very hard to keep it funny but focused.  Katie's great too - we were cheering her on last year as she annihilated her student loan debt.  She's posting a little bit less now as a result, but she's still kicking ass.

What are you personally working on as far as "next step" in your F/I journey?  I've found that it helps to focus on journals that are in similar situations with similar goals - age or income aren't always the best predictors.

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« Reply #7 on: March 20, 2015, 11:19:46 AM »
Hi Twin! I am putting your journal on my list.

Speaking of which, I have a side question. When you (anyone) come to the journals page, do you go to 'show new replies to your posts', 'show unread posts since last visit,' or just go to the main page and start reading? I always see people writing "commenting to follow," so I guess they have some sort of strategy, but I don't know what it is. I don't want email notifications because I hate a full inbox, but I would like to have an easy way to not miss follow ups to things I enjoy reading.

Hey, I sub to the journals I enjoy on Tapatalk app on my android phone.

I also go into random journals almost daily and read. If someone has a unique situation, writing style, or something else I find interesting I will usually sub.

Its quite funny, I have met many people who I now am very good friends with in the real world, on some kind of forum first.

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« Reply #8 on: March 20, 2015, 11:43:53 AM »
Our goals hmm...good question. Mine is to work and stash as much as possible at this age, to learn enough about travel hacking to subsidize at least some of the international trips that we love to take, and to continue to care for my very elderly relative throughout the end of life. This last item is where we run into most of our constraints, as she needs a lot of care, but is still in very good mental health and has lots of strong opinions! This is something that we have taken on 100% by choice, and although it limits our freedom to move around and make certain financial decisions, it is just about the best thing (and sometimes the hardest thing) I have ever done, besides marrying my awesome spouse. His goals are to find a better paying job (and/or one he doesn't hate, as he does his current job), and to save and build wealth for flexibility, but he is only just starting to break his previous spending habits and think differently. He would also like to go back to school for his master's, although we are just starting to look into this. We are both military vets and someday would like to live abroad for a few years (Europe, a couple of specific places in Asia or the Middle East being our top choices, not necessarily in that order). We have no debt, but up until two years ago, no real savings either. In short, after said relative is no longer with us, we feel like the world will be our oyster, and we will go wherever we feel the wind blow us. Our other focus right now is on selling and donating stuff so that we don't have a lot of junk to move or put in storage etc.. ack!) once that day hits. I have thought about starting a journal of my own, but have hesitated because (a) I am a little private and nervous about posting things online about my life and (b) I can't honestly say that either of us are very mustachian, and although we've come a really long way since I found the blog, I am not sure I am ready to open myself up to all the punches. :)
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Re: Please recommend a journal
« Reply #9 on: March 20, 2015, 12:03:04 PM »
Based on what you've said, I would consider starting your own journal.  Your situation is fairly unique - your aging family member appears to be a very serious priority for you two, but it's also an additional constraint/cost to be considered.

Put the numbers up that you're comfortable with (i.e. just assets, or just income/spending) and ask for "kind feedback" or "gentle facepunches only, please".  In general, feedback on journals is much much kinder than in case studies in the 'ask a mustachian' forum.  If you add some kind of note in the title or first post requesting kind/gentle feedback, you're likely to find that people stay civil.

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Re: Please recommend a journal
« Reply #10 on: March 20, 2015, 12:09:47 PM »
We're half and half. Age 25, married, no kids wanted; on the other end, we live in a low COLA area, travel is meh IMO, and RE is top priority.

 

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