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Alex in Virginia

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Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« on: May 23, 2013, 01:46:20 PM »

Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!

A couple of days ago, I was about two thirds through my errands run when I realized I was really enjoying myself.  What’s this, I said to myself.  How can I be having such fun just buying groceries or picking up a ream of copy paper?  And then it came to me.  I was playing the Frugal Game, I was scoring point after point, and I was really feeling good about it.

Yes.  Practicing no-sacrifice frugality puts me more in control.  Helps me come out ahead.  Gets me in a winning mood.  And who isn’t going to feel good about all of that?

Too often, when frugality is discussed it is on the assumption that by being frugal one is giving something up.  Doing without.  Sacrificing one’s todays for the sake of one’s tomorrows.  But that definitely is not how I experience frugality.  To me, it is – literally – a fun game.

On that errands day earlier this week, I went to the office supply store for some copy paper.  Shelf price: $5.79 a ream.  But I had gone online for a rebate coupon and I had a credit for bringing in a spent ink cartridge.  My price net: $2.00 a ream for 2 reams.  Score!  And I got even better quality paper than usual, so I definitely gave nothing up.

Next stop, the grocery store.  I had room in my refrigerator freezer for more meats and a $5 off coupon in my pocket that I could use if I spent $25.  Hey, perfect combination!  Ten minutes later, I was walking out with packages of country ribs, steak and chicken – and a savings of not just $5 but over $15 thanks to my selections.  Score!  And I certainly won’t be giving up good eating either.

(I almost danced a little jig in the parking lot with that one!)

To play the Frugal Game successfully, I find that I have to plan my spending ahead of time.  Otherwise, I would not have had those coupons, would I have?  Hunting for and finding the deal is definitely part of the fun of the Game.

Last week, I went on a little camping road trip.  I planned ahead by making sure I had both my National Parks and Virginia Parks lifetime passes in my wallet.  In just 2 days I saved $15 on vehicle admission to the Skyline Drive, $8 on camping in the Jefferson National Forest and $4 on admission to 2 Virginia state parks.  Score, score, score!  And I got all the same benefits I would have had without the savings.

On that trip, my endpoint destination was Natural Bridge (and Caverns), which sports a hefty $29 admission.  But I scouted it ahead on the web and saved myself $6 by prebuying the ticket.  Score!  And I gave nothing up on that one either.

I like playing the Frugal Game at home just as well.  That’s where some people are more likely to think that one has to give up comfort to play the game.  But… not so much.

Every day, one of the first things I do on getting out of bed is to turn on my classical music internet radio station.  That used to be Sirius, for which I paid a fee every month.  But now it’s Pandora, which is free.  And you know what?  With Pandora, I have been able to customize my listening experience so that “my” classical radio station only plays musical compositions I really like!  Score on the savings and I improved my listening experience.  And I get to start every day with that little win.  How cool is that?

Another thing I do every day at home is to use electricity.  But I now play the Frugal Game to win by not misusing and wasting electricity.  I just got my bill for last month: $48.31 for 425 kWh.  A year ago, my bill for the same month was $125.83 for 1107 kWh.  Big score!  (And another little jig.)

What in heavens name have I given up by playing the electricity Frugal Game?  I have lights on whenever and wherever I need them.  I don’t limit my computer or television time in any way.  I don’t keep myself from turning on ceiling fans if it gets warm or a heater if it gets chilly.  I have NO idea what I have given up – if anything – except maybe the wasteful privileges of walking out of rooms (or the house itself) and leaving lights and electronics on willy nilly… or letting a near-empty freezer just keep churning away 24/7… or being so lazy that I would not take the time to switch out my inefficient incandescent light bulbs.

The bottom line is that my whole daily life is like this now.  I am playing an ongoing Frugal Game that keeps rewarding me with little “happy jolts” practically every time I open a bill or whip out a credit card.  And it’s fun.

Maybe it’s that it doesn’t take much to make me happy.  Or that I have a very strong Scrooge gene in my DNA.  Or maybe – just maybe – it’s that playing the Frugal Game puts me in touch with how much I am in financial control of my life.  And that, as they say, is priceless.

How about you?  Do you get the same kick out of playing the Frugal Game?


Alex in Virginia

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #1 on: May 23, 2013, 03:55:45 PM »
Alex, I definitely have the same gene. I get quite an enjoyment everytime I save money using price matching at Walmart. Also,I use Kohl's card to get 30% off on items already discounted 80% or more. Plus I get free shipping and easy returns.   It is very useful especially when it is an item that rarely gets discounted. My wife used to buy stuff from a store and ship them as a gift to her relatives. Now, we mail it directly from kohls.com and pay no shipping. We also save so much time!!  Also, Kohl's recently started giving extra 5% cashback when you use your kohl's card. On top of that,you can also use sites like ebates to get extra cashback.  I easily save upto %90 on my purchases.  I also get a free $25 giftcard dusing small business day for every amex credit card I own. Moreover, I get free miles/cash from credit cards I apply for. I save ridiculous amount of money optimizing my purchases. The more money I save, more I invest and retire early. This country is definitely an ERE heaven!!

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2013, 08:10:30 AM »
We play it too - except we call it "Pretend Poverty". We're even gradually writing up a strategy guide with everything we do to save money, categorized.

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2013, 10:36:08 AM »
We play it too - except we call it "Pretend Poverty". We're even gradually writing up a strategy guide with everything we do to save money, categorized.

Hi, Zikoris...

Thanks for replying to my post... but... Zikoris!!  Pretend Poverty??!!

I NEVER ever feel poor when I play the Frugal Game.  I feel smart.  I feel in control.  I feel empowered.  I feel I'm made richer by the savings I'm scoring when I play the game.  But poor??  Like in "deprived... can't afford it... don't have the money... oh woe is me???"  No, no, never.

Any one else have a viewpoint on this?

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2013, 12:23:25 PM »
It depends on how hard-core you are. For someone with a < $50K salary, "pretend poor" might be the only way to get an 80% savings rate.

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #5 on: May 24, 2013, 04:12:02 PM »
It depends on how hard-core you are. For someone with a < $50K salary, "pretend poor" might be the only way to get an 80% savings rate.
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It can cause a bit of cognitive dissonance when you realize that a lot of the 'frugal' budgets around here are on par with your take-home. (can't say I'm saving 80%, yet, though. We're still learning to be poor.)

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #6 on: May 24, 2013, 05:17:45 PM »
To make the game more interesting, I like to sing the Mission Impossible theme song in my head while I play.

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Re: Playing the Frugal Game Is Fun!
« Reply #7 on: May 24, 2013, 06:13:02 PM »
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Thanks for replying to my post... but... Zikoris!!  Pretend Poverty??!!

I NEVER ever feel poor when I play the Frugal Game.  I feel smart.  I feel in control.  I feel empowered.  I feel I'm made richer by the savings I'm scoring when I play the game.  But poor??  Like in "deprived... can't afford it... don't have the money... oh woe is me???"  No, no, never.

Oh, I agree with you 100% - we just call it that because we liked the way the words sounded together, and it's mildly offensive which is a plus for us. We have a blast and live a great life - we just got back from traveling to four countries, have a great apartment in downtown Vancouver, eat better than anyone we know, and go to tons of shows and concerts.

Also, a lot of times we say things like "we only have $50 or whatever left for food for the next two weeks!", not based on how much money we actually have, but sort of arbitrary goals we set, but it gets misinterpreted by people a lot and random strangers give us looks of pity in grocery stores sometimes - which sparked a discussion about how from our conversations, strangers would think we were living in poverty. Hence "Pretend Poverty" was born.