Yep, it's all about identifying barriers to desired actions and either removing them or working around them.
People always think I'm incredibly disciplined because I always get soooo much shit done, but really, I'm not. I'm so productive because I'm INCREDIBLY LAZY and won't do anything if it requires even a modest amount of discipline and motivation to get done.
If something is going to take will power for me to do, I'm simply not going to do it. So if I want to have a given behaviour, I absolutely have to find a way to make that behaviour easy and as frictionless as possible.
In my experience, the bolded section is the part I'm too lazy to do, and then my other laziness kicks in later, and nothing gets done. How do you overcome the initial laziness to set things up to make them easy for future friction points?
It's just about understanding what *exactly* is getting in the way.
If you are legit over burdened, there's no trick or strategy that will make adding a habit easy. So the first step is to identify if your system actually has adaptive capacity to add a new habit. If not, something has to go or capacity has to be somehow increased.
Are you actually lazy or are you fatigued?
If you have capacity, then it's a matter of just directing existing energy towards what you want to be doing and getting the barriers to doing it out of the way.
For example, I listen to audiobooks, but I get restless just sitting listening to a book, so I like to do odd, low-engagement tasks while listening to books. So this means that if I want myself to do more low-engagement tasks, like doing the dishes or doing PT stretches, then putting on an audiobook is a great way to get shit like that done.
Without the audiobook, those tasks are way too boring, which makes them tedious, which makes me not want to do them.