Oh, I have a budget. We only spend 60% of our net. Not a great savings rate by MMM standards, but pretty good compared to...a lot of people.
Here's what happens with cash - say I budget $80 for groceries and my bill comes to $75. I stick to a list and don't buy extra stuff, and I end up with $5 leftover. Now, a really good and organized person would take their cash envelope system and make sure that $5 gets put away when they get home. But I don't. I should, but I don't. So then that $5 ends up feeling like 'free' money and gets spent on who knows what. Whereas if I use my debit or credit, the $75 is all that gets spent. I realize I'm not the norm, but that is how it works for me. I tried it; I failed. Debit and Credit works best for me. YMMV.
I'm the total opposite. If I use a CC or debit card (and probably even if I used a check for purchases) I have a tendency to buy "just a couple of more things" because I have access to more money then I do if I have just cash on me. I generally only take the amount of cash I am willing to spend into a store and no more. Can't spend more than you bring with you...ever... if you are only using cash. Don't want to spend more than $20, don't bring in any more than $20. It's also harder for me to part with cash as it's more "visible" to me than a CC amount - which doesn't become visiable until I get the bill a month later. So using cash makes me stop and think about my spending values more so than with a CC or debit card.
I'm the exact same as Neustache. Leftover change (even fives, tens, and twenties, not just coin change) gets frivolously spent. Credit cards let me only buy exactly what I need/want and not extra junk. Doesn't matter that the limit is 30k or whatever, I only buy what I intended with a CC. I only buy what I intended at first with cash too, but not with the leftover cash.
My question for your cash system though has to do with what I bolded, above. How the heck do you know how much to bring? If you have a list of 20 items you sit at home and calculate how much it will all come to? And you know the price for all of them? What if you need something you don't know the price for? What if the price on something went up? What if you think of something else you need? You have to make another trip? I just don't understand how the "only bring how much cash you need" works in the real world.
I love arebelspy's posts, but the exact opposite is true for us. We went to a cash envelope system for two years. Why it worked:
Cash unspent could roll into next month, but if you are short on, say entertainment envelope, because of neices' birthdays, or back to school shopping, you must borrow from another envelope, such as groceries, then there is no steak for that month...
Going grocery shopping, we bring $200 cash, then need to put back items at the till if we spend over. You can bet it is the BBQ sauce and not the bananas that gets put back.
On a cc I would always justify that little extra as reasonable, BBQ sauce is on sale!, as it was easier just to buy it than put back.
Cash was the only way for us to adjust to new budgets and spend habits.
I loved, loved, loved seeing the $20's build up in my personal allowance jar. Because I did not spend on me, and the cash was not going to pay for household extras anymore. I never had a personal spend allowance before that. It was just one large chequing account.
Lastly, I tend to spend on kids activities too much, but it comes in waves of $200 payments every so often. Envelopes forced me to plan how to pay for big expenses starting 2 months out, including christmas. I would physically count and set aside the cash. I could literally see what was available, and say no to that neato one day craft workshop for DD.
After 2 years, we are back to cc , but I already see some worrying things. A big problem is two spenders and not knowing how much remains in the monthly budget. I have mint setup, but need to get used to looking at it. So much easier to just pull cash out of envelopes, immediately before shopping, and talk before with DH.
I have no problem not spending cash, as I rarely carry more than $10 at a time. Instead, cash is just pulled from the home stash right before the planned shopping trip... Or removed from the budget envelope the same day, when we get home, in the chance we did use a cc after all.