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New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« on: August 13, 2015, 11:25:39 AM »
A terrible thing happened to me 12 years ago that took me off the path toward financial freedom. Five years into a new IT career I forgot what practices had allowed my family to survive an extended unemployment and started to believe I was entitled to the new car, the McMansion, and all the high tech toys I could buy. I did maintain the max out my 401k rule for my whole career but not much else could be called mustachion behavior.  Emergency fund $0.00, 310k in mortgage debt, 15k car loan. Private school & college tuition for 3 kids  (the college age kids get 10k each/yr for college and they cover the rest with loans & summer jobs) can be blamed for some of the lack of savings but much fat needs to be trimmed. 

I started my conversion on Monday with what many would call an easy baptismal baby step. I cut the cable cord with Comcast. A baby step in what will be a 60 month plan to be debt free, college tuition paid and/or in the bank, and quitting my corporate IT job.
« Last Edit: August 31, 2015, 07:47:19 AM by Polish_Hammer »

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2015, 11:45:55 AM »
Congratulations on realizing that you have the power to fix things and get on track for your future, instead of chasing sucka-consumer materialism. Eager to hear updates on how your 5 year plan progresses.

I would suggest that you exorcise those demons instead of exercising them, though. ;-)

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2015, 12:36:23 PM »
The demons are in better fiscal (physical) shape then me that's been the problem ;)

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2015, 09:11:40 PM »
Welcome! There are plenty of us here who have old demons in spandex. Congrats on the cable cut. What's step two?

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2015, 09:39:45 PM »
Polish Hammer, is this you and your demon?
https://youtu.be/e34Z9mGFYVM

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #5 on: August 13, 2015, 10:03:36 PM »
Welcome! There are plenty of us here who have old demons in spandex. Congrats on the cable cut. What's step two?

I'm just going to insert my favorite YouTube video here. People, I give you the 1987 aerobics national championships, sponsored by a Crystal Light.

https://youtu.be/ozoTzkCeO-A
How can I unsee that? The nightmares will haunt me...

Polish_Hammer

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #6 on: August 14, 2015, 04:53:01 PM »
Polish Hammer, is this you and your demon?
https://youtu.be/e34Z9mGFYVM

The one and only Ivan Putski.  :)

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #7 on: August 14, 2015, 10:12:12 PM »
Welcome! There are plenty of us here who have old demons in spandex. Congrats on the cable cut. What's step two?

I'm just going to insert my favorite YouTube video here. People, I give you the 1987 aerobics national championships, sponsored by a Crystal Light.

https://youtu.be/ozoTzkCeO-A
How can I unsee that? The nightmares will haunt me...

I think it's the thong leotard plus pantyhose plus ankle socks combo that'll stick with me.

The hair... oh god the hair

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #8 on: August 15, 2015, 09:24:14 AM »
Welcome to the tribe.

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Re: New Disciple here to excersice the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #9 on: August 15, 2015, 12:15:01 PM »
I saw that typo in the subject line and couldn't wait to see how much fun y'all were going to have with it. As anticipated, nimble mustachians did not disappoint. Thanks for the grins.
 
To the OP: you do not have to fix it, but brace yourself, because I expect there's plenty of (good-natured) humor still to come.

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #10 on: August 31, 2015, 07:46:40 AM »
Baby step #2 (punch in the face)  In a previous post I confessed to being charged out of state tuition for the past two years without my son or I taking notice.  Fast forward past all the hoop jumps and petitions to the University to the 10K that was just deposited into my bank account.  This 10K is being moved to a vanguard Money Market Account taking my emergency fund from zero to 10K.

Baby step#3 re-evaluate my Home owners Insurance.  I had a new roof installed this summer as part of a Hail damage claim. Does that make it a better or worse time to switch insurance companies?

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #11 on: August 31, 2015, 07:56:05 AM »
Baby step #2 (punch in the face)  In a previous post I confessed to being charged out of state tuition for the past two years without my son or I taking notice.  Fast forward past all the hoop jumps and petitions to the University to the 10K that was just deposited into my bank account.  This 10K is being moved to a vanguard Money Market Account taking my emergency fund from zero to 10K.
:) well done!

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #12 on: February 08, 2016, 09:32:19 AM »
Baby step #4.  Before I started my mustachian ways last summer I had financed a car purchase (boo, hiss, laughter) albeit a used car.  Today I paid off the 5yr loan in 2years. Now just the mortgage and college bills left.

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #13 on: March 04, 2016, 07:43:05 AM »
6 months have passed since joining the forum. FIRE date 47months away but in jeopardy.  Current stats:
-Married with 3 kids (22,21,17) (5 more years of college payments & 18months of private school)
-retirement savings for me and wife (800k)
-debt (mortgage only 299,989)
-emergency fund (28k)
-maxing out two 401k's
-1000/mth going into emergency fund

I feel pretty confident that I can have 1 million in retirement by FIRE date but paying off the mortgage seems an impossibility.

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #14 on: March 04, 2016, 08:10:15 AM »
6 months have passed since joining the forum. FIRE date 47months away but in jeopardy.  Current stats:
-Married with 3 kids (22,21,17) (5 more years of college payments & 18months of private school)
-retirement savings for me and wife (800k)
-debt (mortgage only 299,989)
-emergency fund (28k)
-maxing out two 401k's
-1000/mth going into emergency fund

I feel pretty confident that I can have 1 million in retirement by FIRE date but paying off the mortgage seems an impossibility.

Might it be possible to write a check for the mortgage and move into part time work? I've said it before for IT folks but with low monthly bills it becomes really easy to move into consulting and do say a 2 week project every two months. Lets you enjoy FI freedom but not fear for your stache so much.

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #15 on: March 04, 2016, 01:22:44 PM »
6 months have passed since joining the forum. FIRE date 47months away but in jeopardy.  Current stats:
-Married with 3 kids (22,21,17) (5 more years of college payments & 18months of private school)
-retirement savings for me and wife (800k)
-debt (mortgage only 299,989)
-emergency fund (28k)
-maxing out two 401k's
-1000/mth going into emergency fund

I feel pretty confident that I can have 1 million in retirement by FIRE date but paying off the mortgage seems an impossibility.

Might it be possible to write a check for the mortgage and move into part time work? I've said it before for IT folks but with low monthly bills it becomes really easy to move into consulting and do say a 2 week project every two months. Lets you enjoy FI freedom but not fear for your stache so much.

Definitely an option I have open but more wanted to do small contract gigs for those little extras. Just doesn't feel like FIRE if I need it more the basic living expenses

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Re: New Disciple here to excorcise the Hedonistic demons
« Reply #16 on: March 04, 2016, 01:46:53 PM »
Could you downsize your house so you have a smaller mortgage?