In my never ending quest to fend off the nay sayers that doubt our soon to be financial independence, I came across a saying as I was listening to some reggae and enjoying some of the beautiful 80 degree winter weather here in Florida. The saying was "
Don't be a cloud on my sunny day" and it perfectly reflected my thoughts on the negativity people have and their attempts to bring us down on our quest for FI and ER.
I was home alone on a Monday with my wife at work and the kids off at school. My only "to do list" for the day was to enjoy some reggae music and a few beers while slowly smoking three racks of baby back ribs out in front of our garage for dinner later that night. I was sitting there relaxing and enjoying the beautiful, quiet day while the neighbors were coming and going, some of them looking at me as though being at home on a Monday with not a thing to do was odd.
As I sat there reading my book, I realized that this will soon be our lives - relaxing with the wife while others slave away, spending more quality time together, exercising, cooking, doing chores, picking the kids up from school and generally doing what we want - when we want. It instantly put a smile on my face to know that in our early 40's this will soon be our reality, while the neighbors will still be plugging away at their jobs and more and more looking like working zombies.
I have used "Don't be a cloud on my sunny day" on a few negative co-workers since hearing it and it has got the point across to them without being overly rude. Positivity, along with the other lifestyle changes that we have made has put targets on our backs for peoples negativity, but I'm glad that soon we will not have to be around that negativity anymore. ER can't come soon enough!
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