With some finagling I can get my pic to recognize the iPhone when I plug it in by usb. That said, I can only explore the drive that shows pictures which is good.
I also have a program called "touch copy12" which was able to get my notes but oddly enough my notes only showed updates from about July 5th of this year. That would limit my data lost to 2 months instead of 14 months.
I was hoping to get to some text messages but that isn't working for some reason.
1) what's the diff between backup and sync in iTunes?
2) sometimes iTunes recognizes my phone (I can see my backup)and sometimes it thinks the iPhone is u configured (I can't see my backup from July 2014)
3) I agree I will be able to get the phone functional again. I'm just trying not to lose data
4) this is the famous "slide to upgrade" problem which affects iphone4s at a minimum when upgrading to ios9
iOS does not store notes or text messages on the SIM card, so that won't do you any good.
Are you sure you never set up iCloud backup? That's a lot more convenient than backing up to iTunes. (It happens automatically every night if the phone is charging and connected to Wi-Fi.)
Edit: You can check to see if you have an iCloud backup by logging into iCloud.com in a browser on your PC, clicking on Settings, then clicking on the icon representing your 4S. If you have a backup, it should say "Latest Backup: Yesterday at XX:YY PM" or whatever.
Further edit: I just re-read your post (and Doubleh's reply) and I'm confused -- you were able to recover photos from the phone even after it became a "paperweight"? If so, then all is not lost... What makes you think it is a paperweight? What are you seeing on the screen when you try to power it on?