A clean house - a supper I didn't have to cook, serve and clean up all by myself for once!:) Take the kid(s) somewhere and let me spend some time alone or with a friend ...
Everyone loves a day off work - you do right?!:)
When my son was little he loved to do the homemade card and breakfast in bed - which was always torture for me:) whispering now - I hated the messed up kitchen below-which I ended up cleaning, the spillage mess in the bed and maybe I'm weird, but I much prefer to eat a grown up brunch at eleven with my favorite beverage.
Sleeping in is a wonderful thing, when you are a busy mom - it just never happens.
On the subject of flowers:
As a passionate gardener - I'm easy - if you don't know, get me a gift certificate to my favorite garden center or for Lowes. I love flowers, period, but I do not need an extravagant bouquet of roses that cost the earth. I'd be happy with one of those mini roses in a pot you can get at the grocery store's flower dept. They are easy to tend or plant in the garden and bring pleasure for years.
Here are a few ideas:
$10 orchid - looks impressive and blooms a long time - long enough to keep telling everyone that "HE" got that for me on Mother's Day:) I still have the set of three orchids he got for $20 at a local garden center 3 years ago - a nice reminder how sweet he is.
$12 - gets you 3 bunches of flowers from Publix to mix and match - good for a week. I can display a single flower in the kitchen window above the sink, make a bouquet for the dining table and decide if I want to put the remaining blooms in the bathroom, study or living room.
$15 hanging planter with blooming trailing flowers for the entry - an uplifting, welcoming sight when you come home from work.
OR
Get a mixed planter of herbs for a sunny windowsill - saves money in the future (organic herbs are expensive) and you always have fresh cilantro, garlic chives or a variety of basils for your salads and sauces. A gift that keeps on giving and you benefit from it as well.
Besides that, I love a Barnes and Noble gift card, because it means I get to spend an afternoon or evening browsing for books and sipping my favorite latte in their coffee shop - guilt free. No thinking about, "I really shouldn't have bought that cup of coffee". I hate to wait for weeks for a new title at the library and it is simply a pleasure for me to hold a book and enjoy the visual treat of the newest books on display.
Having said that, I will chime in with, "I spent $54 to send flowers to my mom in Germany", along with a small box of chocolates to be delivered to her Nursing Home. She'll be happy to know I thought of her and that is really all that counts.
Bottomline, it's not about the money, but I'd like a flower - so go find a park or a meadow or a neighbor's garden and beg or steal me one, if you really can't stand to part with $3.99 for a simple bouquet from the grocery store. Then get to work cleaning up the place and cook me a fine dinner:)
Oh and OP ... sounds like all the girls at work get flowers and I can tell you from experience what a high it is to be the one to be called to get her bouquet from the receptionist, with everyone watching ....
You get over that after a few years and maybe a different culture at work. Treat the mother of your children well, because, really, it is not about the money:) - sometimes just being a good sport about something goes a long way toward having a happy relationship.